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Friday, November 28, 2008

She Wants Her Cake, AND TO EAT IT, TOO. The Fat Slob Doesn't Want ANYONE Else to Have it The SAME.


The Improper Adoptee wants it HER WAY OR NO WAY. Is anyone surprised?

In many blog entries here, I've said to her that I would gladly remove the stuff that makes her blood boil (though I think it boils on it's own), if she would just remove the libelous blogs and the link to my Myspace page, as well as the picture she stole and used without my permission — copyright infringement — but she's refused, and by refused I mean that my asking seems to exacerbate the situation. She's done nothing but laugh, sneer and post more libel and defamatory garbage, not only on her own horrible blog, but on other people's blogs in their comments. She does NOT want to stop being a big, cruel bitch. She enjoys doing what she is doing, which is harassing me. She gets pleasure out of stalking me and reading about my life, then copying it all and burning it to CD. It's really fucking creepy.

Anyone who knows how this horrid situation with this vile woman originated, and who knows the threats she made against my life — subtle, yet threats none the less — knows I asked last spring for her to CEASE AND DESIST. I asked her many times, dozens while she was a MySpace member and then dozens more when I finally was made aware of her blogs about me. She ignored all requests and claims she is "exposing a pro-adoption troll" when she knows she is really not removing the lies or stopping the cruelty because SHE IS HAVING FUN and SHE IS AN ABUSIVE, CRUEL CYBERBULLY.

I asked her is March. I asked her in June. I asked her last week. She refused.

Once she was banned and graylisted from MySpace, I thought I was finally safe from her, but she only moved her means of abusing me — to Blogger. I asked her in Sept. when I found her blog entry posted in MAY that referred to me. She refused.

I want her to go to court. I want her to do what she keeps threatening me with.

DO IT, BULLY.

Stop threatening me with it and do it. And while I'm here on the topic of threats, I have to wonder why you've stopped threatening my life. Do you pretend to your 5 friends that you never once threatened another person with death, or wished it upon them, OR sent them a supposed "native death curse" via your "supposed" native friend? Don't tell me, you've hid that part of your life from your Blogger buddies? Your MySpace pals were well aware of your death threats, why not let Gershom, Joy, and whoever is part of the naivé and ignorant gang in on your "I'm so cool and cruel I send death threats!" already? If you're so close to them and so honest with them, come clean completely. What do you have to hide? They are your friends, right? Tell them about your death threats and honest to god hopes of people dying for your personal pleasure. DO IT, BULLY.


She's said in her blogs,
"so who is spookie? Is she a crazed multiple, a salivating PAP, a bitter Adoptive Mother, or just anover indulged out of control youth? Only her isp server would know for sure......but no matter who she is, the horrible remarks she has made to those hurt by Adoption are unforgivable."
So, what are these horrible remarks, and where are they posted? Who did I supposedly say them to? When were remarks ever made about adoption that were hurtful?
I'd like THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE to step up to the plate and SHOW HER PROOF.

DO IT, BULLY.

She's said in her blogs,
"Why then, is she so volatile about my telling of the oppressive system it is, and how my Adoptive Mother abused me, and that closed Adoption records truly are involuntary servitude and child abuse. Why does she get so enraged and hysterical because I have talked about the legal baby stealing BSE Mothers went through and how facts about Adoptees identities were purposely misconstrued to keep our Mothers and us confused about who we really are?"
Again, where are these comments? When was I ever volatile about IA telling the truth about the oppressive adoption system?!? SHOW THE PROOF, BULLY.

She can't. She can't because all of this NEVER TOOK PLACE. This isn't my issue, my war to fight or my "thing" I chose to stand up for and fight for. I have no connections really to adoption, so why would I take any stances so strongly on adoption? Because I DIDN'T. This is all a concocted fantasy of The Improper Adoptee meant to help her convince herself and others that I'm the cruel one.

Sorry, lady, but it's just not working. I'm not involved in adoption. I only became interested in some issues because I found the link to The Daily Bastardette and read her blogs, but I'm still not some advocate and I never will be. I'd sign petitions to get records open, sure. I don't believe anything should be kept secret. As far as the rest of your nonsense, your cruel, abusive libel towards me, it's all defamatory crap that you want to believe so you can continue to HATE, and so that you can hang on to your negative feelings and your made-up stories and never let go, because YOU ENJOY PAIN AND SUFFERING and you must want others to suffer. I pity you.





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She has MORE LABELS with "spookie" than with most issues relating to ADOPTION. What does that say?

Link to Kim's blog containing The Improper Adoptee's comment: http://fait-en-coree.blogspot.com/2008/11/un-livre-lire.html

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

"and it is mentally healthier for any child to be raised by those who created them."

OH really. ORLY? Yes, really.


ALL the time? ALL THE TIME? I mean ALL THE TIME, Seriously?

Even if the mother didn't want the child and will not care for the child AND WILL LEAVE IT ALONE AS AN INFANT WHILE SHE GOES OUT TO DO SELFISH ACTS?

OH, OKAY. You must know a lot more than everyone else.
Of course you do. You're the, whoops, THE Authority on the topic.

My bad. There are NO unfit mothers on this planet. There are only adopted babies who come from real women who were forced to give them away, many times by Christian Organizations, of course, because they were single and poor (just like you said) and they were manipulated and tricked by evil people, so that rich barren women could raise their child, and rob them of their true heritage and their bonding with their mother, on purpose, because all adoptions are so cruel and evil. There's never been an adoption that was for the better! Nope.

*I'm not "pro-adoption," nor am I anti-adoption; I don't believe that ALL cases of adoption are wrong, and this does not make me pro-adoption at all. I believe adoption is necessary due to circumstances beyond our control, but that certain laws should be changed, and sooner, not later or never. TBC...

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

The Real Improper Adoptee, Uncut and Unedited

MEET MY CYBERBULLY AND STALKER.

SHE CALLS HERSELF "THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE." She has also been known as "StepFord Child" and "StepfordChild," "Native Warrior" and "Burned." There are probably other identities she has taken on. She currently uses "anonymous" when posting to her own blog and other users' blogs. She's cruel, selfish and heartless. She will never hold back, and will always play the victim card. She's a serial bully. I'm not her first victim, and I won't be her last, unless she is stopped.





You can't just make this stuff up.

THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE. A poster child for people gone wrong. Living proof that abuse, regardless of if the child is adopted or is your own natural child, will grow up and become one messed up adult. This woman is no gentle hand on your shoulder. Maybe if you follow her rules she is, but not if you dare do anything she feels is dishonest, and that could be anything, even something very honest and done because you felt you were on good enough terms to ask questions and have conversations that were deeper than talking about idiots. Be careful. This is no compassionate ear that listens when you need it, but a heartless knife that will stab you in the back. Watch what you say. This is no psychic. This is a psychotic.

The following lists, Villains, Blog Archive and Labels are pulled directly off The Improper Adoptee's blog. I've included the Archive because it clearly shows how many blogs are NOT about adoption issues.

Blog Archive


Labels



This is for all the puppets, the idiots, the total strangers who came out of the woodwork to tell me off and say that I was harassing their poor victimized friend The Improper Adoptee (in September or October 2008) when they had managed to overlook their own friend's blog, and completely missed all the libel, abuse and mockery that this sick, deluded bitch was posting about me since May 2008 on her Blogger site. Let's not forget that this is just the libel and hate she's posted on Blogger. She began her sick obsession with me long before the blogging world. I said it before and I'll repeat it here: I reported this woman in March 2008 after putting up with her for long enough. She'd violated far too many Terms of Service on Myspace, and I decided to just have her removed. With real evidence, they will delete you. All I had to do was give Myspace the URL's to IA's (then known as StepFord Child) harassment of an adoption group, her posting of a hate bulletin full of libel and defamatory comments and links to many other posts in numerous groups in which StepFord Child was harassing users for their opinions, opinions that Improper Adoptee didn't/doesn't agree with, and so she felt/feels she must attack those users. The Improper Adoptee cried wolf on her blog, claiming I hacked her profile and somehow faked evidence to fool MySpace into having her account deleted three times. Oddly, she says it was 4 times, which means the sock puppet account named "Native Warrior," which came out of the blue and attacked me for no reason at all, was indeed StepFordChild. ("Native Warrior" never posted anywhere prior to StepfordChild/Improper Adoptee's deletion, and suddenly appeared after Improper Adoptee was permanently banned from Myspace) That would make 4 deletions and explain her statement about being deleted from that site a total of 4 times.

It's very difficult to have anyone deleted from MySpace, unless they are a pedophile. MySpace makes you jump through hoops like a circus seal. You can send them screenshots and include URL's to match up with the screenshots, and Myspace with reply, asking you again for URL's. Sometimes you wonder if there's a human behind Customer Care, or a very stupid bot that hasn't yet passed the training stage in software development. IA/SC/anonymous was not deleted until a real, live human looked over all of her posts in all the groups I linked to, and decided "YES, she has to go." I wasn't the only one who reported her either. She'd been reported for bigotry, racism, anti-semitism, hate comments, cyberbullying, abuse, harassment…I think anyone reading this gets the point.

Oddly, only the adoption users and myself ended up on this lunatics "HATE LIST," or "HIT LIST." It can be called a hit list because now and then, Improper Adoptee attacks a couple of us in her comments on others' blogs, or in her own blogs or her own comments to herself.

Has anyone noticed that many of Improper Adoptee's friend are carnivores? I mention this because on MySpace, if you were a meat eater, you were subjected to her hateful posts almost daily. Improper Adoptee ripped into omnivore humans all the time in various animal groups, yet never does the same to her adoptee friends. Why the exception?

I noticed that she is close (as in "net-pals") with some bloggers who love meat, and yet she bites her tongue and doesn't dare say anything about their love of eating that cute, smiley cow or that adorable little pig. Why isn't she ripping into them? Why was it okay for her to rip into total strangers all over the internet, but when it comes to follow anti-adoption adoptees, she can hold back her AR rantings? Why isn't she pushing her vegetarianism on her adopted pals who love to BBQ, and not for its grilling of vegetables? While on this topic briefly, why isn't IA VEGAN? If she is so concerned about the treatment of animals, shouldn't she be a strict vegan? She claims, after all, that her problem with me is because I said something about her Trader Joe's post, which referred to the abuse of dairy cows.

The Improper Adoptee has surely read the blog entry about me over and over again, so she knows this particular section I am quoting, just to show what a hypocritical dolt she is.
Here's words written by KITE KAMP GIRL/Amy Adoptee:

There are very strict rules with dogs and cats on a ranch anywhere in this country. If a dog goes after livestock, sadly he does get put down. If a dog kills that livestock, he gets put down. The rule even extends to killing cats for us. If a cat or dog attacks a child or human being, it gets put down. We have sent horses back to the remuda (horse herd) because they were not able to be controlled or did not have any manners. We also kill rattlers out here. Our cats eat tons of mice. We put down skunks, raccoons, hogs, and rattlers. Skunks can be rabid. Raccoons eat all the cat food. Hogs destroy pens. Rattlers are just plain poisonous and deadly. Coyotes tend to kill livestock as well. They get shot.

Had that been posted on MySpace, "StepFordChild would have ripped into the poster and not only attacked like a rabid…hmmm, I can't say animal because even they act more appropriate, but you get the gist here. After that, she'd send out bulletins and post those same bulletins to as many groups as possible, linking back to the original poster's profile and asking for "people to tell this __________ off and ___________ and make sure you let them know they should drop dead, I hope they DIE!!!!!!!" Don't think so? I can link you to some MySpace posts where she doesn't this.

I'm the moderator of a group called "STOP Cruelty Against Animals," and it's not about food, it's about abuse — by people — and has a guideline on the main page about food discussions not being allowed to turn into fights. I don't allow veg. vs meat topics. IA/SC always fought with members of the group about what they chose to eat. It's why she was always getting into fights. She didn't know when to just shut up.

As for The Very Improper Adoptee's friends, the friends who supposedly have lied along with her, I feel sorry for them. Gershom for example. Gershom's email was easily available. IA claims I had to "hack" Gershom to get it. I quote IA's libelog:
"So how DID spookie get Gershom's email? She hacked her of course. And no, it wasn't ME who said she was harassing Gershom daily, Gershom said she was being harassed by this vampiric abuser which she was."
How hysterical. Does Gershom believe this? Who knows. I assume so, since Gershom has never once said differently. If Gershom's smart, she knows where her email is public. She's a blogger; her email is available on one of those pages within one of her blogging areas. I exchanged 3-4 emails with her, and when she said she didn't want a reply, I never replied again. When she emailed me again, asking for more information, I decided no, I was not going to reply to her, because she had pre-judged me and she had said some cruel and ignorant things that made me feel she couldn't be trusted. She said not to reply, and I sure wasn't go to. I didn't need someone claiming I was harassing them to have "evidence" by my replying to her questions, valid or not, and her question was valid — I just couldn't answer it because I didn't have a right to. What she'd asked for was information I wasn't able to give her; it was not my group or forum and I didn't have the right to overstep the moderator and give her the URL to a private and hidden area. IA claims Gershom received 100 posts to her blog, from me. That's just something I laughed at, because it was so untrue, and there was no reason for it. Gershom didn't blog about me and Gershom didn't say anything libelous or post hate. Improper Adoptee loves her lies! It was pretty pathetic when Gershom didn't have the maturity or the decency to admit that what The Improper Adoptee claimed was simply untrue. She even continues to back up IA's lies with a post to another bullshitter, Amy.
Gershom said...yeah thats just outright lame. They tried the same thing with me and my blog. sooo lame.
3:21 PM
So Gershom, who is "they?" Maybe you should clear that up, or would you rather ignore it like you ignore everything else? I had a very small few exchanged via email with you, and no posts to your blog. What would you like to concoct? Yes, Gershom, SO LAME.


The Improper Adoptee said: Hugs to Amy, Gershom, Cassie and my Attorney....:)
Yeah, your attorney. Are you paying this person? He/she doesn't seem to be doing much. I think these "attorney" comments you enjoy throwing out here and there are just for show.

Now let's get down to business, Improper. Why did you lie? You said on September 8th, in your insane rambling nonsense of a blog, that it was your LAST MESSAGE. Why didn't you shut the fuck up?!? Why are you still at it? Where are the cops? The hackers?

You know what makes you an even bigger ass? The fact that you actually think you're being stalked, bullied or whatever, because:
"PREDJUDICED AGAINST ME BECAUSE I AM A BASTARD AND AM ADOPTED"

My God, you are seriously mentally ill. I really pity you. I wish you'd rip off your horse blinds and call a psychologist. I have NO predjudice against adoptees. That's ludicrous! YOU have predjudice against non-adoptees — and many other peoples. Let's not expose the REAL YOU. Actually, I'd rather you do it yourself, since you've already started to.


Monday, September 8, 2008


LAST MESSAGE TO SPOOKIE


YOU OBVIOUSLY DIDN'T READ THE COMMENTS I LEFT TO YOUR COMMENTS ON MY LAST BLOG-I SWORE THAT IF YOU SEND ME ONE MORE MESSAGE I AM GOING TO THE COPS AND I GETTING THEM TO HACK YOUR ACCOUNT-I HAVE PUT A RESTRAINING ORDER BEFORE THROUGH THE COURT HERE ON SOMEONE ELSE YOU VERY MUCH REMIND ME OF TOO, AND I WILL TAKE LEGAL ACTION AGAINST YOU. THIS IS YOUR LAST WARNING-YOU HARRASS ME AGAIN, THEN YOU DEAL WITH THE POLICE YOU STALKING CYBERBULLY. IT IS VERY SAD THAT YOU ARE SO IMMORAL, SO IMMATURE THAT YOU REFUSE TO ACKNOWLEDGE WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO ME, YOU DISH IT OUT BUT REFUSE TO ACCEPT JUST CRITICISM ABOUT YOURSELF AND HAVE NO CONSCIENCE WHAT SO EVER. THE FOLLOWING IS WHAT I POSTED YESTERDAY: GO LOOK YOURSELF

urevilincarn8 said...
Did you drop dead yet? Darn.
Meanydoodle. Visit my group then.

Jaymie

September 7, 2008 11:24 AM


The Improper Adoptee said...
Whata loser you are spookie, that you make up other idenities to harrass someone that you hurt on purpose to begin with. You are an insideous, insepid, meanspirited, immature bitch who goes and sets people up, and then trashes them because they do not want to deal with you. You are an hysterical prima donna demon who cant STAND HAVING YOUR EVIL IGNORED. You are one of the biggest spoiled brats I have ever met, with the exception of my Adoptive Mother and two guys I had the displeasure of knowing once. And oh yeah, the three nutcases that date raped me once. Hey-I have a question for you-does a dork win. Get it? GO AHEAD WITH YOUR GROUP, AND CONTINUE TO INSULT PEOPLE LIKE ADOPTEE RIGHTS PROTEST. I AM TAKING LEGAL ACTION AGAINST YOU, I AM SUING YOU AND FOX(MY SPACE) FOR CYBER BULLYING AND HARRASSMENT AND STALKING AND BEING PREDJUDICED AGAINST ME BECAUSE I AM A BASTARD AND AM ADOPTED IF YOUR GROUP DOESN'T COME DOWN. WHAT YOU HAVE DONE IS A HATE CRIME. YOU INIITATED CONTACT WITH ME AND I HAVE THE PROOF. I ALSO HAVE ALL THE PROOF OF BEING PICKED ON AND THAT ANYTHING I SAID BACK WAS JUST DEFENDING MYSELF AFTER I WAS VERBALLY ABUSED IN THE FIRST PLACE. YOU SEND ME ONE MORE COMMENT, AND I STILL HAVE MOST OF THEM AND I SWEAR TO GOD I AM CALLING THE POLICE AND HAVING THEM HACK YOUR ACCOUNT. HOW I REACTED TO ABUSE DOES NOT MATTER.WHAT MATTERS IS THE ABUSE SPEWED ON ME BY BULLIES LIKE YOU AND LAUREN AND LISA MARIE. AND BEING THE LIAR YOU ARE YOU NEVER SHOW HOW I WAS PICKED ON TO BEGIN WITH AND ANYTHING I EVER SAID WAS A REACTION TO THAT ABUSE. TAKE YOUR UNJUSTIFIED VENGENCE AND SHOVE IT UP YOUR WORTHLESS ASS AND STOP PICKING ON GERSHOM AND ME. YOUR LITTLE GROUP OF CORNIE SPICKED ON BLANKET GIRLS AND ROSE TOO, AND I AM SURE THEY WILL BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO VERIFY THAT. YOU ARE A SPAMMER, GERSHOM'S INBOX IS PROOF OF THAT, AND SO IS MINE, SENDING THE SAME LONG LYING MESSAGES THREE OR FOUR TIMES IN A ROW. YOU GO HARRASS AND PICK ON GERSHOM ONLY BECAUSE SHE TOOK MY SIDE AND THEN YOU CALL HER A MORON. ALL YOU DO IS YOU MAKE EVERYTHING I SAY ABOUT YOU TRUE EVERYDAY ONLINE.

September 7, 2008 5:52 PM


The Improper Adoptee said...
YOUR LITTLE GROUP OF *CORNIES

YOUR LITTLE GROUP OF *CRONIES

September 7, 2008 5:54 PM


The Improper Adoptee said...
Oh and btw you VAMPIRE AND YES YOU ARE A VAMPIRE IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD, INCLUDING A PSYCHIC VAMPIRE, how incredibly stupid you make yourself look saying assine things like I think about you and its creepy due to my last blog, BUT YOU PUT UP A GROUP AGAINST ME AND YOU WEREN'T THINKING ABOUT ME? HA!

September 7, 2008 6:12 PM


The Improper Adoptee said...
AND GO AHEAD AND MAKE FUN OF MY BLOG MEANYDOODLES-THERE ARE MILLIONS OF ADOPTEES THAT FEEL THE PAIN I TALKED ABOUT IN THAT BLOG, AND WHEN YOU MAKE FUN OF IT, YOU MAKE FUN OF EVERYONE WHO HAD TO ENDURE THAT PAIN. SO WHAT DOES THAT MAKE YOU?.....

September 7, 2008 6:14 PM

2comments:

Awesomesaid...
Hey, Stepford Chick! Do you remember me? I'm Vestigial Thumb! I'm just posting to congratulate you on your new pro-adoption blog but also to note that I'm not on your list of friends with Spookie, which is sort of disappointing because I did have a lot of fun with you Mostly I'm just looking for acknowledgement

Anywho, bye!
The Improper Adoptee said...
You call it fun, I call it abuse, which it was-tormemtning me in my Animal Rights group with Chainsaw, who kept coming in and saying horrible things.(while both of you tortured other animal right activists in other groups all the time) DO NOT SEND ME ANY MORE COMMENTS YOU ANIMAL RIGHTS ACTIVIST ABUSING TROLL. (who is probably spookie too)
While culling IA's Libelog, I found this comment:
There are so many people who are Pro-Adoption on line (and some makecopy cat profiles of other people as well) who pretend they are Adoptees happy that they are Adopted, etc, etc, etc...
Now I have no reason to lie for another person, but my friend is happy. This is why StepFordChild originally went after me. If murder was legal, I'd be dead. Because my friend is content and was happy that her foster family decided to legally adopt her, StepFord Child decided I had to be lying and therefore I deserved to be bullied and abused for as long as possible, and not only that, I needed to be punished. I had to be put in my place for telling such a horrid adoption story, one that doesn't fit her agenda, one that had to be a lie, because God forbid there is even one adopted person out there who isn't a disgruntled person. My friend knows her real family, and knew her real mother. She has no questions about her original birth certificate. Her situation is not like others at all. This didn't change The Improper Adoptee's view on her adoption. To IA, it was still all a lie. When something is not how IA insists it is, it must be a lie or it can't be said, written, put on the internet or uttered to another, or you (or the person who has dared to say it or write about it) will pay the consequences.

Before this UTTER NUTTER ever stalked me, I had never paid much attention to adoption of humans. I'm not adopted, my child is not adopted and no one in my immediate family is adopted. I have a nephew who is forever screwed because my cousin gave her brother legal guardianship of her son, and had she chosen adoption, she could have gotten him back when she changed her mind 5 weeks later. She had twins, and at the time, she was in a mental state that was not stable. Legal guardianship basically screwed her. My other cousin, my nephew's "father," is a horrible parent who steals his birthday and holiday money, teaches him nothing good for his future as an adult and wanted him to go into the military because, as he told my nephew, college is expensive and "you're too stupid to go to college. I went into the military, and you should because you're just not smart and only smart people go to school." I'm so glad my nephew doesn't call him "Dad." To make things even "happier," the mother figure is bipolar and makes sure to announce this at every gathering. It's her excuse for acting out, or being rude. She had gotten a huge inheritance a couple of years ago, and instead of using it for the family, or to help with rent, she bought herself a tremendous wardrobe, all designer, and didn't leave anything for even a few month's rent. The wardrobe, designer and expensive, looks like it could've been bought at any mall store, is matronly, and she wears it to her job as a librarian. That was far more important than caring for my nephew, or making sure she and her hubby, my idiot cousin, had a roof over their heads.

I think it's time I just post ALL of The Improper Adoptee's LIBELogs that are labeled with my nickname. That should suffice is showing just how ill this woman is, and also prove was a farce her blog really is. She blogs here and there about anti-adoption, but her real reason for starting her blog? HATE.


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Saturday, November 1, 2008


ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME!!!

The only Hate going on over at The Daily Bastardette is the Hate Marley and her regulars have for PETA. And for someone who defends PETA in anyway. Or for anyone who defends me. Hate is s term thrown around loosely too, as Marley encourages debate that morphs into Hate from her quite quickly if anyone disagrees with her blogs or her basic views on subjects from guacamole to the death penalty. I was busy a few days ago with many things, and I did not go online until about 5'oclock. I signed into my blog and published a few comments I had gotten for my last blog concerning a whole lot a hatin goin on, and then I went into one of my personal E-mail accounts. I had four new E-mails. All replies and all from animal activist friends I met on my space months ago or know from here where I live. One of my friends told me he had made a comment that day on The Daily Bastardette and to let him know what I thought of it. So in I went, to the stern, stuffy old school marms blog and I didn't see any comment from my friend. So I wrote him back, and told him that there was no comment there. "Are you sure"? he wrote back half an hour later, "I know it took, I saw it".
The last comment I made on The Daily Bastardette had nothing to do with Hate. Despite what closed minded people may think.

The Improper Adoptee said...
Also too Kevan, Hitler was going into last stage syphilis the whole time he was making plans for the Holocaust. He was in the last stage of it, when he started rounding up Jehovah's witnesses, gypsies and jews. Everyone knows syphilis makes people insane, and that is WHY he was insane. He may not of ever done what he did, if he wasn't afflicted with that disease. The Nazi's however have no excuse.(Unless they had it too) And no, don't flip out, I'm not condoning the Holocoust, people just don't ever talk about one of the main reasons Hilter went over the line. No one knows how he would of been if he wasn't mentally ill from vd.
Saturday, October 25, 2008 8:43:00 AM EDT

Anonymous said...
Whoa ! Hitler !
Invoke Godwin's law.
Kippa
Saturday, October 25, 2008 8:51:00 AM EDT

The Improper Adoptee said...
Kevan brought up Hitler first kippa.
Kevan! Whoa!
Invoke Quirk's Exception!.....
Saturday, October 25, 2008 8:59:00 AM EDT

As a matter of fact, I found an interesting link WRITTEN BY A HOLOCAUST SURVIVOR, who thinks that Hilter went insane from syphilis too and here it is:

http://www.kimel.net/syphilitic.html

So does that mean that this man is full of hate too?......

"I basically told them how Raine and her cronies were all over you for days and ignored what Motari did"

That was the first thing my friend said to me, when he wrote back the second time, after I had told him there was no new comment from anyone on my side from the 28th.

"The bitch deleted it". _______ copied it, here ya go"(my other friends name edited out now by me), he replied.
It was a comment that explained what happened on the my space forum, where I was for months, insulted, attacked, made fun of and called insane, no matter what I said, and no matter what ugly truths I brought up. Fifteen or sixteen people at once, were constantly calling me horrible names, lambasting me, pushing me up against a wall, trying to rub salt into my wounds and laughing about it everyday. If I told them I was hurt, they would laugh. If I ignored their vile remarks they would laugh. If I told them off in return they would laugh too. But then come back even harder. They ostracised me, undermined me, tried to manipulate me, tried to provoke me and said I was stupid, over and over again for how I felt concerning subjects that caused me alot of pain. One of those subjects was David Motari, a U. S. Marine in Iraq who viciously and with great force threw an innocent two month old puppy over a cliff, while he had one of his friends tape it and then later launched this atrocity on You Tube.
He was laughing too. This had happened during the time I was being ripped apart on this Adoption forum by the people who are dubbed Villians of My Space on my blog. I had first heard about Motari's heartbreaking stunt, from over 40 bulletins I had gotten by other animal activists who were on my my space friends list. The anger and rage at what this monster had done, was overwhelming, with activist after activist saying someone should throw him over a cliff too, that they wanted him dead, and that he would get his karma. And they meant it. Someone put up a website too, asking people to write to the military and vehemently complain about this sociopath.
http://www.david-motari.com/
If you ever saw the You Tube video Motari made, you know you could hear the poor little baby dog whining and crying as Motari was roughly holding him and as he went flying through the air to his undeserved death. I know that sweet puppy knew Motari was going to hurt him. Animals have a sixth sense and know these things. So instead of having his need to be protected, respected and loved by a human being who henever hurt honored, this harmless little being spend his last hour on earth, feeling betrayed and about to be abused for doing absolutely nothing. The last sounds this poor puppy made, made me literally ill. It took me days, days to calm down from seeing that. Days, to calm down too due to the sadistic pleasure evident on Motari's face after he murdered a helpless and loving animal, WHEN HE WAS SUPPOSED TO BE PROTECTING OUR COUNTRY and days to stop crying too. I wasn't the only one who felt this way either. The HSUS was outraged, as was PETA and millions of other Americans. So were people who weren't even Animal Right Activists. So much so, someone made this video and put it on YouTube:


I received many more bulletins as well on my space, of other videos U.S.soldiers were making. Of blowing up kittens. And shooting cats. Dogs too. Apparently, our "heroes" were using animals as target practice in Iraq. This made my blood boil. Most of those fighting in Iraq voluntarily joined the Army before this war broke out. I know someone here in my town, who told me that alot of young men join the army because they WANT to kill. They are violent to begin with, and enjoy being able to kill legally and get paid for that on top of it. I have to wonder how healthy these people are. The 28 year old male who told me this was in the military for a while too. Until he got out. He didn't enjoy his experience in the army. I didn't enjoy hearing either about how little innocent 5 year old Iraqi children have gasoline poured on them and are then set on fire. I will never forget the pictures of that poor little child (before and after this tragedy below) who just wanted to play outside in his front yard, despite the madness going on around him, and who had his life destroyed possibly by our soldiers just because of his nationality.
I THINK THAT IS HATE.

I had brought this up on that Adoption forum as well, along with an article I was sent by a friend, written by a Lt. in the U.S. army who had just come back from Iraq, who stated that there were never any weapons of mass destruction and Bush had lied to the entire country. This article was printed in a magazine and he went on to say, that soldiers were shooting and killing innocent Iraqi families, WOMEN AND CHILDREN, just for the hell of it. These people were not terrorists. They had nothing to do with any Twin Tower bombings. Or planes crashing into the Pentagon. They just had the misfortune of having to live within a war in their own backyards. They were just civilians. And were innocent by standers. To hate all Iraqi's is HATE. Especially when there is still no 100% proof that any one from Iraq forced those planes into those skyscrapers on 9/11. Many Americans believe Bush and Cheney are responsible for this. The young man I talked too here where I live, pointed out to me, that the day before 9/11, all the dogs were taken out of the Twin Towers. "Why do you think they did THAT"? he asked me. He doesn't think Iraqi terrorists had anything to do with 9/11 either. But as I wrote about the article that this Lt. had written, and about the child set on fire, and about innocent kids being murdered everyday, Raine didn't care about any of that either. I was called,"oversensitive" and "a conspiracy theorist" for being upset about these things, with some "get help" thrown in for good measure, and she just kept on defending the military and and her son, who she never once said, was drafted and forced to be in Iraq. After an especially rude remark from her, and a few from her other U.S. military, puppy killing, supporting friends on that forum, I said to her, that her son could be killing innocent animals too. Her son could be killing children everyday. How does she know what he is doing over there? Since Raine decided to verbally abuse me for my actually being concerned about beings and people other than myself, I then I said to her too, something that has been lied about and twisted, and as a friend of mine who read the whole thread, as it was happening said, "totally taken out of context" over and over again........that if he is killing innocent animals and children, then he is child killer, which is nothing to be proud off, and he will get his karma.
This remark was used as an empathy tool. Something I do alot. To try to make people understand that it isn't just all about them. Because there is NO reason to kill a child or animal during a war. Neither has anything to do, with a President's need for revenge, for what ever reason, or because country leaders are not intelligent enough to talk their differences out. Gas and oil are not good enough reasons to leave an Iraqi mother of a 3 year old in horrific grief either. AND AS SOME BSE MOTHERS HERE, TALK CONSTANTLY ABOUT THE PAIN THEY FEEL HAVING A BABY TAKEN FROM THEM, THEY CONVENIENTLY IGNORE THE PAIN OF MOTHERS IN ANOTHER COUNTRY WHO HAS LOS THER CHILD AS WELL. THROUGH DEATH. But a Mother's pain is a Mother's pain. Whether that Mother has lost a child to Adoption or has been an innocent bystander in a war and watched her minor child killed by American soldiers. One pain is not greater than the other. One pain is NOT MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE OTHER. Especially when the pain caused to Iraqi Mothers could be caused by desendants of BSE Mothers. I am not "damaged" because I do not believe that puppies should be thrown over cliffs, or women and children should be purposely murdered for the hell of it, or because I say something of truth and as hurtful right back to someone who terrorized me for a long period of time. I am not "damaged"either, because I care about animals in factory farms and in slaughterhouses. I am also not shooting or killing any one either, nor would I. Nor am I an "extremist" because I am mature enough, and smart enough to see that the prejudice towards Adoptees and women who have children out of wedlock, comes from the same HATE and attitudes that created the slavery system, caused Europeans to steal Native children and sell them as slaves, or considers abortion a "women's choice, while ignoring the fact that aborted babies try to move away from the instruments used to kill them because they don't want to die. Bastard Nation likes to think that they own the entire subject of Safe Havens and that no other group of activists, or other people for that matter, have a right to mention the misfortune that has happened in Nebraska. That the Safe Haven program is all about them, them, them. And that no one who isn't Adopted or a Mother who was manipulated into giving her child away, has any business discussing this or being upset by it. But they, especially Marley is wrong. And in essence, she has done nothing but turn off and turn away many Non-Adopted people and women who never had social workers take their infant due to an unmarried status, who are animal activists from giving their support to the closed record fight. Many people in PETA and other animal right's groups vie for open Adoption records, and the begetting of OBC's, but as she has insulted them, she has cost us many supporters. People who hate to see animals mistreated, usually hate to see kids mistreated as well, and they have just as much right to speak out about a system gone wrong in Nebraskaas I do as an Adoptee about animals being mistreated as well. But she sees that about as clearly as she sees the word IS SARDONIC, NOT SARCASTIC, to express BN's writing technique. spookie of course has been stalking me and hanging out at The Daily Bastardette and spying there 24/7, and because Marley thinks I am a hater, because I think all reasons for the Holocaust happening should be examined, she has been all over my banning, like a vulture over a dead rabbit. She has also send Kite Kamp Girl more threatening comments, and is now out to get the AAAFC forum as well. Hiding behind more new profiles, like "psychprof", she continues to lie about me, and present me in a light that is unrealistic. Just as Marley did on her blog when my friend's comment about what really happened on that Adoption forum concerning my comment to Raine was deleted, to construct me looking a certain way, a way that is bogus. I HAVE ALSO FOUND OUT TOO, THAT EITHER SPOOKIE OR SOMEONE IN CAHOOTS WITH HER LIVES IN THE SAME AREA I LIVE IN. Over the last year,I have received many prank phonecalls, have found trash strewn in my yard, and about *15 times(whoops, typo, should read 5 times) someone has tried to get into my house when I was home, through the garage door. This has angered me, and terrified my pets. The loud banging noise this makes, even made one of my cats hiss the poor baby so was scared. I have an automatic door opener, that I unplug from the wall, because my cats have stepped on the remote raising the door in the past, and since they love to sleep in my car at night which I at all times keep in the garage, I do not want them getting out at night for their own safety (due to coyotes and crazy 20 year olds who drive 60mph down my street), so the door is kept shut with a slider lock attached to the door from inside. I have heard the door being raised as I sit in here and watch tv, but by the time I get outside or switch on the outside light, the perpetrators are gone. I have been wondering who has been coming onto my property and doing this, and now I am starting to get an idea. This matter will be taken care of as I obviously need police protection.

I have seen some comments in the last few days on other people's blogs, that verify my feelings that Adoption can be compared to other acts of abuse like slavery, one in particular said it best, in relation to a post about discrimination towards Adoptees. It was quite poignant and this woman hits the nail on the head and I am quite happy there are others who understand my viewpoint:
"This is definitely a frustrating situation and appropriate action should be pursued and employed. I myself am an adoptee (specifically a Korean-adoptee), and I have experienced similarly endless instances of such ignorance and misunderstanding. I hope that as adoptees, though,we will use such experiences to cultivate understanding and compassion not only toward other adoptees but also toward other groups of people who face similar discrimination and prejudice. Adoptees are not alone in our experiences. With this in mind, I like to quote an author,Chang-Rae Lee, from his novel "Native Speaker": "I ask that you remember these things, or know them now. Know that what we have in common, the sadness and pain and injustice, will always be stronger than our differences." No doubt,as adoptees we face very unique situations in which misperceptions, false presumptions, lack of understanding, and the like pervade. However, to overcome the ignorance that abounds, we must add to our passions and emotions maturity and wisdom as we proceed in advocating & educating others about adoption. Also, it helps to acknowledge that there are myriad others who deal with similar ignorance on a daily basis. I have several African-American friends (meaning they immigrated to the U.S. from Africa) with whom over the years we have discovered how similar some of our experiences have been growing up in the States. I also had a friend(she passed away years ago) who fled from Iran during the revolution.Although he had been a diplomat in Iran, her father had great difficulty finding work because of the prejudices he faced. Just something to think about and to help remind us all that it can often be helpful, while not neglecting the adoption community, to remember to reach beyond the adoption box. (If you have not watched the movie "The Visitor," or read the book "Kite Runner" I highly recommend them both!)"
Ignoring the pain that others go through, and have gone through in this country,and on this earth in situations similar to Adoption will NEVER, help us win this fight. And if some people can compare being a BSE Mother to a Paul Simon song, than I sure as hell can compare Adoption to the slavery system too, that hurt so many innocent African Americans. Just as PETA has a right to shed light on the abuse animals suffer, as they have sympathy as well for victims of Safe Havens. And no one in the fight for Open Records has a right to be as self-centered as the Adoption Industry, that ignores all our pain and has been screaming in our ears for the last fifty years, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME!!! Hypocrisy will never end bigotry.....That is why Marley will not be allowed to ever comment on my blog either. And why many in cyber Adoptionland don't want her on theirs as well.

Wednesday, October 8, 2008


And They All Fall Down....

I love Fall. It is my favorite season. It has always has been, and it always will be. I see this invigorating time, as Nature's karma, for suffering horrific humidity, loud neighbors, mosquito's that bite and bees that sting. I love the vibrant reds that have painted the trees leaves, and watching them dance in the air as they fall gracefully to the ground. I love the crunching sound they make under my feet as well, as I walk upon them. I am uplifted by orange pumpkins, hot apple cider, rust colored mums and images of black cats everywhere. The cold air on my face, is a welcome change that lets me feel free instead of feeling bound by stagnant, stifling, and suffocating heat. Yes, change can be a wonderful thing. Especially after you endured maddening and unfair situations, like myself and some other bloggers that I adore and respect have suffered as of late, due to lies, outrageous attacks onour characters, beyond rude criticisms unforgivable insults, and just down right cruelty. People who vied for me, who supported me and who share in the pain that Adoption causes, were recently attacked by spookie, not only on their blogs, but in her slanderous hate group she created for and dedicated to me. My wonderful friend, Kite Kamp Girl, who we all know as AmyAdoptee, was the first to be attacked after my last blog about schmuckette, but being the smart cookie she is, knew exactly how to knock kookie spookie off of her high horse. The comments she sent to Amy, were the same monotonous, compulsive, off the wall, psychotic babble, she has been sending to me and other Adoptees and Real Moms, for months, because spookie never knows when to shut up or pull the reins in. And now, like the barbaric summer heat, she has been silenced as her My Space group has come tumbling down....it is gone now....like the leaves on trees in my yard that will soon create bare silouettes against dark winter skies.....no longer protected, and happily exposed. spookie exposed herself too, her true colors, and her vile intentions as she stung Gershom and Cassi too with her venom, like a rattlesnake hiding in the grass. And so....as I say adios to a season of oppressions, I say adios to being exploited by Pro-Adoption trolls as well, because as the leaves in Autumn must fall down to bring on a change I so rightfully deserve.....so must mean people like spookie....

From Adoption And It's Triad Blogspot:
"THIS DESERVES A POST OF ITS OWN"
"I want to address a comment and I want to address very clearly and succinctly. I also want to point out the flaws in the actions of these folks. The comment was left on an paid sponsorship post. I won't have my advertisers drug through the mud for a vendetta that someone else has towards a fellow blogger.
Improper Adoptee is a fellow adoptee and blogger. I may not see eye to eye on adoption with her but I do however respect her opinion. She doesn't believe in adoption at all where as I believe that adoption is a necessary evil that could have the evil part removed. I think we could make changes to it to protect the children better. She doesn't believe in gay adoption where as I do because the gay community tends to adopt more from the foster care system. It is okay for her and I to disagree on things. She knows this as do I. I do not have an issue with her. She is respectful to me and vice versa.

So she claims to be psychic. Oh well, I believe in ghosts. My deceased father visits me occasionally. I know he does. He likes to play with the gadgets in my jeep, turn off my tv and even plays with my coffee maker. I accept people for who and what they are. Its something that the adoption industry has taken from me. I mean that in the sense that my original self is not acceptable by society. They continue to perpetrate the lies and myths about my having access to that part of myself.
I also know that she is an animal lover. Hmmmwell I am one too. My philosophy is different again from hers. I live on ranch. The lifestyle on ranch is very different from the city life. Sadly animals come and animals go in my life. For example, we just sold a horse this weekend. It hurt my hubby a great deal. Gino was a great horse. He was the old man on our little piece of the hill. He ruled with an iron hoof. When my husband had to go get a bull or cow out of someone else's pasture. He used Gino to help get the job done. Gino was the HOSS. We know that he went to a high school kid who rides rodeos. Gino was cowy horse. He was good at his job. He lived by the strict rules of horses and human interaction.

There are very strict rules with dogs and cats on a ranch anywhere in this country. If a dog goes after livestock, sadly he does get put down. If a dog kills that livestock, he gets put down. The rule even extends to killing cats for us. If a cat or dog attacks a child or human being, it gets put down. We have sent horses back to the remuda (horse herd) because they were not able to be controlled or did not have any manners. We also kill rattlers out here. Our cats eat tons of mice. We put down skunks, raccoons, hogs, and rattlers. Skunks can be rabid. Raccoons eat all the cat food. Hogs destroy pens. Rattlers are just plain poisonous and deadly. Coyotes tend to kill livestock as well. They get shot. Do I understand her passion for animals? Yes I do. All of our umpteen cats are spoiled. Same for the dogs. The horses think they are human. I am to blame for that one. Will I put my life on the line for an animal? That depends. If the animal is wrong I can't. If the animal has done nothing wrong, then I will do my best. Her lifestyle is different from mine. Does it make her crazy? No not anymore than mine does.
I appreciate and respect her opinions. They may be different than mine but she still has my respect. Now I know that you have tried drumming people from all sides of the adoption foot stool to outlaw her or get her banned from various websites. You guys have launched this campaign against her. I have had that done to me as well. I chose to ignore most of it. I said my peace about those situations and moved on. You can't please everyone. I am not going to please you. She is welcome on my site. She is a fellow adoptee. I will stand beside her as a result. You are also wrong in another respect. I do have her listed on my blog links.

So what that she has a different opinon than me? Its America. I have fought in a war for her to have that right. This applies to the rest of America as well. I don't agree with the adoption industry. I voice my opinion on it. Heck my tax dollars are being used against me. I voice my opinion on that.

I hate to say it but you won't get sympathy or applause from me. The reason is that you have formed a group to attack her on every blog and website that she posts on. It makes you look pretty crazy. No matter how crazy you think her opinions are, you come off as way nuttier than she could ever be on her worst day.

I listened and read all of the blogs posts across the internet about you and her. I am going to side with her. Here is the comment":

Kite Kamp Girl/Amy,
PLEASE take the time to read this, it's not a joke, harassment or cruel.
You're being taken advantage of by Improper, though she does regard you as a friend, that's clear, she will put her own need for power and to inflict pain on others above that friendship online, and above anything else at this point.

None of the screenshots in the myspace group are doctored. Marley's blog isn't doctored. The posts IA made on The Daily Bastardette are on the myspace group, as are posts she made on many other blogs about spookie, Lisa-Marie, and numerous other myspace users. You don't even have to be a myspace member to read the group. Everything noted, and especially direct links to posts IA made, are real and genuine. IA was the terrorizer and we were her victims. She spread libel and hate, racism and bigotry. She was cruel beyond imagination, and those who knew her as a friend couldn't even believe it, not until they themselves clicked upon the links and read it themselves on myspace. She had an ally, Faith and Chico's mother. Once Faith and Chico's Mother saw the actual abuse, she apologized to us for sticking up for IA, then known as Stepford Child.

Some of us had begun the same way, had backed up Stepford, tried to help her, before being backstabbed and ruthlessly abused for months by her with terrible words and constant attackings of the most twisted and sick lies.

I'm not lying to you or trying to harm you. No one tried to hurt ImproperAdoptee or threatened anyone with physical or even written abuse. It's all a concocted fable made to cyber-abuse a handful of people IA used to have daily contact with, and one in particular reported her to Customer Service for horrific cyber bullying and defamatory comments, therefore getting her deleted from the site, myspace. Since then, IA has not been able to let it go.

These are the emails that IA called threatening and dangerous, or terrorizing. I and others wanted our names to be clear and you, the readers of her blog, to not actually think we are such hideous people with evil intentions. We are far from that. We're people with families, ups and downs, jobs or looking for jobs, good times or bad, adopted, not adopted, but we all share a common thread and that is that StepfordChild, Improper Adoptee, lists us on her blog as villains and trolls, or hints in her rantings.
"To be removed from this mailing, click reply and change the subject to "REMOVE."
It is no surprise that The Improper Adoptee has close to zero readers of her blog. It's no shock that reputable bloggers do not link back to TIA(from here on, "IA") on their own blogs.
The Improper Adoptee has just "Wished cancer upon another human being."

If you can't believe this statement is fact, click on her blog with the first icon, and look at her comments. She not only wishes cancer upon Suzanne (please note that this anonymous woman known as Improper Adoptee can't even use spookie's real name, though she has known it for a year now), she doubts Suzanne's son is hers, then that he even exists. She then continues on to say she doubts Suzanne's father is even ill with anything, let alone cancer.

No person with any decency would joke about cancer. No matter the circumstance, no matter the disagreements, you do NOT joke about cancer and never wish it upon anyone or any living being.

Keep in mind that IA said in her blog weeks ago that she would never blog about spookie again. Now she has made her blog more about HARASSING & CYBERBULLYING a kind woman than about adoption issues! LIBEL is NO JOKE!!!

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Until recent, she didn't even mention "Stepford" on her profile.
There was no mention of her father's cancer because it was a family matter, not over 200+ people's matter. She told Improper Adoptee in hopes that IA would stop posting blogs and harassing her. It only fueled IA's hysterical laughter and lies, giving her more to blog about. When does the hateful abuse end?
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As she continues her compulsive lying spree:

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spookie is the name of her CAT.
Mittens is a MODERATOR of an ANTI-CRUELTY to animals group and has nothing to do with adoption.

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In IA's comments on her own blog are falsified comments IA manipulated for the readers of her blog. In her blogs themselves are supposed quotes from "spookie" that are culled bits and pieces of messages, taken out of context and distorted to fit IA's libelous hate agenda. Won't anyone demand IA post the full correspondence? She won't respond to us.

She continues to blog about spookie and adoption, but both are not related; she continues to make cruel comments about Lisa-Marie, and Lisa-Marie hasn't said a word about her at all, she's dealing with a death. IA continues to bring up others, too, and they also haven't done anything to harm or hurt IA, nor did they before. Being a birth mother is no reason for IA to attack some of these people, and being adopted and not agreeing with IA is not a reason to be abused by her either. To not even be adopted, or have adopted a human child, and to not be a part of the adoption world in any way at all, sans cats and dogs (possibly a rabbit, rat and ferret here and there) is even more a reason for IA to not be attacking someone. Why do you have to agree with IA in order to NOT become a victim of IA's libel someplace online? IA has lied about dozens of people on groups and forums, blogs and archived chats, that it's shocking to see just how much time she puts into hate when she claims she is putting into helping those like herself, and animals. I smell cow poop.

IA says she is "a psychic and a medium," but if she were, she would know that all her lies she has been posting are just that — lies. Her comments within her blog posts, hidden little tidbits of hate, are also lies, and her "psychic abilities" would know that she is telling fibs like a naughty child, one after another, for weeks now. A psychic and a medium would know the truth, and that all her so-called questionings are just her way of making the reader of the blog and the comments she leaves think she is really unsure, and a victim, when in reality, IA is the manipulator of all the readers, and of all readers of any posts she makes when she posts with an air of question to her comments, since she is, as she said, a psychic.

My psychic senses are tingling right now, and they are telling me that there is something amiss in Meanydoodle Land."
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There's no threats. Here's the other email.
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"Hello,
I'm anti-adoption to a point and somewhat like some of you. I've been on myspace for 2 years. I'm an adoptee who just found out who I am really a few months back. I'm happy with both my families but I'm finally unburdened by the unknown.

Spookie was never part of the adoption groups until Improper Adoptee, known as StepfordChild bullied us so badly that one of our members ran a search for other users who were being bullied. We're all listed on this woman's blog on her main page to the left side. We're all called trolls posers and villains. We're all just humans like you all are.
StepfordChild bullied me unmercifully. She called me harsh and ugly names I wouldn't repeat in person or an e-mail because I loved my adopted family even while searching for my real family. She's never mentioned her family, but she claims to have a child or children. In 2 years no one ever saw her post about a child of hers. She's always been quick with the cybertongue to hurt us all about children we have or that others have, or to say adoptees who weren't so miserable must've adopted and not had their own children. She is a spinner of very believable lies. A black widow to the adopted and vulnerable. All adults should know that online if you don't know a person in real life, beware of the ones who say things like this woman has. Innocents get hurt while "meany doodles" laugh in their chairs at the hurt they cause strangers.
I asked Spookie to show me what she sent to myspace to see that she didn't lie to them and I see that she didn't. Improper bullied her and still is to this very day, same as she's doing to me and to my friends on myspace. We even have a private and hidden group and StepFordChild/Improper has somehow found out about it and knows things she shouldn't know. She's laughing about posting a fake blogger post on her own blog. We all hurt enough and this woman is getting high on our pain.
---Saviour"

spookie, her main target, is not lying about a word. Stage 4 lung cancer is treatable. Her father might have months, or years. IA doesn't read, it spread to his brain, he had CyberKnife. It's posted in

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Her son, who she calls a bastard, was born via c-section and Stepford saw the photo from surgery yet still said it was fake. Why does the boy have to be adopted? It fits IA's agenda to make this about adopton, and not some sick vendetta and cyberbullying abuse on her part. Since he isn't adopted, she has to say he is so she can claim Suzanne is somehow involved in adoption of humans, not just animals.

Spookie's name is Suzanne, her personal information is fully known by IA and she is not anonymous at all. It's a federal crime to be anonymous, and IA is anonymous. IA knows Suzanne's full name, email address and other personal information. IA also stole photos from her, and when asked to remove them, IA laughed. Copyright infringement is a crime, too. You must have permission to use someone else's images, especially when asked to NOT use them.

Gershom was not harassed. No one was harassed. I wouldn't call this harassment, because you read a blog entry and believed to be true. There's always more to a story, two sides, another side, or a true side. No one would go to such extremes to fabricate a year of lies against IA just so she can be in a bad mood. Note that she left myspace and immediately began a blog about people on that site, and made a hate list on her blog, then continued to blog about various people, not only one. When one asked her to stop, she escalated.

Read some of the info on the group on myspace if you can. You'll see there is no making up of the stalking and abuse. IA has only told the story backwards.

YES, delete this after you've read it, please. I would request you ask your comment be deleted from IA's blog too. This is unfair, based on a woman's lies, and since you are not aware of the year-long torment IA put so many people through, it's wrong to get involved and comment when she is posting outright libel and hoping you and others fall into the trap just to fulfill her need for some sort of approval for what she is doing and has done to so many people. She's hurt us with her words. Do you know how painful it is to have someone posting utter lies about your family, let alone you, online? She's laughing at a woman with a father dying from cancer, another woman who is torn about giving up her daughter, another who is still searching for his birth parents, and so on. She's laughing and creating lies about these people, and people such as you are believing her words, which only makes it hurt more. If she was telling the truth, and really hurt herself, she wouldn't be so cruel, evil, vindictive and just absolutely and clearly mean. This is hate and an obsessive infliction of pain and there is no other way to describe it, and she seems to be happy to inflict it, almost weekly when not more often.

Please don't be a part of her cruelness towards any of the victims.

Please, please don't leave this as a comment and most importantly, don't feed her cruelty by sharing this with her. Just please if you would, ask that your comment be deleted. We've been trying to get this to stop, to end, for so long. ungrateful little bastard was kind enough to delete IA's comments at spookie's request. I ask you to please find it in your heart to see through IA's need to project and ask that your comment be removed. Thank you for your time, your open-mindness hopefully and for your willingness to maybe see that all people are not as others present them to you".

4 comments

Gershom said...
yeah thats just outright lame. They tried the same thing with me and my blog. sooo lame.
3:21 PM

The Improper Adoptee said...
You know I read this peice of hystserical attention seeking manure again,and not only is spookie a liar, she is just dumb. She never said a word to anyone about her father having cancer-NOTHING was ever written on her my space page. Then after I refused to take her off my list, I start getting comments from her, oh my father is dying of brain cancer, how can you do this to me when I am so traumatized, blah, blah,blah..well, uh, LOL, in her group not too long ago, she states that he got brain cancer because he had cancer in a lower part of his body-(I am now rolling my eyes)...Nope...when a person has brain cancer it SPREADS DOWNWARDS NOT UPWARDS.

"spookie, her main target, is not lying about a word. Stage 4 lung cancer is treatable. Her father might have months, or years. IA doesn't read, it spread to his brain, he had CyberKnife. It's posted in"
And she wonders why I think she is lying to get sympathy and to make me look like an ogar. And yup, I made a joke because she is trying to con everyone with her Sarah Bernhart mentality-I made it in my comments-but it was just my way of saying to her drop dead, and who wouldn't say that to someone who writes me a mean email to undermine my feelings on Adoption, starts stalking me,because I never wrote back, mocks and insults me in groups, gets me deleted four times, lying all the way, and then starts a hate group against me. I made the sarcastic crack I made too because I don't beleive for a minute there is anything wrong with her father. Of course after I point out the fact in a comment on my blog that she never wrote one sentence that he is dying, and instead the first thing you see on her page, is some long bs paragraph about me, she goes and puts up some picture of him, and starts asking for prayers (like I said in my comment she would of asked people to do on her space, if he was really sick).Pfft. spookie says in her comment to Amy, that no one ever looks at my page, well how would she know? That none of the screenshots are fake, and shows two supposed inboxs of my old profile, yet THERE ARE NOULR's! (and anyone can make what she made in photoshop and everyone knows the sku baby pic came from the Abolish Adoption website and anyone can copy it.) And no reputable blogger links back to my blog?!!!How dare she say that, I think Gershom and Amy are beyond reputable bloggers and Cassi's blog rocks. Then this:
"IA says she is "a psychic and a medium," but if she were, she would know that all her lies she has been posting are just that — lies. Her comments within her blog posts, hidden little tidbits of hate, are also lies, and her"psychic abilities" would know that she is telling fibs like a naughty child"
is proof that spookie is psychotic. I am not even going to elaborate on this remark.
"Her son, who she calls a bastard, was born via c-section and Stepford saw the photo from surgery yet still said it was fake. Why does the boy have to be adopted?"
Now, I had said she might be an AP, so look at that-she calls an Adopted Child a bastard....
And she is full of shit, because I never saw any picture of her (euw)C-section. Like I would talk to her in my email, LIKE I WOULD EVEN GIVE THIS HACKER MY EMAIL! and she never posted a picture of this anywhere.
"It's a federal crime to be anonymous, and IA is anonymous".
Yup, no one is allowed to use a chat handle or made up name on the internet like Improper Adoptee. I am breaking the law.(LMAO)
"Gershom was not harassed. No one was harassed".
Uh huh. Right. ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!
This is part of the reason she asked you Amy not to publish her comment. She KNOWS that is a lie, like all her other lies.
and the proof is on my blog.
"YES, delete this after you've read it, please. I would request you ask your comment be deleted from IA's blog too."
Dream on spookie.
"No one tried to hurt Improper Adoptee"
Compulsive lie. Compulsive lie. Compulsive lie.
Thank you for this blog Amy. As much as will give spookie satisfaction, she has made me cry because she is a tyrannical, barbaric brute who wants to cause nothing but chaos in the lives of people who have done nothing to her. The group she put up about me, exploits me, as did the email she wrote me that started all of this. She has lied, lambasted me, abused me, and it may of been her that made a copy cat profile of SFC, as posts were made after I was deleted, before I could even talk in a group as there is over a week wait when a new account is made. Again, I am sorry to any one that got dragged into this, and Amy, thank you for exposing what she did with this comment. You are my light and my rock. Hugs.
1:32 PM

COMMENTS POSTED TO MY LAST BLOG WARNING ABOUT SPOOKIE:

KITE KAMP GIRL said...
I am glad that they do not come to me. I would nail them hard. That is just me. I love hitting people like this hard.
October 2, 2008 9:43 AM

KITE KAMP GIRL said...
They visited today. I took care of it. I will not allow any comments to pass through moderation. So they might as well forget it from here on out. As a friend said, that is my personal blog. I control it. Lalalalala I can't hear you. LOL
October 3, 2008 2:01 PM

Cassi said...
For the record - to anyone who thinks it is okay to act in the way these people are -you are part of my links on my blog and you will always remain there!
Keep speaking out about your experience and don't let those who can't offer understanding and support deter you.
October 3, 2008 6:25 PM

COMMENT SENT TO ME BY SPOOKIE AKA JAYMIE/SAVIOURRNR AFTER AMY, GERSHOM'S AND CASSI'S COMMENTS (WHICH I PUBLISHED IN THE LAST BLOG I WROTE ABOUT SPOOKIE)
Publish Reject 1 – 61 of 61
"Lolololol the comments department is full of retar... Lolololol the comments department is full of retarded monkeys OOOG OOOG OOMPH OOG OOG OOMPA
lol kite kamp nailed em hard like a dyke kamp uh huh lol cassi oh bury that adopted head in the sand more can ya girl? yeah you go girl! hey schumkettes, sorry to interrupt yer meeting of the metally ill minds here but ur buddy the psychic wacko-wanda witch is nothing but a - oooooh, let her tell you herself gosh golly! she wont tho' she's in too deeeeeeep and is drowning in liiiiiiiieeeeesssss. Hear her lisp? she's the snake, you're the screwballs
Usin' adoption as a crutch for why ur a fukken wacko witch or sheepy puppet loony, there's a new twist on psychos on the net now!

BSE means MAD COW DISEASE! No wonder ur all fukken crazies LOLOLOLOL"
Publish Reject
(amadcow4u2) 3:57 PM

THEN SHE STARTED A THREAD IN HER MY SPACE GROUP TRASHING AMY, AND INSULTING GERSHOM AND CASSIE:
Posted: Oct 5, 2008 1:48 PM
"Marc, if that was you (it’s your style, ha ha), I’d have told you not to waste your time or bother at all. She’s a kook. Gershom is naivé (hopefully not a nutter) and Kite Kamp girl is a nutter like Stepford. None of them realize (or want to) that their psycho paranoid schizophrenic pal started hate groups about US long before this group came to be, or that half of Steppy Poo’s blog is about me, or, DO THEY? hence...Kite Kamp Kook.

Good try, though. It’s my feeling that when you’ve been honest and sincere, and ask for privacy, and the receiver of your message disrespects that, they are not honorable, kind or credible people. Kite Kamp is as crazy in the coconut as Anonymous Adoptee. (I would’ve told you not to write her if you’d asked beforehand! I knew she was a few cards short of a deck.) I think thesepeople, the ones like Stepford, have serious, deep-rooted mentalproblems they never addressed properly. It doesn’t excuse their twistedbehavior, though, not in any way. A lot of people have mental issues and don’t act out of line, disrespect others and stomp on people".

YES.......spookie has stomped on people, and now we have stomped on her back....and as the crunchiness of dried out leaves echos in chilly fall breezes, so does the crunchy sound of stomping on the cockroach that she has proven herself to be....and that is why now her hate group full of libel, lies and terrorizing cyberbullying has an Invaild ID...:)

http://groups.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=groups.groupProfile&groupID=107553713&categoryID=0&Mytoken=CBA05103-CF8E-44CD-9FF9859910B50323194691528

Now....if we can JUST get rid of the Adoption Industry.......
Hugs to Amy, Gershom, Cassie and my Attorney....:)

Wednesday, October 1, 2008


HAVE YOU BEEN THREATENED BY SPOOKIE, JAYMIE, SAVIOURRNR OR THE TRIBE TO STAY AWAY FROM MY BLOG?

If so, PLEASE CONTACT THE POLICE. I have now had three people tell me they were emailed by the names in my heading, trying to get them to go against me and trash me all over the Internet. The Tribe is "like high school without the zits" (a quote I heard on NCIS once) but the juvenile games being played by The Tribe are sinister, vicious and may have involved physical threats to those who have commented on my blog. This is going to be investigated, as spookie and her group are out of control and dangerous. I may or may not turn on the Anonymous comments again, (as getting the isp number of those comments can be done for me), so people can leave comments with out getting terrorized and harassed. I will let you know when or if they are on. And to everyone who The Tribe tried to intimidate, I am sorry.

Monday, September 15, 2008


As The Psycho Turns Finale-Throwing The First Punch

Many things I say about spookie, almost everything actually, she twists around and says about me. She also says ridiculous things that reflect the irrational way she thinks. I have been very busy this past week, and since one can not live online 24/7 spookie turns that into my not caring about 9/11:
"Back to you blog of 9-11. (and I must note, I am so glad you made mention of the people who suffered on that day. Did your selfishness make you forget all those lives lost? All those children orphaned?)"
The above quote from spookie, is from the bullying group she started against me on my space and the blog of note is a brief blog I wrote about her on September 11th. And because I had not written a blog about the tragedy in New York 7 years ago, spookie incorrectly paints me as someone who does not care that innocent children died that day and about the many other children who lost their parents, in the Twin Tower Buildings or on one of the planes. How theatrical is that? Of course I care about what happened to them and the two little boys whose lives were so outrageously and cruelly ended on that day. The death of the 11 year old boy on the plane will haunt me forever because that poor child HAD to have known what was going on as he watched grownups hysterical around him and most likely heard what was being said. I believe and always will that he knew he was going to die, and that is so horrific, it makes my stomach hurt even thinking about it. And it is hard to think about it, because no child should ever have to endure that, and it is agonizing thinking about the terror he must of felt in the last hour of his life. The toddler that perished that day on another plane, we will all cry for forever too, along with his parents and all the other helpless adults that were abused and victimized that day. 9/11 was hell on earth. Plain and simple. And not only for those whose lives were taken, but for those who had to witness it as well on the streets and for those people that would hear the heart wrenching news that someone they loved was gone and I hope to any form of goodness in this world, nothing like that EVER, EVER happens again. But omg! just because I don't blog about it, doesn't mean I don't care about it, just like all the other bloggers in Adoptionland and elsewhere that didn't blog about it either. And what should of happened to all the "orphans" as spookie said, that lost their parents on 9/11? Should they have been adopted by infertile couples, taking their last names and being forced to pretend they are now the infertile couples child? Should they in disrespect to their parents memory, call two strangers Mom and Dad so two adults can have their insecure egos stroked because they could not conceive? Should any child who lost his or her parents in 9/11 or due to any other atrocity have to lose their identity too? Should they have to lose the rest of their family as well? Families need to take care of their own and stay together, grieve together and this is why any child who loses his or her parents should be raised by someone else of their lineage, not two people who can not have their own children or are Adopting because they think they are"doing good". And poverty is NOT a good enough reason to rip families apart either. That is like cutting off someone's arm because they have a splinter in their finger. Truly helping a child is helping their parents financially, it is giving of one's one money selflessly and not causing trauma in any way shape or form to the family unit. THAT is love, THAT is charity, taking a child from people who have less money then you and forcing that child to call you Mom or Dad because YOU want a child and can not have one on your own is NOT. Since spookie supports Adoption and the way Adoption WORKS, for orphans as well as babies born out of wedlock then she supports the inhumane chaos that is spewed upon them. spookie constantly claims she does not know what BSE stands for.That she is unaware that for decades, single women's babies were taken from them against their will, and were sold to infertile couples through Adoption agencies. Georgia Tann, who better be burning in hell as I type this, started this fiasco in part, by lying to single and poor mothers that she was going to help them only to take her child literally and sell that child to barren couples, and to some movie stars like Joan Crawford. As we all know, Tann would change birthdates, places of birth, tell the child's real Mother that her child had died when the child hadn't, call perfectly fit Mothers unfit in the court s and destroy family after family, and person after person. She also molested some of the children she stole from their Mothers too. She created the mode, for the amended birth certificates that Adoption agencies still use today in closed Adoption, that are nothing but an outright lie that claims that an Adoptee was conceived and born to an infertile woman and which makes an Adoptee feel worthless as their real identity is swept under the rug and considered not important. Since spookie claims she is a single Mother, how would she feel if a social worker came right now and ripped her son out of her arms, telling her she wasn't good enough to be his Mother. How would she feel if that little boy was given to two total strangers and was called a new name that they gave him and he was told he was THEIR child now? How would spookie feel if she was not told where her own flesh and blood was and would find out later that his birthdate was changed so it would beharder for her to find him? Would it bother her too, that her son's birthdate which is a part of HIS IDENTITY AND WHO HE IS, as written in the planets, along with her and her family, would now be denied him? A t17 months he may not remember spookie's first and or last name, or the address they live at, so it would be impossible when he is older to find her, because even though her son's new Adoptive Parents would know all this information, if they chose a closed Adoption, like many Adoptive Parents still do today, they aren't going to tell him. Although Open Adoption wants to promote itself, that it is forthright in letting a child know who his or her own real parents are and therefore eliminates the pain of an identity crisis that victims of closed Adoption have forced upon them, we all know, that this new system is still geared for the benefit of the Adopters, and NOT the Adoptee and Real Mothers. There are NO legal binds on the Adoptive Parents to stay in touch with a woman who places her child in Open Adoption, even though they promised her they would, and there are more Adoptive Parents that take off while the child is still too young to remember important details concerning his or her real family, then there are those who have not. So an Open Adoption can be come a closed Adoption for an Adopted child real quick. Granted, the Real Mother does have the Adoptive Parents names, unlike the BSE Mothers did, but the Adoptive Parents also have the legal right to tell the child's real Mother to stay away, and she has NO legal recourse to do anything about this. She has no rights, and there would be no court ordered visitation or any mandatory imposing of forcing Adoptive parents to send pictures of her child to her as the child grows up or to ever let her talk to her child on the phone. God only knows what Adoptive Parents would tell the Real Mother's child too about her if they did take off and cut off contact, and many Adoptive Parents are very deceitful and manipulative about making the child they adopt love them more and see the Real Mother as the bad guy. It is the same sick game as the one divorcing parents play, always trying to go one up on the soon to be ex spouse and using their child as a weapon to hurt them while upping their own ego. In both cases, the child feels like an object, disrespected and used.

spookie, along with her pushing of Adoption, also likes to insult my child who she doesn't even know. I have noticed all her posts are written the middle of the night in her group, the same for"Jaymie", who she posts as too. One really has to wonder why a woman in her 40's as she claims she is, (although she constantly changes her age in other profiles she has that she has stated are hers) would be up for hours starting around 2pm until after 8am posting nasty untruths about me, when she claims she has a 17 month old little boy she takes care of all day long. I don't know a mother alive who isn't exhausted by 9pm after taking care of a child that age all day long. We all know we have to watch them like hawks because they are all over the place and can hurt themselves at the drop of a hat and running around after them all day, in addition to all the chores that we need to do to take care of them right too, is very tiring. I was almost 30 when my daughter was his age, and I was out cold every night by 9:30 and would not stir, until 6 am the next morning, unless my child had woken up in the middle of the night and I had to tend to her. I think we all know there is no time to go online when a child not quite two needs to be comforted, have his or her diaper changed, wants some Cheerios or just wants to be held. Despite this war that spookie has launched against me, I have never once said a bad word about the child she says she has, whose picture and name she posts on her my space. Why would I? He's just a baby, he has nothing to do with any of this, I have nothing against him, yet she sent me a comment last week, the last one I got before I turned my comments off, (and that is WHY I turned my comments off, although I have turned them back on, and any more demonic remarks from spookie will only be used against her) cutting down my daughter, and making beyond disgusting remarks about her conception that are so crude, I never posted what she said. I still have this comment in my box, and it shows the true vileness of her nature. The blackness in her heart, the sickness in her mind, and the lack of grace in her soul. spookie has not only thrown the first punch on this cyber battleground she is also throwing blows below the belt, which is proof how out of control she really is. spookie is out of control on the subject of Adoption as well, as she does not see the forest for the trees, and feels I should be emotionally crucified because of the pain it has caused me. As I have said before, if spookie did not have some agenda concerning the subject of Adoption, then would she not think to herself if the story about her friend she gave me was true, that gee, I guess Adoption does hurt some people and not being told the names of one's real parents IS wrong and it is wrong to criticize someone's feelings about having to grow up that way. And since I am NOT Adopted, and have not lived through what those Adoptees have, I should NOT judge people that are Adopted or force my naivete and lack of personal experience about the subject on them. Just looking at my former profile on myspace, one could of seen crystal clear the oppression I was complaining about concerning the Adoption system and that the Adoption system is warped and illogical concerning the best interest of any child in a closed Adoption. AND THAT ADOPTION IS NOT JUST ABOUT TAKING A CHILD WHO IS OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW HIS OR HER PARENTS AWAY FROM THEM IF THEY ARE ABUSED AND PLACE THEM IN ANOTHER "FAMILY". Who the hell is spookie to call me insane because I am against innocent people having their civil rights denied them? She treats me like I am the criminal for even discussing it. spookie would rather make a menis out of herself, going around on other people's blogs that speak out against the unjust oppression of Adoptees and BSE Mothers and Mothers still vicitmized today in the same fashion by the Adoption Industry, like Gershoms and The Daily Bastardette and trash me for stating the truths I state, even though the owners of both blogs told her to get lost. spookie refuses to see too, how being raised in a closed Adoption is traumatic, how it causes PTSD, shock, numbness and intolerable pain for most Adoptees. She refuses to listen to BSE Mothers who blog and some whose blogs are linked to mine, that state the despicable injustices that they suffered and whose pain is still being ignored by the Adoption Industry, along with our pain as Adoptees too. There are plenty of BSE Mothers that areas angry as I am, that our records are still closed and that closed Adoption is still alive and well, using the same seedy methods that victimized both of us over the last 60 years. There are plenty of BSEMothers here in Bloggerland that say outright that they hate Adoption too. One BSE Mother goes so far as too call birth mothers, a term most BSE Mothers hate, "birth martyrs" when referring to the Mothers who willingly place their children in Open Adoption (which is hilarious and serves them right) and think they are saints for doing so. Lisa Marie is a birth martyr. And this is why her poem upset me so much, as just by posting this literary peice of garbage, she threw the first punch to BSE Mothers and Adoptees as well. For her to claim it was right for her to give away her own child and that her child SHOULD have a different name and idenity is an insult to any one ever victimized by the Adoption system. Going into my space Adoption groups, one learns very quickly that they have been created to promote Adoption. The group spookie put up against me, is already showing it's Pro-Adoption fangs, with happy little Adoption stories being posted, ignoring the bile that the Adoption Industry has forced BSE Mothers and closed record Adoptees to stew in for decades. spookie also likes to isolate me, and make it seem that I am the only one on earth who is upset and furious about the Adoption system. Women who claim they placed their child in Open Adoption and are still oh so happy about it still, even though the child will still feel rejected by her and will no doubt start to vocalize about this fact, after he or she is older, also like to dispense this unfair mind glitch to those like me who expose the sinister games that Adoption plays with an Adoptees mind. Blanket Girls had this experience as well, with Lauren, who claims she proudly placed her child in Open Adoption. Blanket Girls, felt the same as I do, about the phonies in these groups, and the tactics which they use. I was accused of being Blanket Girls which I am not, and would be happy to prove by handing my hardrive over to any authority. Blanket Girls profile is still up on my space, and if she was me, spookie would of deleted it by now too. spookie's, like the other trolls lies about me, stated that I was paranoid, because myself like others are on to the game that they play and they can not stand that:

spookie:
"Anyway, I did notice the same exact paranoid delusional lies posted about me in your blog, posted on Bastard Nation about Joy, by you. Isn’t that just a bit odd? You accused Joy of hacking your myspace (your wording), and you accused her of having a fake job, or fake agenda (hmm, sounds the same)"

Adopted Jane was also a victim of that forum and stated the same remarks I did about it in her blog and so did this woman Betsy,who put up a website about Joy and this forum for Adoptees:

http://www.pagan.com/Filks/JoysOurAdmin/

"Joy's Our Admin
........is sung to the tune of "Joy to the
World" in honor of her fine Xtian Values ;-)

Joy's Our Admin, on the board she's god
Let the forum kiss her Ass!
Let every member chant, or they're labeled shit clods
Adopters first, adoptees last
Adopters first, adoptees last
Adopter's rights come first ... and Adoptee's last
Joy's our Admin, and our saviour says
Ban members who object
The sick suck-up Stewie and Brown Nosed Addy Pray
Kiss the Ass of Admin Joy
Kiss the Ass of Admin Joy
Kiss the Ass, Kiss the Assssss, of Admin Joy
Joy doesn't let adoptees know
Adopters prowl her ground
They want so they'll take more, while making quite a show
With kids stolen from their Moms
With kids stolen from their Moms
With kids stolen from their Moms, they were not "Found!"
Joy rules the board with lies and hate
And shames dissenters well
Abuse she heaps upon adoptees, if to her they will not bow down
Will she make her A-Mother proud?
Will she make her A-Mother proud?
Will she make... will she finally make, her A-Mom proud?
****
Anyone else get the utter hypocrisy of this message from an Adoption supporte in a group that publicly claimes to be an "Adoptees Only Support Group"??? ROFL"

Blanket Girls also feels there are many phonies and that my space Adoption groups are Pro-Adoption and full of posers:
http://forum.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=messageboard.viewThread&entryID=62910718&adTopicID=11&categoryID=0&IsSticky=0&groupID=106571295&Mytoken=FAC6730D-E556-448B-98C8441C72AAA56544017516
Posted: May 4, 2008 12:26 PM
Blanket Girls:
"Do you hate Juno? Find it offensive? Well the writer of that pro-adoption piece of shit has a myspace page. I’ve watched some interviews of her and she has no ties to adoption at all. At first I wondered if she was a birth mom writing a fairy tale to ease the pain of what she had done to her child-but no. Just another chick writing bullshit she knows nothing about to make money.
She has her profile to not accept mail or page comments from non-friends.
http://www.myspace.com/diablocody"

Lauren:
"I thought Juno pretty much sucked, but not for the same reasons...but I’m not really sure why it would matter that she has no ties to the adoption community...I thought it was sort of obvious that knowledge was not part of the criteria for hollywood drama. And how was Juno a fairy tale? Just how a birth parent can’t fully understand your perspective, you can’t understand theres...and trust me, most birthparents thought the movie was a fucking awful portrayal of what it’s like to place a child. JMO

Blanket Girls
F/100
Instant Message
Send Message Posted: May 5, 2008 7:47 AM
"you don’t think juno is a fucking fairy tale? so in your situation you really did feel like throwing away your child was easy and required no thought of any kind from anyone in your family? well how nice. how does it feel to have no emotions? must be easier for you to live than the rest of us who are burdened down with all this caring about children.
i find this interesting b/c in a previous post i called you all out for not caring enough about your children to keep them, and you all got pissed off. then i come in a say how hard it must be for families to give up their kids and you get mad at that. interesting group. are you chicks birth moms at all or is this some fantasy role playing game where you can change your life story at any moment"?

Interestingly, what Blanket Girls said to Lauren, who is the one who attacked me first and told me I was "feeling sorry for myself" because I was raised in a closed Adoption, and still do not know my real family, after I critized Lisa Marie's Propaganda Pushing poem, are the same feelings I have about those on my Villians of My Space list. 30 other people would start attacking me after I told Lauren off for mocking my pain due to the abuse I got from the Adoption Industry, something I had every right to do. NO ONE undermines my pain or the pain of any other Adoptee, or BSE Mother as she and Lisa Marie did, ESPECIALLY WOMEN WHO GIVE THEIR CHILD AWAY AND THINK DOING SO IS STILL HUNKY DORY AND COME OFF LIKE THEY ARE PROUD OF IT ALL OVER THE INTERNET. What that poem and Lauren said to me, was the equivalant of a room being put up about men who hit women and reading a poem written by a wife beater who said, I cried because I hit you, but it was still right too, and telling a woman who would speak out about a poem like that and call it sanctimonious that she is feeling sorry for herself because she got her face smashed in by a man once. The Adoption system does smash hearts. And it does ruin lives, and it still does not apologize to its victims as it should and make up for the abuse it causes by giving all of us the information WE have a right too and strangers never did. spookie also does not tell the truth, about Adoption or me:
"As much as I can’t stand spookie, I never put a group up about her."
spookie

"DUDE. Let’s not do SUPER LYING. I don’t want to post you hideous main page for this doozy".
I had put up a group against the NCFA because they FIGHT TO KEEP OUR RECORDS CLOSED, AND THAT IS HATE. DENYING SOMEONE THEIR OWN INFORMATION IS NOT AN ACT OF LOVE. IT IS AN ACT OF ABUSE OF POWER AND DISPICABLE GREED. SO FOR HER TO SAY MY GROUP WAS A HATE GROUP AND AGAINST HER TO BOOT IS ASSININE. I also started this blog so I could freely talk about the horrific Adoption system that still is hurting so many with out having my feelings about Adoption mocked by insensative people on line,like edge, spookie, Lauren and and be called a moron by this insufferable twit:

Iamwhere
Posted: Jun 12, 2008 1:58 PM
StepFordChild wrote:
"All adoptees have a right to be upset if their own mothers give them away."
Yes, we all have the right to feel and think whatever we want.
"It is normal, and there is not one person on earth who would not be upset about or angry about it. "
You, however do not have the right to tell anyone else what to think or feel. I think you’re a moron. See how that works?
"We also have a right to hate being sold and having our heritage denied us, and having lies all over our birth certificates."
This again is your opinion. You can hate whatever you want. You can spew forth hate as much as you like.
"All of you in here are satan in human form. All of you in here are going to hell."
Well I’m just speechless! . Thank you so much! When I get there, I’ll be sure to look for your ass so I can give it a swift kick. I’ll bet you’re a Christian too. Ain’t ya?
"You never change, you never try to understand, you never stop judging and you never forgive. "
No dear, that would be you.
(what I said are in the quotes, what Iamwhere replied to me are not)


spookie was the one following me around the internet after I never wrote her back due to the obnxoious email she sent me through my space. She made rude comments to me as I have shown about posts I made to help animals in AR groups, then she went into AR groups I made for animals and started harrassing me there. No one ever asked her to come into Adoption is Binding, where I was being tortured by Pro-Adoption trolls, she came in on her own and joined those pack of wolves just to hurt me even more. She claims now too, that her abusive group that she put up against me is perfectly fine with my space because I am no longer a member, but this is NOT true, as an attorney informed me, because no myspace group is allowed to harrass ANY person, not just a member of myspace. My space will be contacted soon too by an attorney in my employ and her hate group against me is going to be taken down. I mention her in my blog to warn others about her, because I don't want to see another person be lured into her bloodline sucking spider web and then eaten alive. In one of her comments to me, after she found my blog, she in Sarah Bernhart fashion tells me her father is dying of stage 4 brain cancer. She had never mentioned this ever on my space before and if you go into her profile, you will see the very first subject she writes about in About me, are all lies about how I cyber bully her. There is not ONE word about her father being ill on her page. You would think, that if he was really dying, and she was really concerned about this, she would mention that first and foremost and ask people to pray for him, and his failing health would take presedence over anything concerning me. But on her my space too, spookie indicates that her career of choice, after all her schooling is an "image manipulator", which I have a screenshot of, as I took one of her entire profile. I think that says it all....
for spookie IS a manipulator who lies like she breaths, who sits behind her monitor like some tyrannical Queen, hacking people's accounts, pouring acid into their wounds, and mocking those she terroizes when they fight back. She is a professional game player who twists the facts and distorts reality, making falsities look like truths to benefit herself. Is is any wonder to any true victim of Adoption in Adoptionland, I would think she was anAP?.....she is also dangerously, psychotically obbsessed with herself and until the needed legal action is taken, she will continue to be as honest about me as an Amended Birth Certificate:


spookie:
"Did you know that on your blog, of all the posts showing, only ONE blog is about adoption and SIX are about me? That does NOT make for a blog about Adoptees rights, not for OBC, not for anti-adoption, not for anything but a hate blog against me".


I have written 21 blogs about Adoption, including ones about Connell Watkins who killed little Candace Newmaker, blogs that spookie calls "cutting down other people and posting their full names". spookie is a rude, pushy loud mouth whose slander against me, will soon be silenced on my space, as the pedestal she puts herself up on will soon come crumbling down, but she like many other hackers and trolls, will be still be around elsewhere, looking for their next victim to toy with. If you happen upon her, print out what she says in groups as she attacks other people, and you soon will see patterns emerging, like those of her self proclaimed freind Miss Chainsaw. Print out copies of what you may have said, too as she makes up lies about conversations that have ensued, and creates images that are are not real that she posts in groups with her hacking skills and software tools. But above all, do not ever trust this explosive ticking time bomb, who keeps posting that I liked her so much and then I backstabbed her, as she throws her hand over her forhead in B movie actress mode. I never backstabbed spookie. I just ducked and ran as she threw the first punch....something a bully, online and off will never let their victims forget........

Thursday, September 11, 2008


Spookie is breaking My Space Terms and the Law

If spookie does anything well atall, it is going overboard. Since she started attacking me first, when all I did was not reply to an Email she sent me, putting up a groupa gainst me, shows what an unstable drama queen she is. There have been people on my space that didn't write back to me, but I never went into groups and trashed them, made rude comments to them, followed them allover social networks and then put up a hate group against them. spookie also breaks my space terms quite well, then lies about it. If her group doesn't come down I am going to an attorney and I am suing Fox (myspace) and spookie as well for violating the following terms. spookie truly missed her calling as an obnoxious paparazzi, or tabloid reporter..

"Content/Activity Prohibited. The following are examples of the kind of Content that is illegal or prohibited to post on or through the MySpace Services.MySpace reserves the right to investigate and take appropriate legal action against anyone who, in MySpace's sole discretion, violates this provision, including without limitation, removing the offending Content from the MySpace Services and terminating the Membership of such violators. Prohibited Content includes, but is not limited to, Content that, in the sole discretion of MySpace:

8.1 is patently offensive and promotes racism, bigotry, hatred or physical harm of any kind against any group or individual;

Yup, I'd say her group against me is "hate"

8.2 harasses or advocates harassment of another person;

It is totally harassment

8.6 publicly posts information that poses or creates a privacy or security risk to any person;

8.7constitutes or promotes information that you know is false or misleading or promotes illegal activities or conduct that is abusive,threatening, obscene, defamatory or libelous;

8.9 involves the transmission of "junk mail," "chain letters," or unsolicited massmailing, instant messaging, "spimming," or "spamming";

8.10contains restricted or password only access pages or hidden pages or images (those not linked to or from another accessible page);

8.11furthers or promotes any criminal activity or enterprise or provides instructional information about illegal activities including, but not limited to making or buying illegal weapons, violating someone's privacy, or providing or creating computer viruses;

8.28 using any information obtained from the MySpace Services in order to harass,abuse, or harm another person or entity, or attempting to do the same"

As much as I can't stand spookie, I never put a group up about her. I think that pretty much shows who is the one with the screw loose. She has broken all these terms and anyone else in this group is liable aswell. Law officers know I should speak to an attorney and it will be done.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008


PROTECT YOURSELF FROM SPOOKIE

I've received some very negative comments about spookie, that I was asked not to publish, due to how she attacked Gershom's email. You can see Gershom's comment to her, stating that she did not know how spookie got her email (although I do) and that all of spookie's comments are insane, on my blog Last Laugh. spookie spammed the hell out of Gershom (along with leaving rude comments on her blog as well, which spookie posted from a favor.it thread in her my space group, indicating someone else wrote them which is a lie). spookie assumed an Anonymous comment I got, that supported me was from Gershom, which it wasn't, so spookie then started attacking and abusing Gershom unmercifully, a person she doesn't even know. In her I am so immature I have to have the last word because I think I am superior to everyone else (cough, cough, barf,barf,) little group of hers she started against me as Jaymie, she stated the following (after Gershom who joined and told her her group was harrassment towards me and has since left) after another poster says that Gershom is me:

spookie:
"No, she’s Gershom, and"Anti-Adoption," according to "Improper Adoptee, " AKA Stepford.Stepford claims I’ve been harassing this woman daily"

Now this a bonified lie, and a good example of how spookie constantly twists the facts, because Anti-Adoption HERSELF left a comment on my blog "Last Laugh" as I just mentioned before and reads as follows:

"antiadoption said...
improper....these people who are "at war" with you, have somehow decided to start emailing me. The rants I'm getting in my inbox are over the top and insain. I want it to stop people. Whoever is emailing me awesomecrab I don't know how you got my email but STOP EMAILING ME. I'm not involved in your myspace, care2 problem, I don't know whats going on, and I'm not about to get my nose into business thats not mine. the above"namaste" comment didn't come from me, i don't know who "spookie" is, so I wouldn't be posting about "spookie."
LOSE MY EMAIL.
"improper this doesn't apply to you"

So how DID spookie get Gershom's email? She hacked her of course. And no,it wasn't ME who said she was harassing Gershom daily, Gershom said she was being harassed by this vampiric abuser which she was. One has to wonder too, as she claims she has a child almost two, considering all the psychotic comments she has sent me & Gershom and the unbeleivable amount of them, plus all the comments she has left on so many other people's blogs about me, what kind of state of mind is she in to care for a toddler? Her sanctimonious rage is out of control. I wonder if this abuse carries over to him? Maybe someone should check that out. She claims he is sitting right there as she types disgusting things, and uses disgusting words, so what kind of role model is she too?
spookie also goes on to say

"Adoptee Rights Demonstration"— Gershom — just wants to be left out of this. She probably asked SC to stop the blogs, since they share a common desire to fight for the rights of adoptees to get their original birth certificates",

This made me laugh so hard, I couldn't stop laughing for a couple of hours. Gershom NEVER asked me to stop writing blogs and if anyone doesn't beleive me, then ask her yourself. She does want to stay out of this,and why shouldn't she. She knows what it feels like to be unfairly attacked, to be cut down when she doesn't deserve it and her energy is better spent writing on her incredible and very educating blogs, that help all of us. I don't want her involved in this insane venture,initiated by spookie, because it isn't her argument and she doesn't deserve to be hurt in any way shape or form. She has enough obnoxious people to deal with who leave rude, and mean comments on her blog. In the inhumane, abusive and oppressive world of Adoption and closed records, all of who have gotten it offline in our lives, have also gotten it online. ULB was horribly and completely unfairly attacked, so was Gershom, Adopted Jane got nailed on an Adoption forum as of late,and I have see insulting comments being made constantly to Marley.There are many, many more Adoptees too, that suffer this same fate and the BSE Moms get it as well. There are so many people who are Pro-Adoption on line (and some make copy cat profiles of other people as well) who pretend they are Adoptees happy that they are Adopted,etc, etc, etc... we all know the drill, and it was a well known Adoptee here in Adoptionland, who told me once, that the NCFA has paid employees who go online to push and support Adoption, in groups and in forums, trashing us gleefully, as they laugh all the way to the bank.
Iam writing this morning, to show what a liar and a manipulator spookie is and how conniving she is too, and to warn everyone, if you disagree with her ever, on anything she will treat you as she has treated me and Gershom and you may find a group up about yourself up someday as well.She already has well known and hated trolls in her group, like "Slide Me A Spill Thrill girl", that do nothing but cause trouble and hurt innocent people's feelings in the my space animal rights groups, and that pretty much says it all. spookie wants to make trouble too, just like Lisa Marie did with her poem and that is why the poll results on my blog indicate people agree with my feelings about that poem. So be aware, protect yourself and your computer. Hanging around and interacting with spookie is like playing with dynamite or a game of Russian Roulette. Either way it is dangerous.
.

Tuesday, September 9, 2008


Ramblings Of An Uneducated Fool

The following is a post spookie made on her my space group she made against me, whose few members are all on my Villians Of My Space list (and most of the members in spookie's low class group are nothing but new myspace profiles she made up to make it look like there are more members, as most of the members in that group are her) and who were rude to me, and harassed me because I grew up a victim of Closed Record Adoption and speak out against it, and call me a cyberbully because of my responces to those who treated me that way and mocked my just pain, calling it feeling sorry for myself. I also, along with many others speak out against Open Adoption which is not as wonderful for the Adopted Child as the Adoption Industry and "beemommies" want to push that it is aswell. spookie, as I mentioned in a previous blog, claims in one of thecomments she sent me, that is published in one of my blogs, that she knows nothing about Adoption: (AND TO SEE THIS COMMENT SHE SENT ME GO TO MY SAME MIRROR, DIFFERENT REFLECTION BLOG-IT IS PUBLISHED IN THERE)

spookiecats
"Who is the REAL SICK and INSANE PERSON, BITCH? YOU!!!
POSTTHAT! You won't, can't and dare not, because YOU SUCK! Phony lyingpsycho! Fuck your adoption shit already! I don't even know what BSEmeans you lunatic! HA!HA! You claim all this crazy crap, yet I knowSQUAT about adoption except for what Anne told me, you total moron"!
Well,for someone who never had her child ripped away from her and was told she wasn't good enough to raise the baby who came out of her her own body (and who she protected within her for 9 months) like BSE Moms were and alot of single Mothers still are today, like poor Camira Bailey, so greedy people can make significant profits off of their child, by selling her child to infertile couples and who was never Adopted and who has gotten to live with her own blood relatives her whole life, she certainly has a lot of nerve to say the above to someone who wasn't that fortunate, like me who had to endure the latter. spookie has no idea the intense pain that still haunts the hearts and souls of the BSEMothers and other victimized Real Mothers or of Adoptees even as adults and she is prejudiced on the subject of single and teenager Mothers as well, as she posted this topic on September 7th in the group that she made to specifically cut me down:

"Mittens [the Cat]
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"Again,this wasn’t even in an adoption group. She went on and on about adoption, and said I was a pro-adoption barren, baby stealing something...some bad word. Her usual. By this point, I really wanted to know what she expected from unwanted pregnancies that went full term.Now that I know she’s pro-life, I’m horrified, because she’d want possible abusive real parents, single mothers or teens to keep their babies, and that means high chances of shaken baby syndrome, neglect,abuse, emotional abuse, stunted education, and so much worse. I see some horrible things here in the bad neighborhoods. Why she’d want that instead of good homes for kids trapped with bad, horrible real mothers,or fathers, baffles me. By the time CPS steps in, it’s too late too often".
We all know that most women who have "an unwanted pregnancy" change their mind and want to keep their babies. We also know there is a plenty of abuse in the foster care system and amongst Adoptive Parents and Niels has an excellent blog written about all the children that have died after being killed by their Adoptive Parents.So does abolishadoption.com. spookie would like to push the message that most teenage Moms would be horrible parents and abuse their child.Why, because they are younger? Throughout history, females married and gave birth by the time they were sixteen. That is the way it was done.That is why our bodies begin to menstruate at 13 or earlier. It is people's attitudes however, that have changed in America about the age to marry and have children, not Mother Nature's. Most females begin babysitting when they are they are 12 or 13 too. I started when I was12, and took care of babies, as well as three year olds. That was common in my day. None of those children I babysat for ever got hurt or died in my care. I knew how to change a diaper, heat up a bottle, make them dinner and knew not to let a toddler play in the road. Alot of females too, also had younger siblings, and would be taught at an early age, how to care for an infant. They would watch their Mothers, and be instructed by them, and that is why girls in my generation were hired to babysit as pre-teens, although I learned most of what to do and not do from a class in my junior high school. Pro-Adoption organizations,like the NCFA, try to brainwash the American Public, that a female, age15 or 16 is too young to keep her own child, if she has one out of wedlock. This was the message sent to many a BSE Mother in the 50's& 60's. Yet a woman who is married and infertile, who doesn't even have the natural maternal instincts needed to care for a baby born to her, because she has not had a baby born to her, was thought to magically know exactly what to do to take care of some other female's infant who would now live with her who she would incorrectly try to make her own. Granted, she could of learned how to care for an infant due to babysitting herself, but Real Mother's have an intense, almost spiritual need to take care of her child who is a part of her. I certainly as a teenager would never let harm come to any of the regular little kids I babysat for all the time, and none ever did, and I made sure they were safe and yeah, I liked them alot, but there is no way that I loved them like their real Mothers did. If they were my REAL child however, of course I would of, because they would of been a part of me. One's real child is also a sense of ego fulfillment for Real Mother's which is something Adoptive Mothers do not experience. When you have a child, that child is a reflection of yourself. An extention of one's ego. How many parents who have had natural children have been heard saying, she has my eyes, or she sings well because she got my voice, or she is good at math like I was. Adoptive Parents on the contrary, many of them, my Adoptive Mother included seem threatened by the talents and good qualities Adopted children have inherited from their real parents and from other blood relatives and get very resentful when children they adopt begin to show their real DNA and the Adoptive Parents know they can take no credit for it. I had heard many,many stories about this unfortunate fact from other Adoptees more times than I would ever of liked too. Blanket Girls, another Adopted myspacer who was also a victim of many of those on my Villians Of Myspace list, including Playa'ette por Vida who kicked her out of the Adoptiongroup we were both in, because she had feelings similar to mine about Adoption, thanked me once for posting the following article from a blog I found online in the Adoption group that was trashing me. I adore this article not only because tells the truth of abusive, unrealistic and just plain weird attitudes my Adoptive Mother had towards me, but because it tells a truth not usually spoken concerning women who Adopt:
From The Another's Woman's Daughter blog:

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN...

In speaking with adopted females, I have learned that some experienced jealousy and/or competitiveness by their adoptive mother. It is a very difficult and confusing situation to grow up in; one that I would consider a hostile environment. It usually occurs at the onset of puberty and may or may not resolve itself. Issues of jealousy include but are not limited to: physical appearance, intellectual, athletic or musical ability, and relationships with other family members. Some adopted females report their mothers being extremely jealous of the relationships with their fathers. A few went so far as to accuse their daughters of dressing too provocatively around "their husband" or trying to seduce him. But wait, there's more! I have been in touch with adopted women whose adoptive mothers even pitted them against their siblings (most of whom were not adopted) in order to "earn" attention and affection. Some female adoptees experience rage and extreme punishments from their adoptive mother due to issues of jealousy and competition. These things may have happened to male adoptees with regards to their fathers. But if that's the case, I certainly haven't heard from any. So, what is it with the females?
What happens when a woman realizes she is literally raising "another woman's daughter" and can't stand it?

Let's not forget that the above is a form of emotional abuse and shouldn't betaken lightly. In fact, emotional abuse can often be the most damaging long term. The fact that I have run into more than a dozen of these women at various adoption functions around the state leads me to believe that that there is a "type" of woman that shouldn't be allowed to adopt. But how do we spot them? What are the warning signs? Can mental illness be to blame? If so, then how did they make it through the adoption process in the first place?

There's a lot to discuss and I welcome the opportunity to do so.

Posted by Joanna Freitag at 11:55 AM 3 comments
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Mary said...
My amother got increasingly hostile while my asis was pregnant with her first child. My asis was doing something that amom couldn't do. Our amother never developed a relationship with asis kids (I cut contact with amother years ago). I think the female adoptees potential fertility is a threat.
5:02 PM
Anonymous said...
These types of things happen quite frequently though people rarely talk aboutit. My adoptive mother was jealous of the relationship I had with my fahter. I was an only child. She was very nasty to me once I hit my teenage years and would call me a "slut" when I just every day clothes;nothing provocative or revealing.
Laura
10:37 AM"



Posting this blog of course in an Adoption group on myspace, most of which arePro-Adoption even though they diguse that fact, got me verbal lashing after verbal lashing.
My Adoptive brother had a friend in highschool who got his girlfriend pregnant at 16 in 1980. She was a sweet and compassionate teenager who kept the son she had with him and who was an incredibly responsible and dedicated Mother. She had never contacted an Adoption agency thank God, and a few years later she married her son's father and they had another baby boy and were nothing less than a beautiful happy family. I have known many teenagers that have kept their own flesh and blood, and reaped in the pride of doing the right thing by doing this, for every member of a bloodline is just as important and valuable as any other member, and deserves all the love and acceptance that other family members have gotten for being part of the family. spookie however likes to push the idea that alot of teenagers would shake their infants, prevent them from getting a good education and abuse them just because they are young. Recently in TheDaily Bastardette, yet another blog was written about a beautiful baby left in a horribly hot car to die. Sweet Jessica was only 9 months old,when her foster "Mother" forgot all about her. This happened last week and not too long after Chase Harrison died in a roasting SUV, as his Adoptive Father forgot all about him too, for 8 hours while he was at work and "his son" was dying outside of the building he was in all that time. My Adoptive brothers friend, a mere 17 year old never forgotabout his adorable sons, nor did their Mother. Nor have any otherteenage Mothers. Statistics do show that there is more abuse inAdoptive Families and in Foster Care then there is amongst naturalfamilies but this is a fact of course that the Adoption Industry wantsto cover up, and that spookie wants to ignore. She'd rather perpetuatethe myth that most single and teenage Mothers are unfit. In herincredibly informative blog, Kite Kamp Girl mentions that there aremany resources available to teenage Mothers, including WIC and otherprograms and the excellent point was made, that since it is our taxdollars that pay for these programs, there is nothing wrong withtapping into their resources. Many a teenager has paid tax in jobs theyhave worked and there is no shame in getting something back for the taxdollars they lost. Many a Christian too, will argue that no adolescentgirl should raise a part of her own body, called HER baby, yet theVirgin Mary was 13 when she gave birth to Christ. They ignore this facthowever because they would rather punish females who fornicate ratherthen forgive them as Jesus demanded they do. But that is Christianityfor you.....a man made religion formed to tailor to it's memberscomfort zone, and own personal needs and one that twists stealing andcoveting someone else's child into "God's will". spookie's assumptionthat I would want a child to stay with an abusive Real Parent isridiculous, but so is her classification that there are so many abusivesingle and teenager Mothers who would kill their children and abusethem. There are plenty of good Mothers who are not married who takephenomenal care and love deeply their children and do not abuse themany more than a woman widowed who becomes a single Mother would. Thisuneducated fool, who has never personally been affected by Adoption inany way shape or form, and who was never told to her face she wasn'tgood enough due to being born out of wedlock to be told her ownMother's name like I was growing up, seems to deem herself an expert onsubjects she knows nothing about. I have said many times that I dobelieve a child should be raised by legal Guardians if that child is aTRUE orphan and has NO living relatives anywhere in the entire world,BUT that child should not have to call strangers Mom and Dad and thechild should be given the respect to grieve his or her real parents,something that was never allowed in my day, in closed Adoption. Notknowing who or where my parents were, and not being ALLOWED to know, Iwas denied as well knowing whether they were dead or alive, andwondering if reality was the latter, I was also denied the ability tobe able to grieve for their deaths and receive emotional support due tothis. Children who have lost someone important to them in their lives,need sympathy and the chance to go through what adults go through whensomeone they love has passed on too. So if a child is orphaned veryyoung or even as an older child, putting them in a closed adoption,where they get no information about their real parents including theirnames and photographs is a BEYOND INHUMANE ACT. Children today who areorphaned do not deserve either, to have their parents replaced bybarren couples who for their own egotistical reasons NEED TO BE CALLEDMOM AND DAD. This is why I believe in Guardianship vs. Adoption andbeing a Guardian is a much more charitable and selfless act, thenforcing a child to feel like they are an infertile couple's real childinstead letting them be themselves. Guardians would let a true orphanedchild know his or her real parents name. They would keep for the child,the name the child's parents gave them, they would have respect for therelationship the child had with his or her real parents, and show thechild pictures of his or her family. Gaurdians, rather than Adoptiveparents would still care for the child's needs, but would not force thechild to accept them as a replacement for the child's real parentseither. There would none of the mind games that occur in Adoption withGaurdianship. So many Adoptive Parent's consider themselves realMothers and Fathers because they have spent money on the child theyadopt. So they think they own the child and the child should assumetheir real families identity. But money like ink, will never be thickerthan blood, and it is our real parents that we form our identities frombecause WE ARE A PART OF THEIR BODIES, and it is from our parentsbodies that we get our DNA which allows us to mirror our parents goodqualites. This fact too, is a reality that is priceless and that cannever be measured or begotten by monetary means. Something spookie willNEVER understand, and will continue to call me insane for dicussing outof the Adoption Propaganda pushing box she and so many others havetried to cram me into.
AND SPEAKING OF BOXES, ALTHOUGH I HAVERECEIVED NO MORE PSYCHOTIC COMMENTS IN MY COMMENT BOX FROM SPOOKIE ANDHER TROLL FREINDS, THE TWO BLOGS I WROTE YESTERDAY STILL STAND. THEREARE TO BE NO MORE COMMENTS EVER FROM ANY OF YOU. OR I WILL NOTIFY THEAUTHORITIES. YOU CAN TRASH ME ALL YOU WANT ON YOUR JUVENILE TEMPERTANTRUM MYSPACE GROUP WHICH WILL BE COMING DOWN SOON BECAUSE HAVINGTHIS GROUP UP IS AGAINST THE LAW, WHILE SPOOKIE MAKES UP THINGS I NEVERSAID AND LIES ABOUT ME MAKING THREE PROFILES. SPOOKIE IS DOING NOTHINGBUT LYING AND CALLING ME A CYBER BULLY FOR YELLING BARK AT PEOPLE WHOATTACKED ME FIRST. BUT THAT IS HER GAME ANYWAY-SHE PICKS ON SOMEONE ANDTHEN TRIES TO DESTROY THEM FOR FIGHTING BACK. BEYOND SICK.

Monday, September 8, 2008


LAST MESSAGE TO SPOOKIE


YOU OBVIOUSLY DIDN'T READ THE COMMENTS I LEFT TO YOUR COMMENTS ON MY LAST BLOG-I SWORE THAT IF YOU SEND ME ONE MORE MESSAGE I AM GOING TO THE COPS AND I GETTING THEM TO HACK YOUR ACCOUNT-I HAVE PUT A RESTRAININGORDER BEFORE THROUGH THE COURT HERE ON SOMEONE ELSE YOU VERY MUCH REMIND ME OF TOO, AND I WILL TAKE LEGAL ACTION AGAINST YOU. THIS IS YOUR LAST WARNING-YOU HARRASS ME AGAIN, THEN YOU DEAL WITH THE POLICE YOU STALKING CYBERBULLY. IT IS VERY SAD THAT YOU ARE SO IMMORAL, SO IMMATURE THAT YOU REFUSE TO ACKNOWLEDGE WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO ME, YOU DISH IT OUT BUT REFUSE TO ACCEPT JUST CRITICISM ABOUT YOURSELF AND HAVE NO CONSCIENCE WHAT SO EVER. THE FOLLOWING IS WHAT I POSTED YESTERDAY: GO LOOK YOURSELF

urevilincarn8 said...
Did you drop dead yet? Darn.
Meanydoodle. Visit my group then.

Jaymie

September 7, 2008 11:24 AM


The Improper Adoptee said...
Whata loser you are spookie, that you make up other idenities to harrass someone that you hurt on purpose to begin with. You are an insideous,insepid, meanspirited, immature bitch who goes and sets people up, andthen trashes them because they do not want to deal with you. You are anhysterical prima donna demon who cant STAND HAVING YOUR EVIL IGNORED.You are one of the biggest spoiled brats I have ever met, with theexception of my Adoptive Mother and two guys I had the displeasure ofknowing once. And oh yeah, the three nutcases that date raped me once.Hey-I have a question for you-does a dork win. Get it? GO AHEAD WITH YOUR GROUP, AND CONTINUE TO INSULT PEOPLE LIKE ADOPTEE RIGHTS PROTEST.I AM TAKING LEGAL ACTION AGAINST YOU, I AM SUING YOU AND FOX (MY SPACE) FOR CYBER BULLYING AND HARRASSMENT AND STALKING AND BEING PREDJUDICED AGAINST ME BECAUSE I AM A BASTARD AND AM ADOPTED IF YOUR GROUP DOESN'T COME DOWN. WHAT YOU HAVE DONE IS A HATE CRIME. YOU INIITATED CONTACT WITH ME AND I HAVE THE PROOF. I ALSO HAVE ALL THE PROOF OF BEING PICKED ON AND THAT ANYTHING I SAID BACK WAS JUST DEFENDING MYSELF AFTER I WAS VERBALLY ABUSED IN THE FIRST PLACE. YOU SEND ME ONE MORE COMMENT, AND I STILL HAVE MOST OF THEM AND I SWEAR TO GOD I AM CALLING THE POLICE AND HAVING THEM HACK YOUR ACCOUNT. HOW I REACTED TO ABUSE DOES NOT MATTER. WHAT MATTERS IS THE ABUSE SPEWED ON ME BY BULLIES LIKE YOU AND LAUREN AND LISA MARIE. AND BEING THE LIAR YOU ARE YOU NEVER SHOW HOW I WAS PICKED ON TO BEGIN WITH AND ANYTHING I EVER SAID WAS A REACTION TO THAT ABUSE. TAKE YOUR UNJUSTIFIED VENGENCE AND SHOVE IT UP YOUR WORTHLESS ASS AND STOP PICKING ON GERSHOM AND ME. YOUR LITTLE GROUP OF CORNIES PICKED ON BLANKET GIRLS AND ROSE TOO, AND I AM SURE THEY WILL BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO VERIFY THAT. YOU ARE A SPAMMER, GERSHOM'S INBOX IS PROOF OF THAT, AND SO IS MINE, SENDING THE SAME LONG LYING MESSAGES THREE OR FOUR TIMES IN A ROW. YOU GO HARRASS AND PICK ON GERSHOM ONLY BECAUSE SHE TOOK MY SIDE AND THEN YOU CALL HER A MORON. ALL YOU DO IS YOU MAKE EVERYTHING I SAY ABOUT YOU TRUE EVERYDAY ONLINE.

September 7, 2008 5:52 PM


The Improper Adoptee said...
YOUR LITTLE GROUP OF *CORNIES

YOUR LITTLE GROUP OF *CRONIES

September 7, 2008 5:54 PM


The Improper Adoptee said...
Oh and btw you VAMPIRE AND YES YOU ARE A VAMPIRE IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD, INCLUDING A PSYCHIC VAMPIRE, how incredibly stupid you make yourself look saying assine things like I think about you and its creepy due to my last blog, BUT YOU PUT UP A GROUP AGAINST ME AND YOUWEREN'T THINKING ABOUT ME? HA!

September 7, 2008 6:12 PM


The Improper Adoptee said...
AND GO AHEAD AND MAKE FUN OF MY BLOG MEANYDOODLES-THERE ARE MILLIONS OF ADOPTEES THAT FEEL THE PAIN I TALKED ABOUT IN THAT BLOG, AND WHEN YOU MAKE FUN OF IT, YOU MAKE FUN OF EVERYONE WHO HAD TO ENDURE THAT PAIN. SO WHAT DOES THAT MAKE YOU?.....

September 7, 2008 6:14 PM

Wednesday, September 3, 2008


As The Psycho Turns, Part III

As I was having my coffee on Labor Day morning, or mid morning, as I woke up quite late, I thought to myself, with school starting all over the country in a day or two, wouldn't it be interesting if I hadn't heard from spookie. (Her picture heads this blog). Maybe, I thought, she is just some maladjusted spoiled brat 15 year old who had too much time onher hands all summer. And who gets off abusing and tormenting adults online. Especially adults in pain. But that of course, is a trolls life purpose. We all have been victim of one of those obnoxious adolescents who deem themselves the Gods of technology and the lack of good manners at least once, somewhere on the internet. Since I had my comments turned off all of the long weekend, I felt she had tried to make somemore rude remarks to me, but was probably catatonic with frustration. But since I have come back, I haven't heard a peep out of her. Not one crude word. From any of the "many" people spookie wanted me to believe were screaming at me through my monitor. So perhaps I wasn't so far offin my assumption. Or maybe she is just off pouting because she hasn't been able to get my Blogger account deleted like she threatened too about 100 times. spookie is good hacker, but I guess she isn't that good after all. So maybe she is all embarrassed. Or maybe as I have exposed her for the Pro-Adoption cretin she really is she finally got the tongue lashings she deserves (and hopefully a case of carpal tunnel thrown in on the side for good Karmic measure ). Since she states she sports a different hair color dye all the time too, maybe only her hairdresser knows for sure......

If you go and read the many statements from Tom on myspace, he says concerning personal information, that one should never give out any, which of course no one ever should, because you don't know who you are talking too and way too many people aren't who they say they are. so who is spookie? Is she a crazed multiple, a salivating PAP, a bitter Adoptive Mother, or just anover indulged out of control youth? Only her isp server would know for sure......but no matter who she is, the horrible remarks she has made to those hurt by Adoption are unforgivable.

It is beyond obvious however that every foul mouthed piece of trash sent to me in my comment box only further proved what I was told about her, that she has manyprofiles and even changes the profiles she creates to try to seem likeshe is someone else. Catty For A Cause, became Jamyie and you can seeshe changed that myspace name by posts written on forums way back inJune. She also has sent me comments as Anonymous, like the one Ipublished on my blog "And Your Little Dog Too"(written because of howshe badgers people who stood up for me). In my third entry about thisschizo game schumckette loves to play, I would like to make somecomments myself in regard to the ridiculously long comment I got 15times in my inbox. First of all, after my account got unfairly deletedby spookie for the second or third time, a friend of mine, who startedan account and choose the handle Native Warrior was sick and tired ofher big mouth. So he told her what he thought of her, but with outbeing mean spirited, because he isn't mean spirited, he is just a shysweet guy that I am lucky to know. He had told spookie in one post thatshe was "ugly":
"i'm native canadian. grew up speaking french. don'tspeak english well and like my native language better. am also shy anddon't like to talk on the internet. guess that is why i write choppy.spookie you are a bigot. you are a mean and evil woman. you are also onmy space staff people say. you hack people and abuse good people likestepfordc. she is a beautiful woman. you are not. you never will be.you are ugly like all bullys are".
Of course, when he used thisword, he meant she was ugly in spirit, but of course she was toodimwitted to understand that. Sometimes I wonder if spookie even has asoul...
Secondly, in her compulsive lying state of mind, she claims:
"I'msure she was laughing. I reported her bulletin. When she posted that,she was in violation of TOS. You cannot come onto this site and harasspeople with such gusto like she has for over a year or more"
A year?I wasn't even on myspace for a year. Try eight months. And I wasn'tharassing or bullying anyone. I was only fighting back because I neverstarted the whole argument. On either thread. Especially this one whenI hadn't talked to her since I wrote back to her the first time,because her second email to me was full of bogus information thatdidn't deserve a reply. As you can see, all I did was post a bulletinto help dieting women and factory farmed animals:
Posted: Jun 3, 2008 7:28 AM From:
http://v.mercola.com/blogs/public_blog/Don-t-Be-Misled-By-Dairy-Ads-62429.aspx
"Accordingto a review of the published scientific literature, claims that low-fatdairy products or calcium can help people lose weight are untrue.Neither dairy products in general nor calcium intake promote weightloss.
Out of 49 clinical trials, 41 showed no effects of diary orcalcium on weight, two showed an increase in body weight with a dairyregimen, and one showed a lower rate of weight gain. Only five showedweight loss.
An association between calcium or dairy intake andweight loss has been seen in some "observational" studies, possibly dueto other factors such as increased exercise, cutting out high-caloriefoods with little nutritional value, or other diet changes."
©Copyright 2008 Dr. Joseph Mercola. All Rights Reserved. This contentmay be copied in full, with copyright, contact, creation andinformation intact, without specific permission, when used only in anot-for-profit format. If any other use is desired, permission inwriting from Dr. Mercola is required.
"But Organic SoDelicious doeshelp you lose weight! This incredible non dairy frozen treat is notonly awesome tasting, it is LOW FAT! Trader Joe’s, due to complaintsfrom rip off national grocery chains, such as Stop & Shop andShaw’s amongst others, that charge $4.49 per half gallon of SoDelicioushas created a contract with them to now market it for their store undertheir name as they have been selling it for $2.69 a half galloninstead, and these major rip off retailers were complaining. So if yougo to Trader Joe’s look for Trader’s Joe’s Organic Soy Creamy,Non-Dairy Frozen dessert. The chocolate flavor is beyondscrumptious-think the lightness of chocolate sherbert with the richnessof brownies and chocolate mousse. This frozen miracle is also good forchildren, because many have dairy allergies, and if they are notallergic to soy products, this is the perfect solution.SoDelicious/Trader Joe’s Oraganic Soy Creamy, comes in other flavorstoo. The Vanilla tastes like sugar cookie dough! I happen to be achocoholic, so I stock up on the differant choclate flavors, butSoDelicious has something for everbody, including poor abused dairycows. Less sales for the horrific dairy industry if you buy thisinstead of fattening, unhealthy ice cream.
As much as I appreciateTrader Joe’s for some things however, I am upset with them for stillcontinuing to sell battery caged eggs. They do not test on animals, andare on Peta’s non testing list, yet they are supporting animal abuse bystocking cardboard cartons of eggs in their stores. Please call themtoday and tell them TO STOP THIS, as it makes their company look like ahypocrite as on one hand they claim to care about animals and theenviornment, and yet on the other hand they are supporting animal abuseand global warming by making money for factory farms.
Call Them:
http://www.traderjoes.com/locations.asp
Email Them:
http://www.traderjoes.com/product_information_form.aspx"
ThenI heard from spookie on this forum where I posted the above. Shestarted the conversation, if you want to call it that, when I neverwanted to speak to her again at all. And this is the mind game thatensued. This was not too long after the first time she deleted myaccount by hacking it.
Mittens [the Cat]
F/42
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New York
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Send Message Posted: Jun 3, 2008 11:48 AM "...but SoDelicious has something for everbody, including poor abused dairy cows."

WTF! haha. Ooooh-kay.

StepFordChild
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WHITE HORSE BEACH,
Massachusetts
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SendMessage Posted: Jun 4, 2008 5:45 AM If you really cared about animalrights, you’d know what I meant. Vegans do. When you attack peopletrying to reduce the purchases of dairy products to help the animals,like you attacked me, you make yourself look like an immature 7th gradebully, disturbed, selfish and mean. Not good characteristics to fightthe war on animal abuse...

spookie

F/38
West Hempstead & Long Beach,
New York
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Send Message Posted: Jun 7, 2008 9:15 AM Mittens [the Cat] wrote:
"...but SoDelicious has something for everbody, including poor abused dairy cows."

WTF! haha. Ooooh-kay.

StepFordChild wrote:
Ifyou really cared about animal rights, you’d know what I meant. Vegansdo. When you attack people trying to reduce the purchases of dairyproducts to help the animals, like you attacked me, you make yourselflook like an immature 7th grade bully, disturbed, selfish and mean. Notgood characteristics to fight the war on animal abuse...

spookie

F/38
West Hempstead & Long Beach,
New York
Instant Message
Send Message

"What the hell are you talking about? The post above is not an attack.
BTW, people in glass houses should not throw stones.
Remember,the bully is the one who violated TOS and had her profile deleted. Thatwas you. The one who spews cruel libelous tales. Now calm yourselfdown. Your post was just not fully understood — like how "SoDelicioushas something for everybody, including poor abused dairy cows." Whatdoes SoDelicious have for dairy cows?!? And don’t tell me about vegans,vegetarians or AR/AA people. You are not the only person in the worldon the side of animals, TYVM".
After this aggravating conversation,spookie would follow me around and cause chaos where ever I was, anddeleting my account for the third time, until I would see her again forthe last time on the Adoption forum:
"So what if you care about somepigs and a chicken. There’s nothing else you care about. NOTHING. God,someone just ban this woman. I thought there was a slim chance oftalking sense into her head, but obviously not".
"WOW, ha ha ha! Inever once reported Miss Chainsaw! FOR REAL! Know why? She’s never oncedone anything to violate TOS. PAINT did, and many times! She deservedto get her ass deleted! As for Slide, it’s old, old news and the past!All of it is! But you fell for it. But don’t dare try to add your ownobsession with Miss Chainsaw into my messages, because I AM FRIENDSWITH HER, you dumb ass. I’m also friends with Lindsay, and others, sounless you know who what where how, don’t fuck up my messages for yourown agenda, lady".
I never had an obsession with Chainsaw, this isjust another lie she made up,(nor did I ever alter anything this foolever said) I was avoiding this troll at all costs, like alot of otherAnimal Rights Activists, but spookie sure does have an obsessionpushing Adoption, and not caring at all about the millions it has hurtas she continued to write posts like the following on public forums:
"BTW,and this will burst your crazy bubble. I told you about getting Mr. Cdeleted (and who he was? NO clue!) and reporting Slide, etc. to try towarm up to you so you’d just stop posting using your psycho profile andmake some AR/AA profile and stop creating drama. Every time anyone seesyou post, do you think anyone gives a crap if it’s to save an animal?No. Make a profile to do that, and stop using your mentally disturbingprofile for it, you’ll get better results! I didn’t tell you about myfriend as a lie, but to see if you were actually so disturbed that youcould only see your own tunneled vision, or if you understood therewere other circumstances in life. Obviously, you can’t see pastanything else but your pathetic self".

No.....I see quite pastmyself. I see the many, many blogs written by Adoptees who hateAdoption as much as me and know how painful it is to grow up being toldyou are not allowed to know your own parents names or get to see whatthey look like. I see all the Adoptees who have taken their livesbecause they just can't stand the pain. I see a whole new generation ofclosed record victims too, who need to maybe in the dark of a sleeplessnight, find my words that they can relate too, so they will see theyare not alone and not dysfunctional like their selfish AP's may wantthem to think they are. I see how Adoption screwed up my Adoptedsiblings and what extreme behaviour it caused both of them at times,although both of them still might not even realize they did the thingsthey did, or act how they act because they were denied their realparents. I see how Adoption and the rage he felt because of it madeanother Adoptee I met in 10th grade who was in my class, and who I wentout with for awhile, sleep with his older sister who was also Adopted,who came on to him, because well, they weren't really related. I sawtoo how this sweet but horribly confused guy almost killed himself withdrugs over a two year period because the pain of being told he couldnot know his own people was too much for him to bear. And so was thefakeness of being Adopted. So he chose to stay out of reality withdrugs because he wasn't allowed to be in reality by law. The stories goon and on and on...and I talk about how horrible closed recordAdoptions are now, because none of us ever talked about it growing up.Perhaps if we had, many of us would of been stronger then we were. Butkeeping us shamed, and feeling rejected by our Real Mothers kept ourtongues from wagging most of the time, and exchanging our feelingsabout the mess we were thrown in, which I truely believe the AdoptionIndustry planned on, because they knew there is a greater power innumbers and that if we discussed how insane closed records really are,we would realize we never should of been ashamed of ourselves to beginwith. And that is one of the Churches and the Adoption Industriesgreatest fears...My profile was never "psycho", nor was it there tocreate drama. The ones who created drama, are the ones who ripped usaway from our Mothers, and then cut us off from ourselves. The ones whocreate drama are the ones who test on animals and destroy their rightto liberty and the quality of their lives as well. Both are passionatesubjects for me. And both will always bring me to my knees. But spookienever will. I will never let her. Because she just isn't thatimportant, nor are her hateful views, towards people who were forcedinto a situation they never gave their permission to be in. She canpost all the lies she wants about me and her insane dribble along withit and she will continue too I'm sure. The links she included in thatmelo dramatic Anonymous post I have been discussing aren't evenrelative to this fight she started with me, and come up different inseparate browser's too. Google takes you to my space groups likeAstrology I never went into, and another group started by stoned overlytattooed 20 year olds. while Yahoo takes you to two other strangegroups that have nothing to do with any of this. It is obvious sheincluded the wrong links, or she fabricated them to begin with. Thepurpose of my discussing her at all on this blog was just to warnpeople that she can not be trusted. And if you are Adopted, and youhappen upon her, she will rip you apart if you do not conform to thelittle box she wants you to live in. A box similar to the one thatholds our OBC's that people who have attitudes and mindsets like her,stole from us to begin with.
On an up note, around Mother's Day lastyear, after I sent out bulletin after bulletin, comparing how babycalves are ripped from their mothers a day after they are born and arehorribly abused in the process of them becoming veal, while the poormother cow constantly cries for her baby and that was the fate of manysingle pregnant women and girls during the BSE era, I found my pointwas finally understood. Before spookie got me deleted for the last timefor spreading my "hate speech" as she called my complaints about sealedAdoption records, I received two bulletins from Animal Activists, thatthousands of other ones saw, that stated that animals feel the sameloss losing their offspring that a human Mother would feel if she losthers, which of course is the truth. My message had gotten through.
Andall my hard work as a dual Activist was not in vain. I have not beenback to my space since June and I have at this time no plans ofreturning. I haven't the time or the engery for that matter to playchildish games and deal with phony identities, because I have enough ofthat to deal with in Adoptionland offline every day. Luckily I knowabout websites and petitions, where I can continue to try to helpanimals who are as innocent as born out of wedlock babies. And I stillam working on two other blogs to expose the horrendous hell sweetvegetarian animals and animals in the wild endure every day. Butdespite the harassment I suffered from a very spookie person who wantsto deny others empathy and the truth, I still feel victorious forfracturing the warm and fuzzy fairy tale that she and others like her,so insensitively want to push. And that is why my list and her name onit will remain...
See you next week, same time, same place, for PartIV, the Finale...(and yes, those are real tears on that abused cowsface. Hearing your offspring being tortured and cry out for her motherwhile living in a factory farm and slaughterhouse makes animalsactually cry...but that is all a hamburger is anyway, a heartbroken,hurt animal....but the USDA, the companies that own factory farms andthe meat packing plants don't want the general public to know aboutthis of course, like the Adoption Industry, AP's and Churches don'twant them to know about what happened to BSE Mothers and how Adoptionis bad for Adoptees either...)

Thursday, August 28, 2008


AS THE PSYCHO TURNS, PART II


Adoption has made my life a soap opera I never wanted to be cast in, and my life in many ways has been turbulent because of it, not only offline, butnow in the cyber section of Adoptionland as well. Another Adoptee toldme a few months ago, about a Real Mother she knew of, who wanted towrite a book in 1979 about the truth of how her baby was coerosed,manipulated and stolen from her by the Adoption Industry. She wasthreatened with jail. Granted, being able to tell truths that Big BadCorporate America doesn't want the general public to know, has advancedsomewhat, as it has regressed at the same time concerning subjectsother than Adoption, and luckily no Real Mother would be imprisoned fortelling the truth about what happened to her at present date, but thereare many other ways to try to silence people besides sticking them in afluorescent orange jumpsuit. Verbal abuse is the tool of choice on theinternet. We all know how it goes....."you have an anger problem", "gethelp" "you could of been aborted" "your mother was probably a crackho", "you sound very ungrateful", "I love my kids as much as any birthmother and actually more" and of course the good olestandby......"adoption is love". Uh huh. That statement has NEVER, EVER been my experience with the Adoption System, my Closed Adoption recordsor my Adoptive Mother, and concerning the things she has done to me andsaid about me in my life, quite the contrary is true, because she is myworst enemy. And she wants to be...but whatever, because I don't wantto talk about that right now. I decided too, I am leaving discussing myreligious beliefs until Part III, as this blog is going to be longenough just discussing this very "spookie" devil incarnate. I havepublished some of the comments from Part I of this psychodrama that Ibegan yesterday, due to the lies about me by a cyberpsycho who I neverasked into my life, nor did I ever want to talk too. Kind of like myAdoptive Mother...
You can see her Adoption luvin comments in blogs I wrote recently and not so recently, as they were this morning published on:
And Your Little Dog Too
Born Again Bastards
Last Laugh
My Bads &
Better Than Bingo
Same Mirror, Different Reflection
Youcan see for yourself how schmuckette (spookie) vies for Adoption,because she claims she knows ONE person off line who was Adopted. Herstory however, has many holes in it. First she told me in an email,(that I had no proof was true) that her experience with Adoption waswith a college friend who was Adopted and found her "crack head ho""Birth mother" who was still toking her brains out.

"by mysupport of a friend’s adoption to a loving family, instead of living onthe streets with her drug-addicted mother and then left someplace todie by accident while her mother was high or turning a trick for moredrugs".

"Anne was adopted at a very young age after spendingtime in a foster home with many other children. Anne and I age the sameage — 42. During 1990, Anne said her full name was Daisy Anne, and toldme about her birth mother, and how she came to live on Long Island withall of her brothers. They had been her foster family, and they adoptedher. Anne knew her real family, and sometimes spoke to her aunt. Shedidn't live with her aunt because her aunt didn't want to raise her,and supposedly didn't have the means to. Anne said her blood family was"a bit messed up." No one else was willing to take Anne and raise herwhen she was a baby and kept being taken away from her mother. Hermother was an addict (supposedly cocaine and other drugs, plus alcohol)and didn't provide for Anne and would leave her alone often. Anne waslucky when she was a bit older and was put into the foster family onLong Island, because they took great care of her. Anne's not too sureabout some of the others, and only knows that sometimes she was withrelatives, and sometimes with foster care in one of the 5 boroughs ofNY. Anne knew where her mother lived, or hung around. Anne had told meabout her mother once telling her how she never wanted her, and sayingshe was just a mistake from a fun time. Anne was a pre-teen and had tohear that. Anne wanted to try again, now that she was older. Her motherwas in the Bronx and living in a place that was not technicallylivable. She wasn't paying the rent and she didn't have a real job.Anne couldn't find her, so that was it for a while. She tried againyears later. Anne's mother was no mother. She was a crack addictedwoman who didn't recognize her own daughter, though Anne looked likewhat her birth mother would have looked like had she not made a mess ofher life. According to Anne, her mother's crack addiction was paid forby selling herself and stealing, but more likely selling herself. Hermother wanted no part of her and told her to get lost. Anne was hurt,but said to me, "I'm glad I have my dad and my brothers, because theylove me and I love them. That lady isn't my mother. My mother diedyears ago." (Her adopted mother had died.) I think my friend was evenangry, because her mother was so uninterested in her, and so careless.She's dead now, BTW, her birth mother. Anne found out long after"

Thisis the second version she relayed to me. The first time she told meabout this she said this woman's Mother was a "crackhead". Apparentlythough, this woman was doing crack when Anne was born and was an olderinfant. WHEN THERE WAS NO CRACK.
Then spookie says on an Animal Rights forum that Anne got pregnant in college and she helped her put the baby up for Adoption:

spookie wrote:
Faith and Chico’s mother wrote:
I wish everybody would leave stepford child alone. everybody is entitled to their opinions.
Lay off of her she did nothing to any of you.

spookie wrote:

Faith’s mother,
You’re being NAIVÉ! I hope you read this, because you obviously missed the last post I made!

Firstof all, All I did was suggest that the psycho create a differentprofile for posting animal issues. She’s edited my messages to supporther sick rage against members here, and now me, of course! (FROM IA:THAT IS A LIE) Why, though? Because I support my friend Anne, who wasadopted! And what Stepford seems to have read over, Anne then had ababy and gave her daughter up for adoption! That’s right Stepford! AndI helped Anne do it! We were in college, and I helped Anne through herpregnancy and the adoption. The adoptive parents are wonderful!"

Thiswas one of many bashing posts that spookie wrote after I didn't writeback to her concerning her Adoption pushing e-mail to me. It was twoweeks that she hadn't heard from me, and then everytime I made a poston a forum concerning animal welfare, to try to help animals, she wouldbring up the fact that I "ignored her" and she would start calling meterrible names, say I was a liar, and a poser. Then she threatened toget me deleted:
"You know Stepford, if I REALLY wanted to, I couldhave your sick, twisted profile deleted in 72 hours.(NOTE FROM IA: MYSICK TWISTED PROFILE TALKED ABOUT HOW I WAS ABUSED BY MY AM, ABOUT BSEMOTHERS WHOSE BABIES WERE FORCED FROM THEM AND ABOUT HOW THE CLOSEDRECORD SYSTEM IS ABUSIVE) for posting private messages. B) for alteringprivate messages. C) for posting "hate speech" - yeah! I think we cancall your adoption crap hate speech! It’s on that agreement you clicked"

Andshe did, after she came into groups I made for Adoption and AnimalRights and started ripping me apart and saying disgusting things to me,and lying left and right about me. I did come back at her, before I wasdeleted the first time after weeks of her terrorizing behaviour:

Ididn’t answer your question Spookie because you are a liar. That was apre-disposed, pre- calculated question with only one purpose and thatis too perpetuate the myth that all single mothers are crack addictsand it was made up by the Pro-Adoption Industry that you support. Youneed to make up better lies as well, because from the story you told meyour friends mother did crack when IT WASN’T EVEN AROUND and yet youexpect a reply from me? Get over yourself.

At this time, therewere people making copy cat profiles of many Animal Activists and othertypes of Activists. One of my friends on my friends list, "Sad AnimalGhost" was a victim of this scam and another well known AnimalActivist, Kathy had written me an email saying that she knew manypeople this was happening too. spookie claimed I sent her a messageafter she had me deleted which I never sent. spookie also claims in theover 75 comments she has sent to this blog in total, in the last twoweeks, many that are the same, but posted under different names, thatshe had me deleted because of letters she wrote to Administrators, butthe truth is she is a hacker and has hacker friends, who got into myemail and deleted my account. After accusing me of something I didn'tdo, I replied to her after remaking my profile:

Oh you skankloser spookie. You are a hacker, a liar and a 4 year old SPOILED BRAT.I never wrote what you made up and posted in here. YOU are the one whostarted this WHOLE thing because you made up a mean spirited story andtried to indicate to me that all birth mothers are CRACK WHORES, whichis an immature, and horrific LIE, PLUS IT IS SLANDER!-GO READ THE BOOK,EVERYONE READ THE BOOK, WHICH IS THE TRUTH ABOUT ADOPTION AND HOWBABIES ARE TAKEN AGAINST A GOOD MOTHER’S WILL, MANIPULATED AWAY, ANDSOLD BY ADOPTION AGENCIES AND THEN THEY LIE AND PUT AN INFERTILEWOMAN’S NAME ON OUR BIRTH CERTIFICATES SAYING SHE GAVE BIRTH TO US WHENSHE DID NOT AND DO NOT GIVE US THE REAL BC WITH OUR MOMS NAMES ONTHEM-BABIES IN AMERICA ARE SOLD FOR UP TO 100 GRAND EACH-THE BOOK ISCALLED "THE GIRLS THAT WENT AWAY"
GO READ IT-AMERICA HAS A LONG EVIL HISTORY OF ABUSE AND BIGOTRY-LOOK AT SLAVERY!
SOMEGOOD WEBSITES THAT SPOOKIE DOESN’T WANT ANYONE TO KNOW ABOUT THAT TELLTHE TRUTH ABOUT ADOPTION & OPEN ADOPTION TOO ARE:
abolishadoption.com
exiledmothers.com
keepyourbaby.com
Theselinks will take you to other links-forget what you saw in JUNO, it isall a LIE-a group of selfish adoptive parents that oppress the slaves,I mean kids they adopt called the NCFA DO NOT want us to know our ownpeople, or who we look like, OR OUR OWN PARENTS NAMES! or the fact thatmost babies are coerosed away from single mothers against their will bysocial workers, WHEN WE WANTED TO BE WITH THEM-THE NCFA ARE THE ONESTHAT GET BS MOVIES LIKE JUNO MADE, TO BRAINSWASH GIRLS TO GIVE AWAYTHEIR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD TO INFERTILE STRANGERS WHO BUY THEM AND THENCON THE POOR CHILD THAT THEY ARE THEIRS WHICH IS ABUSE WHILE NOTLETTING THE CHILD EVEN KNOW THEIR MOMS NAME.
Spookie is like thosepeople-she is a people abuser and she hates me because I expose andhate the American adoption system because it abused me and countlessothers.
She hates me because she wrote me a very mean email MEANT TOHURT ME and then I did NOT reply and she handles it like a 4th gradeBULLY-going all around into groups insulting me, calling me names-it issad she says she is 42 and acts like the mean kids we all knew injunior high school, but this is how Pro-Adoption people are-skanklosers!!
And that is harrassing, intimidating, manipulating hacker, spammer, phisher
spookie, ika: mittens the cat IS
Stay way from her if you care about yourself.
She is beyond dangerous and needs SERIOUS MENTAL HEATH HELP.
Burn in hell spookie.

Ihad finally had it. Then of course she got me deleted again, after Imade a new account, and again and again, until I finally left thissocial network and came onto Blogger.

spookie, had initiatedcontact with me first-I had never talked to her before that I was awareof. She was very disturbed that I would go into Animal Rights groupswith a profile telling the truth about Adoption and she was very snideto me about it:

"I messaged that phony-ass Stepford Old Hagtwice and told her that I didn’t support bullying and I had reportedPAINT and gotten her deleted. I also told her that yes, I did get Spilldeleted way back, and probably got the guy called Mr. Chain deleted byaccident since he was in the topic. Who the hell is this loon to takeadvantage of my reaching out to her for her love and care of animals bystarting shit with me by saying my friend’s situation is a made-upstory?!? That’s bullshit, and if you’re falling for it, Faith’s mother,please, delete me off your friends list. I was NICE to this crazyperson! I told her to just make another profile"!

She wasn'tnice to me. Maybe the first time she contacted me she wasn't a ravinglunatic, but that was because she didn't want me to take off before shegot to trash me for my views on Adoption. And why should I have madeanother profile? Because I think I am the God spookie, doesn't wantAnimal Activists to hear about the truth of how oppressive Adoption isfor Adoptees and BSE Mothers? And according to spookie, my telling ofthe abuses that have come to us due to the closed record system, denialof our OBC's and the fact that the Adoption, Social Work, MedicalProfessions, along with Christian clergy is "hate speech"! Hate speech!spookie can't even get along with people who she considers her allies.While I was being mocked for the pain I have suffered from being in aclosed record Adoption on two animal groups, to my horror, I would findon a group that gives the illusion it is for Adoptees, knowing fullwell, most of us feel rejection from our Real Mothers, due to what wewere told growing up, and what was incinuatied, a poem that I foundcompletely sanctimonious and insulting. The poll results on my blogagree....so do some BSE Mothers, who left comments on "Open Adoption,Closed Hearts", my dedication to that poem. After reading it threetimes, and showing it to a friend of mine offline I decided, wedecided, that that poem was nothing but a cheap sales pitch to promoteOpen Adoption, that like closed, confuses and still creates feelings ofrejection in Adoptees. So...I said what I felt, like everyone else doesonline..

blah, blah, blah, ..tears mean nothing, regret meansnothing, self- pity means nothing, sanctimonious pain means nothing,self-sacrifice and keeping us means everything....

After that, Lauren, who put her child in Open Adoption because she didn't want to raise her replied:

"selfpity means nothing, than WHY THE HELL do you keep feeling sorry foryourself? I'm all for open records for adoptees, I think they have aright to know it all, and "it all" being the truth, but all you do isgo around harassing anyone with fucking feelings. Seriously, your wordsmean nothing. Give up. It's pathetic".

Lauren, along with awhole group of women who would rather sit online all day, posting indifferent "birth mother" groups promoting Open Adoption, when theycould be using that time taking care of their child, being responsibleto their child and working their rumps off like MOTHERS SHOULD, insteadof slothing him or her off onto someone else who bought their child,just didn't want to hear the truth about how much Adoption hurts fromsomeone who knows all about it. The one in the triad it is REALLYabout. An Adoptee.
So after her attack on me, I was bombarded byother happy little Adoptees, happy little birth mothers involved inOpen Adoption and happy little Adoptive Mothers. There was also asearch angel in that group, who I was informed was a copy cat profile.With 30 of them making fun of me, refusing to acknowledge my feelingson this hell sentence called Adoption, I would of had more fun fighting100 bats off of my face...I wasn't the only one they attacked. A girlnamed Rose and a girl named Blanket Girls (who spookie says is me, butisn't and I can prove that with my isp to any authority) got the samerude treatment as all three of us felt the same way. Since they refusedto listen to my point of view at all, I decided to write my own poem. Ihad gone into the search angels profile and she had pictures of herfamily she said she had reunited with, and I saw that they were AfricanAmerican. I had been for along time, been comparing closed Adoption toslavery, and I am not the only one who sees the similarity, nor am Ithe only one who uses it as an example. I thought perhaps if I couldput my feelings in a way she could understand, she would see thatadoption is indeed binding...but after posting this:
Me:
"It wasmore than that. You gave the wrong information from what I have heard.Maybe you helped Michelle, but alot of people who start off doing theright thing can change. There a quite a few spacers who say they aresearch angels but charge more than and up too $150 dollars + expenses,and I know because I asked a couple, so don’t go tell people that theydon’t charge. I know some adoptees who got conned and taken around incircles by some ’search angels" spent alot of money and never foundtheir real families.
I noticed on your profile that you are partAfrican American-well since you (&)I have never spoken, and I wouldremember your picture, it is quite low class and immature for you tojoin in on ruthlessly attacking me when I did nothing to you, allbecause a self-centered poem was written by an insensitive woman. Sosince you refuse to see how her poem could hurt people, and has, hereis one maybe you could relate too. Imagine if I wrote this Laura:
We took you as slaves
And I cried every day
We took you as slaves
And I screamed out in pain
For it hurt so much to do it
But had too we must
You once had an African name
But we changed it we did
You now are called Hanna McCain
And RIGHTFULLY SO
I wanted WRONGLY to send you back home
But in America we have more of a bounty
Then where you are from
So we have done you a favor
Ain’t money great!
Buying and selling of people for everyone’s sake...
Ofcourse I would never, ever even want to write trash like that-but themessage to African Americans in that mock poem above is the same tomost adoptees that Lisa Marie wrote. And if Lisa Marie was a man, she’dBE A SCHMUCK for writing the poem she did. Professional people Laura donot jump on others because they have been hurt by a poem like LisaMarie’s-they don’t engage in 7th grade bully games like you have withme and they don’t disrespect the feelings of people who are hurt by asystem that took advantage of them. You have made yourself lookuntrustworthy on your own, with out any help from me".

I wrotethat poem of course to relate to her how Lisa-Marie's poem made me asan Adoptee feel, but of course all of them including spookie twistedthat into me being a bigot towards African Americans which I never havebeen, and never will be:

"Well gee golly wiz! You low life racist troll! Can you spell TOS! That’s T O S
Please,crawl back under that rock of yours until you’re ready to join thehuman race. Your illogical rants and lunacy are annoying"

And:

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Send Message Posted: Jun 12, 2008 2:10

"Of course I would never, ever even want to write trash like that"
YOUJUST DID YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!! I was nice but you having the audacityto actually type this shit is way too fucking far. I don’t give twoshits how you spin it and say Lisa Marie's poem did the same because itDID NOT. No one in here participates because of YOU, NOT because ofthat poem. Fuck you and you’re whole fucking gene pool because you’renothing but slim looking for attention. Just get the fuck out of hereand leave us alone you racist prig. You’ve been reported.

Letme post again, the poem that Lisa Marie posted in this Adoption group,so you can see the similarities between the poem I wrote to show thesearch angel that her feelings would be hurt like mine were by LisaMaire's, if she read the poem I wrote to be used as an empathy toolonly:

"Dearest Isabella,
The happiest day of my whole life
A baby girl born to me
Isabella Faith McKendry

Your name is changed now to Voss
Rightfully so, but I feel loss
For my child that I had that day
For my heart that’s kept at bay

My Mind was in control that day
I gave birth, yes indeed
But I went home empty-handedly
Crying out loud for the world to hear

My pain, my sorrow, and my fear
Even God will agree
I did not run, I did not flee
I did what I thought was right

And gave you up, feeling contrite
It took all of me to walk away
All of me not to stay
I wanted you to be my own

I wanted wrongly to take you home
I knew better, I knew the way
And with them is where you stay
They’ll do a better job than me

They’ll raise you right and one day you’ll see
I love you so much and I pray
They’ve told you each and every day
You are loved and wanted by me

Things just weren’t right for me
To raise you up and make a home
To teach you things like right from wrong
I was not ready; ill prepared

Maybe even a little scared
That doesn’t mean I did not want
And my decision sometimes haunts
My heart and soul that one day

You might come to me and say;
“Why didn’t you love me enough to try?
Sometimes at night I laid and cried
Didn’t you want me and love me so

To keep me with you and help me grow?
What did I do to be tossed away?
Why didn’t you love me enough to stay?”

Please know that, you were not a mistake
And every night how my heart breaks
At the thought of you one day thinking these things
And the heartache that these thoughts might bring

They are not true, I will not lie
I do want and need you in my life
I couldn’t raise you, and they could
Being with them is nothing but good

I did not toss you aside, or give you away
I placed you with them in trust that they
Would make sure to tell you of my love for you
Would make sure to hug you and kiss your boo boo’s

To give you the life I couldn’t provide
To give you their love each day of your life
My love for you is why I made this choice
I’m writing this so you’ll hear my voice

The one that screamed in my head that day
Don’t let her go! Don’t walk away!
To close, my love, I need to say
I think if you each and every day
Though I’m not a constant in your days
You are in mine, come what may

Love Your Birthmother,
Lisa-Marie Rose McKendry"


Thereis no way in hell, that the poem I only wrote to make a point, THAT INNO WAY REFLECTS MY FEELINGS ABOUT SLAVERY OR AFRICAN AMERICANS, wasposted because I am a racist. spookie of course, in one of her commentsto me, where she flaunts how she got me deleted the third time,actually used this incident to get me deleted, and had all her trollfriends, who go online to torture and harass people, following rightbehind her. Then Lisa Marie had the gaul and stupidity to post this inthe Adoption group:

Posted: Aug 12, 2008 7:06 AM
~RIP Chris~ (Lisa-Marie)

F/28
PORT CHARLOTTE,
Florida
Ihear ya! I gave no consent to her (Stepford or whatever) to copy andpaste my poem on an open forum such as that. I posted it here in atrusted group. Now my full name and my daughters full name are outthere for God knows who to see, she’s risking my child’s safety!!

I trusted this group and she ruined that trust"!


OMG.......Lookat what this hypocrite just said. She is whining about my posting thisyet SHE POSTS IT ON THE INTERNET FOR THE WHOLE WORLD TO SEE, COMPLETEWITH HER CHILD'S NAME. If she had never posted this to begin with, Inever would of seen it. She is not protective of this child at all,blasting her name ONLINE. She posted this poem on many other groupstoo, NON PRIVATE GROUPS, LIKE THE ONE I SAW IT ON, WITH A PUBLIC FORUMSO ANYONE IN THE WORLD CAN SEE IT!! spookie, in the last few days, incomments she has sent me, says I lie aobut having a child because Inever talk about my child. Well, I don't. Talk about my child. My childis an adult now however, and despite the fact that privacy has beenused against me in my life, via closed Adoption records, that doesn'tmean obviously that privacy isn't appropiate in other situations. Thereare some Mothers who blog about their children in an oh so negativeway, talking about personal details of their lives that are none of anyone's buisness, especially 200 millon strangers who could read everyword they write. I find that repulsive. How would these Mothers feel,if their child did that to them? Saying they have mental problems, orthey do this or they do that while posting their picture for the wholeuniverse to see? I highly doubt too, that the children of these womenever gave their permission to be exploited like that. My daughter'slife is her buisness, not the buisness of possibly dangerous lurkingeyes. Where she goes to school, where she works, how tall she is, thecolor of her eyes is none of anyone's damn beewax. So, no, I do notmention her name in my blog, I do not post her picture, and I do notdiscuss anything we have been through, any of her sucesses, or even herastrological sign, because not doing so is called RESPECT. spookie ofcourse takes my wanting to protect her and twists it into me being aliar. But spookie is an insticator. In fact, she will turn on someonein an instant and begin spewing insults because the internet is a gameto her. A sadistic game:

Mittens(spookie)

Posted: Aug 17, 2008 6:07 PM
"Raine wrote:

"~sighs~ Why are you trying to pick a fight with me? I’m already having a bad day. I totally agree with you and have said that".


Iwasn’t and I’m not. I’d already apologized for quoting you. You seemedmore angry at me for posting the two comments WE made here than youwere at HER for posting about us, that’s all. It’s done, she deleted itanyway. I just wanted her to know that we weren’t going to hide underrocks and let her talk about all of us like we were scum.

spookie wrote:
Posted: Aug 12, 2008 12:24 PM

Raine wrote:

"I just don’t want to be quoted without my knowledge and/or consent..that’s pretty much what’s this is about, right"?.


I’dalready apologized, wasn’t that enough? And no, that’s not what this isabout. It’s about a psychotic, evil woman lying on the internet andfurther abusing many of us. I don’t post lies, I posted a quote. I’dnot even be involved in this had I not come to help stop this insaneand cruel person from abusing people who actually have feelings andcompassion, unlike her. I would have expected some backup, not to beignored or just told I did something wrong (for which I understand andalready said sorry for)".
Who here hates adoptees? That’s what psycho-woman claims".


It seems to me that the answer to her question is obvious...

"Hello,
Youdon't actually know me, but you know of me via libel from a woman whoturned on me and stabbed me in the back on Myspace.com. My name isSuzanne, but my nickname is "spookie" because it's the name of my cat.My other account on that site is called "Mittens," and is a moderator'saccount, named after my beloved first cat, Mittens". "I'm a verycaring, compassionate person with too much empathy. It's probably whatgot me into this mess in the first place".

"Adoption means love"

Catty for a Cause


F/22
TOFTE,
Minnesota
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Send Message Posted: Jun 13, 2008 6:00 PM
This site below is New Mexico. I only lived there a few months.


This site is Minnesota.



Adoption Facts & Myths - Minnesota

Itis common for families thinking about adoption to have heard variousstatements or stories about adoption. Often these turn out to be basednot on fact, but on "myth." These myths are most often untrue and donot reflect what really happens in adoption. Some of the common mythsyou may hear are:

Myth 1: There are almost no healthy infants in the United States to adopt.

False:By pursuing independent adoptions, adoptive families can successfullyfind a child to adopt. It is true that many adoption agencies haveeither long waiting lists or only place emotionally or physicallychallenged children. This is because the vast majority of birth motherswho are placing their child choose independent adoption once they knowabout it. For the typical family working with Adoption Minnesota, achild is in their home usually within thirteen months. For somefamilies the wait is much shorter. The longest any family has workedwith Adoption Minnesota before receiving a child was over six years.These children all met the criteria established by the adoptive parentsas to racial background and health.

Myth 2: Many birth mothers who choose independent adoption change their minds and keep the baby.

False:For birth parents working with Adoption Minnesota, the rate at whichthey change their minds varies between 6% and 8%. The most common timefor this change to occur is in the hospital after the baby is born, notafter a placement with the adoptive parents.

Myth 3: An adoption is never final, especially if the birth father comes back later to claim the child.

False:An adoption is final as soon as a Court signs an order giving theadoptive parent's parental rights to the child. In Minnesota anadoption can be finalized by a Court three months after the baby goeshome with the adoptive family. In fewer than 1% of all adoptions, abirth father tries to claim a child or stop the adoption. If this isthe case, we almost always know in advance that he will be causing aproblem, and you can decide to not work with that situation if you donot want to deal with him. In Minnesota we have a Putative FatherRegistry law which requires a birth father to register with the Stateno later than 30 days after the child's birth. If he fails to registerwithin that time, he can never take legal action to stop or overturn anadoption.

Myth 4: Adopted children have more problems than children raised by their biological parents.

False:In the past decade a growing body of research on adoptees indicatesthat parents usually develop warm and secure relationships with theiradopted infants, whose emotional health and self-image throughout theschool years equal those of children living with biological parents. Amajor study by the Search Institute in Minneapolis found that teenagersadopted as infants are as well adjusted psychologically, socially andemotionally as teenagers being raised by their biological families.



Minnesota FAQ



Who Pays the Cost of an Adoption?
In Minnesota the law requires that the adoptive family must pay certain expenses for birth parents. These include:

Legal fees for your lawyer.
Counseling charges before the birth and up to six months after.

In addition your adoptive family can help you with:
Any uninsured medical bills for the pregnancy and birth.
Necessary living expenses if you need help supporting yourself during the pregnancy and for up to 6 weeks after the birth.

What is Independent Adoption?
AnIndependent Adoption is one in which the birth parent(s) signs theirlegal rights to the child directly over to the adoptive parents. Thismeans that adoptive and birth parents can plan their own adoption.

Inan Independent Adoption, you make all of the key decisions for yourselfand your baby. You will have as much information, help and time as youneed to decide on a family to adopt your baby.

We will be thereto help you during the pregnancy, birth, and for as long after theadoption as you want. You can even choose your own birth parentfacilitator!

Who decides which family will adopt a birth parent's child?
Inan Independent Adoption, you choose who you want to adopt your child.The adoptive family can be anyone you know or hear about or someone youchoose from among the families working with Adoption Minnesota.

Does the baby have to go into foster care after it is born?
No!In an Independent Adoption the baby goes right home from the hospitalwith the adoptive family. However, if you are uncomfortable with that,the baby can be cared for by someone else until you decide if youreally want to go ahead with the adoption.

How do I know what my legal rights are?
Whenworking with Adoption Minnesota, you will have your own attorney. Thislawyer will explain the process to you and make sure you understandwhat is happening at each step along the way.

How long will I have to change my mind about placing the baby with an adoptive family?
Youcan change your mind about placing your baby with an adoptive familyuntil you sign a Consent to Adoption and it becomes final. You cannotsign the Consent to Adoption until after the baby is born. Once yousign the Consent, you have 10 working days until it becomes final. Ifthe adoptive family you have chosen cannot complete the adoption, youhave all legal rights to decide what happens next for the baby.

Does the birth father have to be involved in the adoption?
Whileit is a good idea to involve the birth father if he is at all willing,it is not required in an Independent Adoption unless he is married tothe birth mother or is on the baby's birth certificate.

If hedoes nothing to take legal action to have himself declared the fatherof the child, a birth father must register with the State within 30days of the child's birth. If he fails to do so, he loses any rights hemight have claimed and cannot stop an adoption.

One of the things your attorney helps you with is deciding how to deal with the birth father.

Can a birth parent get information about the child after the adoption?
Inan Independent Adoption you and adoptive family can make an agreementabout exchanging future information. This can include having lettersand pictures sent to you on a regular basis or even visits with thechild.

It also includes arrangements for exchanging any futuremedical information which you feel is important. If the adoptiveparents live in Minnesota, this agreement can be made a court order ifeveryone wants that done.

Can I get help with expenses such as maternity clothing, living expenses and other costs?
Inan Independent Adoption the adoptive family can help you by payingcertain expenses. Generally the courts will allow them to pay for suchthings as maternity clothes, living expenses, and transportation to andfrom medical appointments. By law in Minnesota, they must pay for yourlegal fees and any counseling you want to help you deal with theadoption.
Catty for a Cause"

This was posted in the Adoption group.
Take a wild guess who Catty For A Cause is.....and look who supports her...

spookiecats
"Who is the REAL SICK and INSANE PERSON, BITCH? YOU!!!
POST THAT! You won't, can't and dare not, because YOU SUCK! Phony lying psycho! Fuck your adoption shit already! I don't even know what BSE means you lunatic! HA!HA! You claim all this crazy crap, yet I know SQUAT about adoption except for what Anne told me, you total moron"!

I will be posting the above comment she sent to me through this blog next time.
We all know how spookie attacked Gershom, when she did NOTHING, because schmuckette thought an Anonymous comment I received was written by her,a comment that supported me. She has too, started a group for the mere purpose of bashing me. It got it's name due to a Native American friend of mine, that spookie and all of the rest of them trashed and abused as well, and due to another blog written by Gershom, which makes fun of both of them. So it isn't enough for spookie to make condesending remarks to me in an email, call me a bully when all I did was fightback, get an account of mine deleted four times and spread lie after lie about me, and terrorize and follow me around, but she has to attack anyone who understands how I feel. There is alot more to this psychodrama that I have not written about and other violations she inflicted upon me, but they will have to wait to be discussed until Part III of As The Psycho Turns...I will be offline for the next few days, but be sure to tune in next week, same time, same place.......

Wednesday, August 27, 2008


AS THE PSYCHO TURNS...


Take a look at spookie, as she calls herself to your left (picture) and then take a fly on the wall view of my inbox....all these comments are from spookie... look at how she sends the same comment obsessively over and over again, look at how she SPAMS me...look at her real feelings about Adoptees and Adoption....there are many more comments in my box, but Ihave deleted the most digusting ones for this blog. I will also be publishing most of these comments as she will continue to lie about me,and I say I made them up.


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CLICK MY NICKNAME, LOONY!Google/BloggerYou're curr... (spookie) 3:28 PM
ha ha, the coward ran off myspace! the biggest bit... (urevilincarn8) 3:18 PM
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I posted about you in Adoption is Binding on MYSPA... (ispotmalarkey) 12:20 PM
Hey, where's all your little friends? I think they... (ispotmalarkey) 12:19 PM
You're also a poster child for assholes.You're als... (ispotmalarkey) 12:15 PM
Hey, where's all your little friends? I think they... (ispotmalarkey) 12:12 PM
Hey, where's all your little friends? I think they... (ispotmalarkey) 12:11 PM
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oh sweetie pie improper bastard at least credit me... (spookiecats) 8/24/08
Scared to post my posts of all my LIES!!! Loser ha... (spookiecats) 8/23/08
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awwww, I corrected your spelling and you still can... (spookiecats) 8/23/08
too bas this wasn't you................................... (urevilincarn8) 8/23/08
too bad this wasn't you.................................. (UREVILINCARN8) 8/23/08
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SPOOKIE ON ADOPTION AS SHE MAKES FUN OF MY POST ABOUT THE HEARTACHE LUZ CUEVAS SUFFERED:

Publish Reject (urevilincarn8) 3:18 PM


Would there of been


Would there HAVE been


thought alot, reading


though A LOT, reading


AND FOR CHRISTIANS WHO ARE SO UN-CHRISTIAN THEY DON'T WANT US TOO...

Now this entire paragraph is a grammatical nightmare. Not only that, how do you even know that you'd be oh-so-happy with your REAL PARENTS? Maybe they are horrible and possibly you inherited some genetic psychological disorders from them? Possibly, they're both dead, long ago, from abuse of something. For all anyone knows, they died in a car crash, or they never wanted children and you might've been an accident, and they honestly felt they did the right thing, and they loved you and felt you'd have a better life.

"Sometimes in my life as a victim of closed Adoption, I feel like I have lived my whole life in a parallel universe. Not only because growing up, I knew I wasn't who I was told I was, and that if I was with my real parents, I would have another name,and being called that name would give me a different feeling about myself and I would of been living in a different house and town, and have a whole group of different people around me, which would of too.....

You honestly are nuts. You believe your real parents would make your life happy as a fucking pig in shit. I wish you could get the chance to live both lives, because there's such a great chance that your REAL PARENTS and THAT LIFE would SUCK MORE.

I'm LAUGHING LAST, psycho, because I asked you a dozen times to REMOVE ALL REFERENCES TO ME from your LUNATIC RANT blog of INSANITY and you refuse. All your spewing about me is LIBEL and you are a BARREN JEALOUS WHORE. The clock is about ready to strike, and then YOU GO DOWN.


FROM ME: GO DOWN? IS THIS A DEATH THREAT? I'M NOT SURE. THIS IS HOW MUCH RESPECT SPOOKIE HAS FOR THOSE WHO ARE AGAINST ADOPTION DUE TO IT'S CORRUPTNESS:

Publish Reject (spookie) 3:11 PM
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=us... (spookie) 3:10 PM
I posted about you in Adoption is Binding on MYSPA... I posted about you in Adoption is Binding on MYSPACE!
Publish Reject (ispotmalarkey) 12:20 PM
I just posted about you in Adoption is Binding. I'm making a donation in your pen name/nickname to a non-profit adoption agency or someplace that helps people or children that's not anti-adoption like you. I'm even going to give the link to your blog and say this is why I'm donating! I hope you will feel joy about this. Love and blessings!

AND FINALLY, THIS PROVES HER PSYCHOTIC STATE:
you should be born again, as a tampon or anal bead... (UREVILINCARN8) 8/22/08

you should be born again, as a tampon or anal beads, better yet a sex toy for homosexuals since you loathe them so much, homos who adopted children - yes, yes!!! you will be born again one day as an anal plug used by a homosexual couple who have cute adopted children they takesuper care of and spend all their money on and send to fab schools. you'll see it all from their nightstand, oops no, you'll be hidden in adrawer for the safety of the kids. sorry! LOLOLOLOLOL post it crazy kookoo lady! post! post! post! post! ROFLMAO! LOL! POST IT SCARED YCAT! CHICKEN BOK BOK BOK! HIDE UNDER YOUR BLOG U COWARD! POST OR BE A COWARD! ROFL! GAY COUPLES ADOPT YOU WHEN YOU'RE REBORN! ROFLMAO! Everyone will be there to bless you, lolololololol

FROM ME:YUP, I AM AGAINST GAY ADOPTION, BECAUSE IT IS MORE PEOPLE ADOPTING, ANDTHAT IS WHY I DON'T WANT GAY COUPLES TO ADOPT. BUT SHE TWISTSEVERYTHING AROUND AS USUAL...


IF YOU DEAL WITH SPOOKIE ANDSHE DISAGREES WITH YOU, SHE WILL TREAT YOU LIKE YOU HAVE JUST SEEN HOWSHE TREATS ME. SHE STARTED CONTACT WITH ME-I NEVER SAID BOO TO HER, ANDTHIS IS EXACTLY HOW SHE TREATED ME FOR NOT REPLYING TO HER MEAN EMAIL SHE SENT ME MONTHS AGO. TRUST ME WHEN I SAY, SHE CALLS HERSELF SPOOKIE FOR A REASON...

PART II TOMARROW....
INCLUDING WHY I AM PART CHRISTIAN AND PART PAGAN, AND HOW ADOPTION HAS CONFUSED ME CONCERNING RELIGION....

Thursday, August 21, 2008


And Your Little Dog Too...


I have posted a comment from spookie in the blog I wrote concerning her harassing and terrorizing behavior (below) not only on Blogger but on myspace as well, because she calls one of the Real Moms I adore, maybe,an "idiot".
I did not post this comment in any way to hurt maybe,but to show spookies real colors as yesterday she badgered and abused Anti-Adoption who did absolutely nothing to her, and because she even fights with her so called allies on Adoption groups as well. I want maybe to know that she has been insulted and attacked, so she is aware that this sociopath wanna be, spookie may try to hurt her elsewhere on the internet, and she can protect herself. If spookie was a man, she would be called a schmuck, but since there is no similar word for a female, I am just going to refer to her from now on as the"schmuckette". I looked up the word schmuck and it means:
"Schmucky behavior also falls within a range of intentionality. Some schmucks carefully plan their bad behavior, some only a little, and some not at all. For example, the bastard may spend considerable time planning his bad deeds. In contrast, the dumb schmuck and the pesky behave badly without any forethought"
I am sorry to post a definition using the word bastard, but hey spookie, now you are one of us!
The word schmuck is used quite often and I have seen many professional writers use this word, both online and off in publications and I even found an entire online newpaper today with articles using this cool word describing people who have committed unsavory acts. Check it out:
http://www.schmucku.com/daily.home.html
Since due to the ridiculous email she wrote me months ago, which luckily I saved and copied onto a cd before she got my account deleted,underservingly I will add, about her friend who was adopted in the late70's because her mother was on crack (although now she has changed her story and says it was heroine and cocaine) and the REACTION she had because I did not write back to her, and did not talk to her again until she started ripping me apart in myspace groups, it is obvious she thinks Adoption is the fuzzy warm fairy tale we all know its not. Spookie has had it in for me since she read the truthful facts I have said about the corrupt world of Adoption, that she calls " negative"and how much it has hurt me and millions of others and she set out to destroy me and rub it in my face. Consider what she has said to me in the last few days in the comments she send to me:

"The woman who goes by "The Improper Adoptee" was always being bullied and badly abused in the group STOP Cruelty Against Animals. People would see her profile and judge her by the long ramblings on it ("ramblings" meaning almost no paragraphs and very lengthy and basically negative about almost everything on Earth), and many would become offended, because there are adoptees out there who are happy, even after finding their birth mother/parents, or not".

Ugh, it was a group to stop animal cruelty, so I posted bulletins about the lastest cases and how to help the animals......DUH.

And...

"I am being abused, stalked and harassed. My father is dying and my son doesn't need people who were linked from this woman's site looking at his images, sending him threats of hate, and I don't need hate mail and messages about stealing him, or how he is a bastard".

So her father has brain cancer, (she stated that in another part of her Sarah Bernhart comment) I take it she is helping her mother AND she has a two year old to take care of, yet she sends me comments ALL day long, AND Anti-Adoption, AND she has time to take care of her family too? ohKAY....and
SHE'S being stalked?!!! Rotflmao. I said due to how spookie acts about Adoption she could be an Adoptive Mother meaning her son is adopted, but did you notice how she just called an Adoptee a "bastard"? AND WHO IS SENDING YOUR SON THREATS OF HATE? HE IS TWO YEARS OLD AND HE CAN'T EVEN READ. I HAVEN'T SENT YOU ONE PEICE OF MAIL, AND I WILL OFFER MY ISP TO AUTHORITIES TO PROVE IT. This woman is an INSANE LIAR.......
There are many more comments, including beyond crud eones stating why my real mother didn't want me and threw me away, according to her, and posts she has written that I have no time to list right now. I will say however, I can't think of a better blog name pertaining to her either, and not to steal Marley's idea, and the titleof the funny online paper I mentioned before, but "The Daily Schmuckette" comes to mind.....I am laughing so hard, I can barely type.... Being the attention whore, yes whore, not monger, because schmuckette has gone way beyond that category at this point, after flooding Anti-Adoption's email, (and getting her so upset that she posted a comment about it on my blog) posting the same comments in obsessive form on my blog and sending me one after another 24/7, while posting them in other places on the internet and attacking my innocent friends, (the ones who take a strong stance against the Adoption system I might add, and THAT says everything), so if the shoe fits, SHE's wearing it... spookie also states in my comments that she has no stance on Adoption. Why then, is she so volatile about my telling of the oppressive system it is, and how my Adoptive Mother abused me, and that closed Adoption records truly are involuntary servitude and child abuse. Why does she get so enraged and hysterical because I have talked about the legal baby stealing BSE Mothers went through and how facts about Adoptees identities were purposely misconstrued to keep our Mothers and us confused about who we really are? Because of ONE friend she claims she had once who says she was happy she was Adopted? One, out of millions of Adoptees who think closed records are WRONG? Surely the pain expressed by so many Adoptees and BSE Mothers and even Mothers in Open Adoption who have been betrayed by AP's would give someone who demands she is neutral on the subject of Adoption the realization that Adoption is not what it is sold to be and give us the benefit of the doubt. She acts very much like the Adoption trolls we all know and hate so well, on Yahoo Answers and on Adoption Forums. One of my old high school teachers used to always say "consider the source". Damn good advice still even over 25 years later...

Tuesday, August 19, 2008


Last Laugh


It never ceases to amaze me me, how some toxic people who set out to hurt other people, and weave a noxious web like a black widow spider to trap a beautiful butterfly act like whittle bitty babies, when their victimis in a safe place, and have whittle bitty temper tantrums when the tide turns and those they victimize have control finally over the tidalwave their persecutors want to continue to drown them in. Being able to moderate my comments, and laugh heartily at those who no longer have the power to have their sadistic voices be heard on my blog, has given me immense pleasure.

This little space of mine is a bonified NO BULLY ZONE, for both myself and those whose comments I proudly post. There are other places on the interent where we do not have that needed protection, where Pro-Adoption Trolls make up stories and spew lies to continue to hurt Adoptees and BSE Mothers:

"by my support of a friend’s adoption to a loving family, instead of living on the streets with her drug-addicted mother and then left someplace to die by accident while her mother was high or turning a trick for more drugs".
Google's awesome moderator feature lets me see the first line of all comments, even though all I need to see is the first word or the author, and as fast as Samantha Stevens used to twitch her nose, poof! the evil Endora's of the cyber world are gone!
Narracisists, people who are so vengeful that they act like they have rabies and beyond immature people, refuse to let anything die and ever admit they are cruel and expose their abusive agenda and apologize like they should. They are the Queens of Mean and are crowned with the cap of Dunce,



because only stupid people don't know when to quit and stop trying to get attention and only fools don't realize that I get to have the last laugh...and how GOOD it feels....

And yes, if you are wondering, the above quote is from the ever full of hot air and her spoiled brat self, spookie...

Now, back to writing my new blog about people that REALLY matter......

Saturday, July 12, 2008


Adoption Is Binding...Like A Straitjacket....


It is bad enough what they have done to us offline. I was lied too for years by the CHS in Florida, as they told me over and over again they did not have my time of birth. That of course threw a wrench in my plans to have my astrological chart done, something I have wanted to do since I was 14, when I developed a strong interest in my mysterious Scorpian sign and the signs of those around me. But alas denying me my information, that was in reality, none of anyone's business but me and my real parents, was just another way for them to keep me a hostage to myself, hijacking yet again, another dimension of my identity and the feelings of well being and security that comes from knowing who you are.

And having the RIGHT to know who you are.. Anyone who knows anything about astrology, knows too that as necessary as the day one is born is, to create an accurate chart, the moment one comes onto this earth and takes the first breath of life, is equally as important to have as that reveals the position of the planets which are responsible for dictating alot of times why a person is how they are, and how they will deal with events, both major and minor in their lives. Without all these mandatory facts, doing someones chart is about as fruitless as an amended birth certificate. Adoption is so plastic.... The closed record system they created really shows how unintelligent the Adoption Industry, Adoptive Parents and The Church are too. For all of them to really think they can cut off the basic facts concerning another human beings birth, and family members and give them new ones or not let them in on the original information that concerns only them and their life,and in doing so, that will wash away the sins of their conception, is as ridiculous as trying to convince an amputee who had a misfortune, that his plastic arm with a hook for a hand is as good as what he lost. But what has happened to adoptees is even more tragic than someone losing a limb due to an accident, because what they have done to us,they did on PURPOSE. I did finally get my time of birth. After 17 years of sending them money for unidentifying information I had a LEGAL right too that they refused to give me, and after mean spirited excuses thatof course I was too smart to believe. "We can't go back that far in the records" "No, we can not refund you your money, because we needed the payment to look for the information" "Your time of birth is not in your files...maybe they forgot to jot it down in the hospital" "We will be cashing your check because it is a SERVICE to look in your folder" I finally got an attorney to send them a letter which would force them to stop playing the cruel games they were playing with my mind and lo and behold, when I called them a week after she sent it, it was a miracle from God! They found the time I was born! "It was on another piece of paper we didn't see" they told me. "In your FOLDER".......Only my real mom, or a higher force or the one who thinks she is, my Adoptive Mother, knows if the time I was given is really the time I was born however, and the latter would rather die then do anything for my benefit, so I am still forced to wonder about myself when I shouldn't have too and no one in this world ever had a right to make me. Studying astrology as I have, I have thought for a long time that my birthday is really the day after the day I was told it is, because I have more of the characteristics and qualities that the incredible book "The Secret Language of Birthdays" by Gary Goldschneider lists for that day in November.

If you haven't read any of this man's unbelievably accurate books, you should and who knows, you might gain some insight that overshadows the people of a lesser God involved in the Adoption Profession, if you are suffering the same fate that has been forced on me. Trying to tell people online however, about what happened to me, both as a victim of the adoption system and as an adoptee abused by her Adoptive Mother ends up a situation just as ugly as the hearts of those who think they had a right to not tell me who my own parents are as I was growing up.The internet is a social workers dream....for now they get to play the same kind of sinister and suffocating games that they play in real life concerning the birth mother privacy lie but taking the anonomy they have used against us and have twisted to benefit themselves by not using their real names in their profession too a whole new perverted level. The Pro Adoption PR campaign is one made of lies and misconceptions, just like the rest of Corporate America Advertising, that makes faulty and sometimes downright dangerous products and services seem like they are flawless. Pharmaceutical Companies do it, Psychiatry does it, The AMA does it, and so do the companies that make the items that stock your grocery store shelves with food and cleaning products that give you cancer, and other diseases, while they make your bank account unhealthy as well. It is sad really, what America has become, instead of what it IS, and could of been, with all this talk of freedom and rights, yet American rights only seem to be for people who have all the power and control. One has to wonder, if "we the people" are only those running this country and that play completely unfair and immature games with the rest of us... it's pathetic, for a country who calls itself the greatest country in the world, that the United States can not see still, as it brainwashes its citizens too, that money does NOT make a country better than other countries. Morality does. It goes with out saying that lying has nothing to do with morality, and yet at the same time, when you love someone or say you do, morality in that relationship is supposed to be a key element. There are so many Adoptive Parents all over the Internet boasting that they can do it better, that Adoption is love, implying that within that love, an adoptee is safer. But what Adoptive Parents refuse to let themselves understand, due to their own ego problems, and the attachment to monies they have spent on a child, that they deem more important then letting the child' soul be free, (the ultimate gift of love), a child that never asked to live with them in the first place, is that the key element formed from love that is supposed to connentate a parent/childrelationship HAS to be trust. But how can you trust someone that keepsyou from the truth and makes you live a lie everyday? All one has to do is look at our "birth certificates" to see that women who call themselves our "mothers" have no problem taking credit for something they didn't do. They never gave birth to us, they never endured the labour pain, or weight gain or bonded with us psychologically for nine months, or felt protective of us for all that time, yet it is perfectly fine with them that saying they did is written on a piece of paper that they feel they have a right to define us with. It is also perfectly fine with them to be given a tittle that has nothing to do with who we are, or who we look like, a tittle that is earned by natural mothers who MADE us who we are. Doing dishes, making meals, ironing clothes and changing diapers, does NOT make one a mother. A babysitter can and doe sdo all of those things, and I know of plenty of nannies that have spent their own money on the little charges they spend all day with, while their adoptive mothers are at work. A Happy Meal here, a toy there,money is superficial and can not replace genes and this is precisely WHY people can not buy them, or have them altered, and why all adoptees, their entire lives want to know where theirs came from, despite the numbness they feel that comes from being told they are not allowed too. Another key element that dictates love is freedom, and one is never free if they are forced to play games, or are made to feel guilty about the feelings of people who made them a hostage in thefirst place.

Talking to other adoptees on the internet, and real mothers and learning valuable information from activist sites like Bastard Nation, information that was hidden from me and misrepresented as I was growing up, has let me see how even more constricted adoption has made my life. Knowing my insensitive Adoptive Mother as I do, it did not surprise me I suppose when I learned online that Adoptive Parents most certainly know who our real parents are, and that the Adoption Agency sends them that information, or it is theirs for the asking. I was told growing up by my Adoptive parents that they had no IDEA who my mother was... this facade of course infuriates me beyond words but shines more light on even how more abusive, controlling and manipulating my Adoptive Mother really was and how my life even more was and still is, nothing but a game to her she is always determined to win. Games are played in many places. Con men depend on anonomy in the form of aliases to get away with suckering their victims and pushing fabricated stories that will win them financial gain. A monitor is a mask, that the Adoption Industry hides behind as they push their sinister agenda via lies and false identities through chat room handles and myspace names. Here they have the freedom to not only honor the delusion of hiding their own true identity as real names are hidden behind a machine, they have the freedom to play different roles like they have forced me to play as someone else's daughter. Adoption agency employees become grateful little adoptees, Adoptive parents become crackhead ho's, social workers become single mothers who worship the warped concept of open adoption who continue to push the incorrect mindset that all Adoptive Parents are Knights On White Horses who have saved them from their own inadequacies...being lied to is scary. Having to live a lie is downright atrocious. But having your voice silenced, over and over again in adoption groups like Adoption is Binding because one tells TRUTHS is just downright "spookie.......
"spookie" looking too...like I always say....bloodline sucking VAMPIRES....
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=9125429

Monday, May 26, 2008


SPAMMERS AND POSERS AND TROLLS OH MY...


For anyone who has any doubt in their mind, I AM the original Improper Adoptee. In a cyberworld that has become a plagiarist'splayground, full of unsavory word jackers who kidnap my writings, poems, ideas, and mindsets quicker than I can lick a stamp to apply for a copyright, one must be quite bold in defending one's creations. This is the second Improper Adoptee blogspot I have made, as I had lost the paper with the password for the original account before I could ever get it up and running. I have used this name on MSN and told friends on myspace that this is my bloggername, and it shall be, no matter who tries to take it from me, and being an adoptee, I know ALL about other people trying to steal my name.. due to a very busy off-line life, it has taken me some time to start this blog over, but I plan on posting very soon with taboo topics that the suffocating Adoption Industry and self-centered Adoptive "Parents" don't even want us to THINK about, let alone expose on the internet!