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Friday, February 27, 2009

She's Like Clockwork…












…she retaliated quite fast.

She visited both this blog and my personal blog, then went to her perverted and sick blog and posted a new entry, with copyrighted images she stole off my other site. She ignores the copyright notices. She has no regard for anything legal, for laws and for others' ownership of property. She gets off on this because she won't and can't post photos of herself — never has. She's really a coward in a wolf's costume.

You can't feel sorry for a woman like this; she knows what she is doing. This is a person with mental illnesses, BUT, she is methodically harassing me, my family — my father with stage 4 cancer AND my two (YES, 2) year old son — even after being sent the numerous CEASE AND DESIST notices, the copyright infringement notice and asked to stop in a cordial manner weeks ago. It's posted here on my blog; I left her a comment asking her to end this sick game. I don't think she wants to stop. She could, if she really and seriously wanted to. We have to assume she is really enjoying victimizing me and now my family, aside from the people I have worked for or with and even calling the advertising agency I do freelance with.

This is her game, and she plans her moves ahead of time. I can only ask so many times before I contact federal authorities. And I AM GOING TO.

These are other blogs The Improper Adoptee did. "SPOOKIE IS SCHIZOPHRENIC" is her third attempt at an anonymous harassment blog.




Take note of her new profile. Read closely.
Read "THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE" after. You'll see why…keep your eyes open.


THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE


Illustration Credit: Alix Northrup, Ullman Design


To The Improper Adoptee: CEASE AND DESIST.
STOP HARASSING, CYBERBULLYING
and THREATENING ME.

Click the link below in purple for information on
THE CYBERBULLY
Signs The Improper Adoptee is a Serial Bully



To Marilyn-The Improper Adoptee:
Cease and Desist the Libel and Cruelty you display towards me. I've asked you for so many months, and through two winters now.
I said PLEASE STOP.
When my father was diagnosed with cancer, I asked you to end this sick game of yours, and I asked you privately. You didn't post my "please…" because it was too honest and it came from a place you don't have within you.

STOP ABUSING ME VIA THE INTERNET, STOP BULLYING ME AND STOP STEALING MY PHOTOS I POST THAT ARE SPECIFICALLY LABELED AS NOT FOR USE BY ANYONE ELSE, ESPECIALLY YOU. STOP YOUR CYBERPSYCHO BEHAVIOR TOWARDS ME.

I've documented every move you've made. I have proof. You? Nothing. You're an anti-semitic bigoted cyberpath abusive bully. You're going to go down and get listed on every blog that is about cyber-abuse and cyber-sickos across the United States and beyond.


Is this jealousy? Besides HATE, there must be more reasons for her abuse and seriously sick obsession.


Proving the Improper Adoptee is a FRAUD

HINT #1:



Sorry, Marilyn, I'd already documented this slip-up.

She Just Read My Blog…


The Improper Adoptee was just here. IA just visited and used the same IP as usual. Same ISP. She even uses…
forget it. Why give away ALL HER SECRETS? I'll let her think her skeletons are tightly locked up in that crazy closet of hers.

I wonder what retaliation I'll get this time? I assume that "her two male friends" will blog some more on her perverted new blog about me. Who does she think she is fooling? I guess she really believes that no one knows it's her. She's fooling NO ONE.

I have asked more times that one can count, but she savors these abusive moments. Emotional duress, anxiety and stress only make her feel satisfied. Making fun of people with cancer, people with auto-immune diseases and people with other hardships makes her feel gleefully satisfied. I used to pity her for being mentally ill. I really did. I used to feel badly that a person would make up such sick lies just to make strangers all over think that they are good, kind people and someone else is tearing them down. Now I just see a sick, perverted and hateful woman who deserves what is coming to her because she never told one sentence of truth, and she regrets nothing she has done.

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Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Marilyn McAboy — The Improper Adoptee — is a Cyberpath, Cyberbully, Cyberpsycho and Sicko!

The sickest blog EVER.

The Improper Adoptee has put up a gross and highly disturbing blogspot in retaliation for adding my blogs to BlogCatalog (e.g., I then recieved over 1,000 hits, etc.) and for what she read on my blog Feb. 4th and Feb. 12th. She did post on her blog, and I quote:
"…and getting spookies rabid **like blog off the internet, which will happen, so I will be busy for awhile."
She sure was busy, as you're about to witness. I was right on the money about "Blogger Bulimia Nervosa." In retaliation, she gets beyond down and dirty; she gets filthy, XXX+ disgustingly raw. She comes through with her true colors and OMG, they are NOT of the rainbow.

Marilyn McAboy, a pathetic yet horrifically CRIMINALLY INSANE woman in Orleans, Massachusetts, has really snapped and finally OUTED HERSELF AS A CRUEL, DISGUSTING being. This is not made by a friend of hers as this sick, depraved writer claims; this is Marilyn, and I can provide proof, without a doubt, 100%. (I will NOT post the proof — and it's blatantly obvious proof that cannot be denied no matter how much lying is done — as of yet, because it would give this perverse woman a chance to reach out for help in covering her tracks. Those who want to know may email me at any email address you choose, as long as you simply tell me why you'd like the information; e.g. "I really thought she was not capable of this." "I used to believe her, but I realize that she has never posted proof to back up her claims, and you always have, so may I please know…" Nothing lengthy required; just an honest answer so I know you're not just playing me for her jollies.) I have nothing to hide, unlike this 49 year old woefully lonely woman who had nothing better to do for her supposed "medical time off" than to come up with X-rated sexually abnormal (heavy on the bestiality) and hate-filled blabbering.

Be prepared, though, because what I am going to show you is beyond disgusting.

If you're easily offended by vile and deviant bloggers, forums or websites, than this is as far as you should read.

Marilyn McAboy has made a disturbingly psychologically ill site with prose only an untreated and unsupervised seriously mentally ill person would put up. Her writing is filled with joy, and you can sense her pleasure with each sentence. She doesn't only cruelly make fun of my father, knowing he has terminal cancer, she has now added my mother to her hideous writing. She discusses bestiality so often in this new blog of hers, you won't want to believe that this is "…that crazy bitch StepFord Child…" at it again. It's stomach-turning, so either go back or keep reading. Remember, THIS IS THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE'S HANDIWORK, NO IFS, ANDS OR BUT'S.

This is StepFordChild, banned by MySpace for dozens of Terms of Service violations. This is "anonymous," who posts the same despicable bile on The Improper Adoptee's blog now and then. These are the same attacks she'd post on Myspace before dozens of users (adoptees and parents of adopted children) would all mass-report her for TOS violations. This is the real deal here, the true personality and hideous ugly thinking of "The Improper Adoptee." THIS IS MARILYN MCABOY, THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE. This is the anti-semite, the bigot, the racist, the hate-filled adoptee who thinks everyone is out to get her and everyone owes her something because her real mother didn't keep her, this is the wolf in sheep's clothing and the hag who cries wolf. This is a sick, sexually deviant and insanely perverted woman. Anything good or normal is corrupted by her and her abnormal mindset. Marilyn McAboy, The Improper Adoptee, is posting libel and twisted cruelty that is utterly reprehensible. In my studying and research of cyber-sickos, I found out most are men, but there are women who enjoy this perverse and unhealthy "hobby." The fact that she posts perversely deviant bestiality is so offensive, so WRONG, there is no
question that she is disturbed emotionally, and there is no "maybe" or pondering about who is behind all of this misconstrued and deviate prose — MARILYN MCABOY. CREEPY.

Take a look at what she does when asked to stop posting libel, stealing images, posting defamatory and gross content, and told to just STOP BULLYING and ABUSING someone (ME):



…and YES, I've already PDF'ed it and taken numerous screenshots, plus copied all of the code and then had another person do the exact same thing. The faking of this blog not being from the hand of The Improper Adoptee was evident even to someone who hasn't read much of this depraved narcissist's blogs. Before exposing the FACTS THAT PROVE WITHOUT DOUBT THAT THIS IS "THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE" harassing me using a pseudonym, readers can privately contact me if concerned, curious, or honestly want proof. The proof is clear and quite cut and dry — NO mistakes here, this is the work of Marilyn McAboy, also known as The Improper Adoptee.

[ALL CODE COPIED AND PASTED DIRECTLY FROM THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE'S BLOG]

Friday, February 13, 2009

even squirrels sense spookie is schizophrenic

what are you doing to that cat?!! euw!!!!!!!

spookie fucks cats


oh ma gawd!! meet spookie! isn't she an ugly skank! yes she is! her face looks like a smelly rotten egg vaginal infection! trich anyone! she looks like a totally deranged maniac 2 and that is exactly what she is! this loser says she loves cats, but what she won't tell you is that she LOVES TO FUCK CATS! it's true! she does! (she don't admit it in public because her shrink said he'd commit her). i know someone who knows her and he told me all about how she gets reved up on coke. then she pours milk all over her twat and makes a male cat lick it off before she takes his dick and shoves it up her cunt! EUW!! huh?!!! but see, she is so desperate for some cause she is such a clozapine case, no guy will give her any so she has to get it on with some helpless animal she can force. that is why spookie loves cats so much. i hear she wants to fuck a dolphin to. maybe she could have a threesome with her trailer trash mouth mother!I mean the old hag sleez bag loves to say fuck! fuck fuck fuckity fuck! spookie's first word was fuck! her second word was cat! fuck cat, fuck cat. her third word was me. me fuck cat. me fuck cat. her favorite toy was her bottle to. her favorite game was who can shove the nipple up the cat's twat fastest. she still loves to play this cause she is a psychotic bitch and the voices in her head tell her it's the most fun she'll ever have! spookie is so goddamn fucking insane that she believes them to! she also believed that guy in the hershey bar costume up there. she thought it was a candy bar that came to life tho, pathetic fruitcake. she thinks it told her that sex with melted chocolate and cats is even better. that is why the nutter ain't in the picture with her mother. she ran to the snack counter to buy some.

spookie's loser dad worships ozzie because schizophrenia runs in the family!

ain't she lovely? NOT. she is as scarey lookin as she is sexually unattractive. again, that is why all spookie can do is fuck cats. take it from a good lookin guy. no dude in his right mind would do her. spookie thinks bread is alive. i'm serious. she is that fucking insane. she thinks the bread is talking to her to. that's y she looks so excited. she told a shit load of people i know it told her aliens are coming in 2011. she said they are going to make her a princess on mars. she beleives them. for real. spookie's father is really embarrassed he has a psychotic kid so he tries to make her look good by worshipping ozzie osborn. spookie loves that he bit the head off a bat. she loves bats and vampires. they eat the mosqutitoes she thinks are all over her, you know when she is hallucinating. check out her sleezy looking father in his ozzie shirt.the dude looks like a slick con man from the front. but hey if the shirt erm, i mean the shoe fits. he cons everyone being schizophrenic like spookie is cool! spookie is one mean fucking bitch to, so avoid her if ya can. a lot of people in r/l do. her whole family are a bunch of losers.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

spookie's kid is from outer space!


now most little kids i see around are cute. i see a lot of cute babies to. but this kid! ugh!!! what a space case. he is a space case, for real. he is from the planet schizoid, where his mentally ill schizophrenic mother is from. poor little guy. he is insane like her. or maybe spookie gave him some of her coke for breakfast. look at his bizarre eyes! she named him harry but damien would be a better name. he comes from a mentally ill and sociopathic bloodline. bunch of nutters. spookie got laid once. the guy was stoned out of his mind. so he forgot she was mentally ill and nailed her. i hope this doesn't happen again. some one tie the bitch's tubes!


Saturday, February 7, 2009

shut UP already!!!!!! (lyin,flat,rat girl)


dudes!you might be wondering why me and another guy are doing this blog. there is a very good reason. this ugly piece of flat, rat shit is a stalker to. some of you what know it's like to have to dump someone and then she won't go away. she keeps callin and callin. she wants to keep talking about why you broke up with her and she analyzes every thing that you said to her 24/7. you know the type. well, i have a good friend who is a blogger but she is female(and straight i might add.some people are saying spookie is bi tho)my sweet friend(improper adoptee blog, ia for short)met spookie on my space. spookie didn't like her profile because while she was sticking up for the animals, she was speaking out against being adopted. ia and a big group of other people don't like not being able to get their real birth certificates and i don't blame them. i'm not adopted but i'm on their side. anyway, ia felt insulted when spookie said to totally change her profile and not talk about adoption when she went into her animal rights group. this group was on my space. ia was cool about it. she felt hurt but didn't really say anything or express her irritation even tho spookie was rude as hell to say this to her. actually if you ask me, ia was way the hell to polite. i would of told spookie to go fuck herself. spookie later wrote her this stupid email saying something that hurt ia about adoption. ia said she was really upset about bulletins she was getting on my space about how so many animals are tortured all the time in testing labs. so partly cause of that she didn't want to deal with spookie's negativity and insults. she was upset about all the bad stuff going on due to getting adoption records open to, with bills getting rejected and shit. ia just did what any of us righteous guys would do. she ignored spookie. lmao. but spookie is a narcissist psychotic/schizophrenic bitch and she acts like those chicks that call you 100 times a day and then go smash your windshield if you nicely tell them you don't think it's working out. she is totally the type to be hiding in your closet with a butcher knife because she is a drama queen and a gum cracking piece of punk shit to. making a long horrifying story short, spookie started being mean to ia on animal forums whenever she saw her in one. spookie followed her around everywhere, even in groups ia made. she and Chainsaw started torturing my friend every day. spookie is high tech unlike ia and she hacked ia's account and deleted it. then ia made a new account and spookie did it again. and then again! she was making fake profiles of ia's my space prof.to in between throwing her off of my space constantly. finally ia was so sick of this demented fucking lunatic she started a blog on google. she didn't want to go back to my space. she was sick of getting deleted for talking about how the adoption agency's lie and shit. my friend also left my space because she was getting attacked by some idiots on another forum in there because some other dumb bitch wrote this mean poem saying how cool it was to give away her kid. some of those people were people who adopted kids and they didn't like my friend. they were really mean to her and then spookie came on that forum since she was tracking her, and started abusing her in there. my friend knew there were other people who were adopted who felt like she did, so when she started her blog she made a list of people that should be avoided. she knew they would torment other people who felt like she did. she saw them abuse a my spacer named blanket girls and another one named rose and these two chicks were adopted to. she didn't want anyone else to get hurt. these babies were attacking her to cause she told the truth about a lot of things that made them look bad and they would dish it out but wouldn't take it. spookie is on that list ia made. a couple months after my friend put up her blog, spookie found out about it and had a tyrannical,psychotic episode that she is still in. she started spamming every single person who left comments on ia's blog, writing them long e-mails trying to get them to hate her. she sent the same e-mails over and over again. if the people she sent them to wouldn't side with her, she would start sending them a shit load of mean, nasty insane comments really cutting them down. finally this fuck wit put up two blogs about ia and some people who told spookie to go away. if someone deleted one of spookie's mean comments she sent to a blog linked on my friends blog,she would tell lies and call them insane on her blog. she did the same to my friend. spookie is always lying about my friend, who is perfectly sane (unlike spookie) and she is still following her everywhere. spookie also put one of ia's friends husband's my space on her bullshit blog that he uses for business and started trashin it and saying bad things about him. this loser skank looks at my friends blog all day long,and has gone everywhere on the internet trashing ia and calling her crazy. spookie is a total spoiled brat with an exaggerated sense of importance due to her delusions. sounds like a fun date huh? total high maintenance with strait jacket needed. she is really scary and really dangerous. dudes, if you ever went out with her, like on one date and you didn't want to see her again, she would treat you like she did my friend. she would call every one you know and try to get them to hate you. then she'd send them 30 e-mails a day full of lies about you. after that she'd make a blog about you with the same lies and feed it all over the net. this is how spookie handles things, when people don't like her for good reasons. she is a mega attention whore and never shuts up her obnoxious fucking mouth!! she is trying to sabotage ia and her friends and she acts like a fucking second grader. spookie also is a troll. she has animal groups on my space and her other name is Mittens The Cat. as Mittens The Cat she moderates STOP cruelty against animals and she thinks she is all that and is a complete sinister bitch. spookie is very harsh on every one and thinks she is jesus christ cause she has a big group. she only made that group to harass and abuse people. she is friends with well known trolls like another ugly skank Miss Chainsaw{Gyspsy}who was attacking another friend of mine for a while. i know all this partly because i am a member of STOP cruelty against animals, but spookie will never know who i am. he. he. if you ever see spookie on line, avoid her at all costs. do not talk to her. do not join her groups on my space and don't add her as a friend either. she picks fights with people on purpose. she does not want to be any one's friend. she is only online to make trouble and try to wreak people's lives. she thinks doing that is funny because she is a total sociopath. this rat is a nightmare off line to. more on that later.
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You can tell that this blog was created by The Improper Adoptee in just the first post, and in the elements used.

If you do not and just cannot believe it's her behind this, feel free to contact me and I will supply the proof, 100% positive affirmation that this is her, to you. If you look closely at her blog, you won't need to contact me or wait for me to expose the facts that will prove it without a shadow of doubt.

The screenshots show the SIDEBAR, which is not in the above copied code from her blog.
They're quite offensive, so the warning is still in effect!

(Clicking these screenshots will bring up full size images on your monitor)






"The Improper Adoptee" — Marilyn McAboy — is now exploiting my toddler. How despicable and creepy can a person be, while pretending to love all animals and children?

Monday, February 23, 2009

More Psychological Violence C/O The Improper Adoptee

The Improper Adoptee Cries Wolf.



Above are the words of a CYBERPATH: A cyberbully, cyberstalker and psychopath. A control freak who desires power and control, and with no control over the internet, is lashing out viciously. Cyberpaths absolutely bask in adulation, many using pity, in a most conniving way, to get the attention that they need. The Improper Adoptee uses pity, plays the part of being the real victim and tries to pull the wool over the eyes of all whom she can suck into her narcissistic drama.

"The Improper Adoptee," as she likes to be called rather than her real name, Marilyn: an out of control mentally deranged, cruel woman who methodically, intentionally and repetitiously posts aggressive, bullying blogs designed to undermine, distress and embarrass me — her main target. Marilyn feeds on the pain of other people, and has a strong desire to humiliate and prove her "dominance" with her non-stop cunning and clever bullshit stories meant to get the "cyberhugs" and sympathy of naive and ignorant online readers while fullfilling her need to hurt and create chaos and distress towards someone else — in this case, me. As one can see, she has not dominated me, and there lies what might be the problem for her; she sees I have facts in many forms, covering many months of abuse and harassment by her and yet after all this time, she cannot provide anything but a tall tale to get her sheep to gather and bring her the Online Box of Kleenex to wipe her alligator tears away for her.

Some people snap back about The Improper Adoptee's behavior towards me, saying it's petty and really nothing to get upset about (oh, JOY),and a couple said to not waste my time because she is obviously off her rocker bonafide nuts, but dealing with libelous undermining, bullying — sick and cruel HATE — repetitively week after week, month after month, is abuse and harassment and I don't have to put up with it and take her psychotic lying, online harassment, blatant hate and creepy story-telling, not to forget the anti-semitic comments, bigotry and the Hitler-like attitude towards myself and others for not sharing her point of view on many issues. She wants to drain me, to bleed me of anything I am, but she'll fail.

Victims do not need to be victimized doubly by others insisting not to fight back. I am not this woman's doormat. I'm not a bad person for standing up for myself and outing a bully. There's no crime in standing up for yourself and saying STOP! There's no reason to just lie down and allow an abuser to repetively abuse you. Victims of bullies are always "punished" for "ratting out" the bully; from the schoolyard to the workplace, and now the internet — bullies like The Improper Adoptee count on others out there to laugh with them and punish the victims, to make sure they're seen as the one who is the victim with their "I'd never do that!" and their "poor me" expression or words. I chose to fight my aggressor and I won't back down from my choice.


To The Improper Adoptee: CEASE AND DESIST.
STOP HARASSING, CYBERBULLYING
and THREATENING ME.
Click the link below in purple for information on
THE CYBERBULLY
Signs The Improper Adoptee is a Serial Bully



To Marilyn-The Improper Adoptee:
Cease and Desist the Libel and Cruelty you display towards me. I've asked you for so many months, and through two winters now.
I said PLEASE STOP.
When my father was diagnosed with cancer, I asked you to end this sick game of yours, and I asked you privately. You didn't post my "please…" because it was too honest and it came from a place you don't have within you.



My father's stage 4 lung cancer spread to his brain first. The liver and hip were next. The brain tumor was turned to dead mass via CyberKnife, but a few cells got away. The lung and liver tumors have shrunk 40%. FOURTY PERCENT!!! With bad news for me and my family came good news, but it's always a catch-22. You'd not understand. But I asked you back in the summer of 2008 (Marilyn McAboy began blogging about me in MAY 2008; I only found out after she had already posted a handful of blog entries about me, with an image stolen from my profile, months later) to please leave me alone, because I had family issues now, and the MySpace stuff was over many months by then. Your reply was a hearty laugh, and a brazen statement saying "cancer doesn't spread UP, it spreads down!" Well, surprise, Marilyn, it spreads where it wants to, and when it wants to — and to whom it chooses to make suffer, to lose life as they know it — to lose close friends and family who run scared, stay away out of fear and hide because diseases make them feel uncomfortable, crying in front of others can't be allowed to them, etc. — so many excuses — or who seems healthy otherwise (e.g., nothing too serious, nothing fatal, life-threatening, terminal) yet has bad karma and sows seeds of hatred, cancer sneaks up, sows it's cells of a slow and painful death or a quick "One day you're just feeding the cats and then a short while after, you faint in the shower…" You never leave that hospital that diagnoses you with cancer because it's spread so swiftly, it barely gave specialists time to discuss how to possibly give you 4-6 weeks more or maybe a few months. You just die.

IT'S TIME. SHUT UP, Marilyn. Find another way to amuse yourself and feel powerful, a way that doesn't harm, hurt and exploit people all over the world. Being anti-psychiatry is only harming yourself as well. You can be a content, if not happy person, if you really wanted to and tried. Why not try? It's 2009. It's a long time since you endured the reasons you refuse help now. Live in the NOW. Leave me alone.


FYI to newcomers: This woman has threatened me with physical harm, claimed to get a "native" american witch to put a death curse on me (no, I don't fall for that stuff!) and taken every nice thing I did for her and turned it into hatred and volatility. She has been laughing about my father's diagnosis of Stage 4 Lung Cancer for months now. My family and I found out in June, so when I found her blog late summer or early fall, I asked her to please stop and to leave me alone, and I told her why — because my father has cancer and I didn't have time for this harassment and abuse, to be on top of her actions all the time because I knew what she was capable of from the past. In return, she chuckled and posted more blog entries, even wishing that I would also get cancer, and blatantly posting so in her comments. No one ever hacked her or her friend Amy (and Amy knows this as well). Marilyn deleted what she wanted to, to attempt to throw off the scent, and Amy clearly deleted the entries about me, and after she did, I deleted the one entry about her in return. Amy was not hacked and no one deleted the blog entries from Amy's blog without her permission. I never called Amy a "dyke" and I don't read Amy's blog. If I see that Amy has looked at my BlogCatalog page, I sometimes, though rarely, click onto her BlogCatalog page. I'm honestly not interested in Amy's issues. I already read The Daily Bastardette and one other, and that's enough for me. I rather read current events, New York articles of interest and blogs about animals; all types and for all reasons, from rescuing them and protecting them to just posting cute and adorable images of them for smiles. I am in no way connected to the adoption industry, and I don't have a stance on adoption that's radical. It's necessary. Period. My blog will remain up until Marilyn removes ALL LIBEL and STOLEN IMAGES — in other words, until she stops abusing me and removes anything about me from her blog site(s). This woman is wasting my valuable time. I want no part of this. She refuses to STOP HARASSING ME AND MY FAMILY.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Blogger Bulimia Nervosa


Some ask, "What are all those insane blog entries about "spookie" on "The Improper Adoptee's" blogspot really about?"


Most of us already know. Some people don't, so unless you're going to start from the very first blog entry here at my little place for documenting the abuse and harassment I've endured from the keyboard of a cyberpsycho…
the answer is:

How insane The Improper Adoptee really is. Insane AND abusive.

I can say that about many of this freak's blog entries. She just has an abnormally voracious appetite for abusing people, especially me for the last year, and when she's through posting she purges in her bastard barf bucket. The Improper Adoptee clearly suffers from Blogger Bulimia Nervosa. Her pathologically insatiable hunger to continue to harass and abuse me online, and to abuse others — even other adoptees — proves she suffers from many mental diseases, including what I shall now call Blogger Bulimia Nervosa. Initially, she feels much pleasure from posting horrific lies about others, and maybe even gets some sexual release from the harm she causes to these strangers she hurts online, but in the end, she feels self-loathing and self-disgust. She gains nothing, but she hurts others and she hurts herself.

Sunday, February 15, 2009

BlogCatalog LOL

This is hilarious. You just know she posted this comment herself. I can't believe anyone would leave a comment like this. I'd be embarrassed if I were her! It's a flying pig! A talking cow! It's *The Improper Adoptee posting to her own blog on BlogCatalog! I almost peed in my pants! (okay, not really, but it is quite funny. I would guess she's a bit miffled that other adoptee blogs have credible comments from known bloggers, not pretend teenagers with PMS because Mom is "bitchy" sometimes!)



"I luv that teddy bear. Smart guy 2. I just wanted 2 let u know ur blog makes me feel better. I'll be looking for my natural mom next year when I'm 18. I don't like being adopted either and i get a lot of what u say cause I feel the same way. I don't like my adoptive mother. She is a pain. I'm sorry ur adop. mom abused u. Mine didn't abuse me, she's just mean a lot to me & my bro. She's always bitchy 2. ur meanydoodles thing made me cry. u r a good writer. Keep it up."
Ha ha ha! "My Mom is mean and bitchy, so I don't like her." Oh yes, well, anyone with even half a brain would know that even teens who live with their real mothers would say that! Ha ha ha! I'm sure this fake, made-up girl doesn't like her fake, made-up adopted mother because she's "mean to her" Maybe she sets rules to keep her daughter safe? Oh GOD!!! Maybe she is sometimes strict about dating or what time to come home at night? Jesus! What a meanydoodle! As if "Shanna," the pretend adopted teenager here thinks her real mother would just be Ms. Happy Mom and never be in a bitchy mood at all, and let her daughter run free and do as she pleases all the time. What an asinine post.

As pathetic as usual, it's written in the typical "anonymous" lingo Marilyn Improper tries to use when posting as her alter egos. "luv" "ur" "u r" "u" BUT, still using full sentences and words, such as "Mine didn't abuse me, she's just mean…"

Pffft. Seriously. Worst comment EVER.

Who would take her blog serious as an adoptee's blog anyway? Look at her "Recent Posts" list on BlogCatalog:

Recent Posts




Wow. Sooooo serious of an anti-adoption blogger! I'd definitely choose her blog as the winner! HA! The more Marlilyn McAboy tris to claim that her blog is all about adoption and it's evils, the more of AN ASS she makes of herself. From her very first blog entry, her blog was about hating people. She can't deny that. Her "Recent Posts" list has ONE adoption blog! What a laughingstock.

She can stop calling herself Jane Doe. We all know who she is now. Thank you, Google.

Thank you, StepfordChild/StepFord Child/The Improper Adoptee and all you other aliases for littering the net with all your dirt. No one needs to "hack you" to find out anything; you left your life story all over the place on your own. It's no one's fault that I found out who you were with Google. Stop whining about it and making up ludicrous lies about getting hacked. Grow up, you big, bratty, bullying baby. Any serarch engine can find out who you are with a little information which you left on MySpace and various blogs, including your own, and lastly, comments you left on a few sites. SHUT UP ALREADY.

*Narcissistic personality disorder, a term first used by Heinz Kohut in 1971 , is a form of pathological narcissism acknowledged in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders in 1980, in the edition known as DSM III-TR. Narcissistic Personality Disorder, is a maladaptive, rigid, and persistent condition that may cause significant distress and functional impairment.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

The Cyberpath Wants Proof? Yeesh. Proof, and More.

Hey Improper Adoptee. Did you chicken out? I see you wanted to leave a comment, but didn't. Are you sure you have nothing to say? I know you can't contain yourself. You're just so full of cruel crap, you must need to get it out. Are you still using a barf bucket? You know, Bulimia isn't good for you. All that barfing you do…not good! But you know that. Maybe that's why you needed some time off. Did you raid a bakery and candy shop, and now need time off to devour the goods and spend the nights puking into your "bastard barf bucket?"

Anyway…

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Oh darn. No comment. Boo hoo hoo. (total sarcasm)

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Oh no. don't tell me…my cat's page upsets you. All those rescue and adoption links. Oy vey. Well, I hope you enjoyed viewing all those pet rescue and shelter links, plus the blog with cat information. Oh, don't pretend I'm an animal abuser or hater. We all know you're full of shit up to your eyeballs. My MySpace profile you just took a gander at for the hundredth time is proof of that.

Do you know HOW MANY TIMES YOU'VE LURKED MY BLOGS?
I bet you don't realize it, but you've come by quite a lot. I know when it's you. I know where you live, and I can do a traceroute if you really want me to show you, but I can't be bothered with your petty games, since you're just lying out of your ass anyway.

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There's so many entries, and so many from you and your "family member," your friend and another cohort that you can't even begin to lie about how you never red anything. you even read my personal blog, and so do your psychobuddies. I'm not wasting space by posting hundreds of listings from you or Amy, your daughter, your little "mystery pals" or anyone else. You know you log on, you know who else does, and frankly, I don't care. I posted the stats more for LOL's, because when you do it, it's such a "tl;dr" thing, and no one bothers to even look at one bit of it.
I have 4 ways of tracking you; as I said before, I pay for two services to get extensive tracing and tracking information. It's all legal.

Enjoy bullshitting more. Just keep your libel to yourself, and halt your theft of images that are clearly copyrighted and not yours to use. Stop harassing me.

STOP ABUSING ME VIA THE INTERNET, STOP BULLYING ME AND STOP STEALING MY PHOTOS I POST THAT ARE SPECIFICALLY LABELED AS NOT FOR USE BY ANYONE ELSE, ESPECIALLY YOU. STOP YOUR CYBERPSYCHO BEHAVIOR TOWARDS ME.

I've documented every move you've made. I have proof. You? Nothing. You're an anti-semitic bigoted cyberpath abusive bully. You're going to go down and get listed on every blog that is about cyber-abuse and cyber-sickos across the United States and beyond.

Here's some "proof" of how insane The Improper Adoptee really is. Insane AND abusive.

This is some of the nuttiest blabbering. No, I take that back. I can say that about many of this freak's blog entries. She just has an abnormally voracious appetite for abusing people, especially me for the last year, and when she's through posting she purges in her bastard barf bucket. The Improper Adoptee clearly suffers from Blogger Bulimia Nervosa. Her pathologically insatiable hunger to continue to harass and abuse me online, and to abuse others — even other adoptees — proves she suffers from many mental diseases, including what I shall now call Blogger Bulimia Nervosa. Initially, she feels much pleasure from posting horrific lies about others, and maybe even gets some sexual release from the harm she causes to these strangers she hurts online, but in the end, she feels self-loathing and self-disgust. She gains nothing, but she hurts others and she hurts herself.


Monday, February 9, 2009

My Cyberstalker Bully is Far Too Paranoid to be "Normal"…

Does my cyberstalker-bully have Paranoid Personality Disorder and Paranoid Schizophrenia?

Paranoid personality disorder is one of the most common clinically recognized personality disorders. Approximately 4.4 percent of the adult US population meets the diagnostic criteria for paranoid personality disorder, meaning 9.2 million Americans live with chronic paranoia and suspicion of others. These figures are for paranoid personality disorder alone: they do not include Americans suffering from paranoid schizophrenia, or experiencing paranoia as a symptom of other conditions.

Symptoms of Paranoid Personality Disorder
Paranoid personality disorder manifests as inflexible and chronic patterns of paranoia, distrust, suspicion, and hostility towards others. These traits have a tremendous negative impact on a person's ability to function socially, at work, and in intimate relationships.*

To The Improper Adoptee's so-called friends: you might want to recommend this book to her daughter or any known family members. She clearly needs help. She needs to realize that she is indeed a liar and that she is volatile and cruel. She's even harmful to herself. None of what she does online can be healthy to her, not emotionally or even physically. She must be a wreck.


I am Not Sick I Don't Need Help! (Paperback)
by Xavier Amador (Author), Anna-Lica Johanson
ISBN:
0967718902 - This book helps you learn what the latest research says about why so many do not believe they are ill, why they refuse treatment, and how you can help. The book is written for families and therapists.

The chronic paranoia experienced by people with paranoid personality disorder is not simply suspiciousness; suspicions are normal when based on previous experience or events related by other people. The paranoid personality has no factual evidence for paranoia. Affected individuals believe they are being exploited, taken advantage of or sabotaged. Paranoid personality disorder sufferers often read malicious or threatening motives into simple words or acts.

Socially, people with paranoid personality disorder find it difficult, if not impossible, to form lasting relationships. Their paranoia forces them to constantly question the sincerity of friends, and the fidelity of spouses or sexual partners.

Paranoid personality disorder sufferers often appear aloof, cold, or emotionally distant to others. The paranoid personality deliberately distances himself or herself from others, due both to paranoia and a fear of betrayal. Although the paranoid personality is extremely sensitive to both real and imagined slights or criticism, individuals with the disorder tend to be extremely critical of others and quick to place blame or make accusations.

Causes of Paranoid Personality Disorder

The exact cause of paranoid personality disorder is unknown. A genetic cause has been suggested, as paranoid personality disorder seems to be more common in families with psychotic mood disorders, most notably paranoid schizophrenia and delusional disorders. Biochemical factors and childhood experience have also been suggested as possible causes, but to date the exact source of paranoid personality disorder remains unknown.

Complications of Paranoid Personality Disorder

Chronic paranoia and distrust often force paranoid personality disorder sufferers into social isolation, not only due to their own paranoia, but also because friends and co-workers draw away from continual criticism and unwarranted accusations.

The stress of living with chronic paranoia increases the risk of violence among paranoid personality disorder sufferers, who may respond with verbal or physical attacks when they feel they have been "pushed too far."

Paranoid Personality Disorder or Paranoid Schizophrenia?

Paranoid personality disorder is often confused with paranoid schizophrenia, which is actually a mood disorder, not a personality disorder. The paranoia present in paranoid schizophrenia differs in nature from that of paranoid personality disorder. Paranoia caused by paranoid personality disorder focuses on the perceived motives and intentions of others, but the paranoid personality remains grounded, for the most part, in reality.

Paranoia caused by paranoid schizophrenia is characterized by psychotic symptoms such as auditory and visual hallucinations. Paranoia and delusions associated with paranoid schizophrenia tend to be bizarre. Individuals with paranoid schizophrenia may believe the government is brainwashing them using radio signals, or that the neighbor is an alien. In short, the symptoms of paranoia in paranoid schizophrenia are much less grounded in reality than the paranoia typical of the paranoid personality.

Diagnosing Paranoid Personality Disorder

Diagnosis of paranoid personality disorder is problematic simply because of the nature of the disorder. People with paranoid personality disorder do not recognize their own paranoia as unusual. In fact, many consider themselves well grounded in reality and consider their paranoia to be realistic and objective.

Not believing their paranoia is a problem, paranoid personality disorder sufferers rarely seek help for their condition, unless forced to seek help by family (or in some cases, by the law). Even when forced to seek medical help, the individual's paranoia is likely to interfere with both diagnosis and treatment.

Diagnosis of paranoid personality disorder relies heavily on a history of symptoms and observations. For a clinical diagnosis to be made the patient's symptoms must match four or more of the criteria for paranoid personality disorder as put forth by the DSM-IV:


  • suspects, without sufficient basis, that others are exploiting, harming, or deceiving him or her
  • is preoccupied with unjustified doubts about the loyalty or trustworthiness of friends or associates
  • is reluctant to confide in others because of unwarranted fear that the information will be used maliciously against him or her
  • reads hidden demeaning or threatening meanings into benign remarks or events
  • persistently bears grudges, i.e. is unforgiving of insults, injuries, or slights
  • perceives attacks on his or her character or reputation that are not apparent to others and is quick to react angrily or to counterattack
  • has recurrent suspicions, without justification, regarding fidelity of spouse or sexual partner.

From the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 4th Edition. American Psychiatric Association, 1994.

Before a diagnosis of paranoid personality disorder is made, a number of other paranoia causing conditions must be ruled out, including paranoid schizophrenia, or paranoia resulting form depression, drug-induced paranoia. Severe stress is also known to cause paranoia and other symptoms similar to paranoid personality disorder. Known as acute paranoia, stress-induced paranoia develops rapidly.However, paranoia and other symptoms usually dissipate once the stressor is removed.

Other personality disorders must also be considered during the diagnosis, including:

  • antisocial personality disorder
  • avoidant personality disorder
  • borderline personality disorder
  • histrionic personality disorder
  • narcissistic personality disorder
  • schizoid personality disorder
  • schizotypal personality disorder.


Difficulties of Treating Paranoid Personality Disorder

Treatment of paranoid personality disorder is difficult, primarily because the patients do not view their paranoia as unhealthy, or their suspicions of others as unfounded. Medications, doctors and psychotherapists are subject to the patient's paranoia and hostility, making the patient likely to resist treatment or simply end treatment before any benefits can be seen.

Medications such as antipsychotics and antidepressants may improve the patient's ability to function, but rarely alleviate the paranoia. Compliance with medication is a problem with many paranoid personality disorder patients, who may lie about taking medication or otherwise sabotage medication therapy.

Psychotherapy may help the patient identify delusions and paranoia and improve daily life, but again compliance is an issue. Long-term, lifelong therapy is usually required, and while functioning may improve with therapy, symptoms of paranoid personality disorder often remain. Due to the nature of paranoid personality disorder, group therapy is not recommended.

Resources

American Psychiatric Association. Diagnostic criteria for 301.0: Paranoid personality disorder. Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 4th Edition. American Psychiatric Association, Washington, DC, 1994.

Long, P.W. (nd). Paranoid personality disorder.

National Institutes of Health. (2004, August 2). Landmark survey reports on the prevalence of personality disorders in the United States.

National Library of Medicine. (updated 2003). Paranoid personality disorder.MedlinePlus Medical Encyclopedia.

National Mental Health Association. (nd). Personality disorders.

Psychology Today. (nd). Paranoid personality disorder.

*http://www.psychiatric-disorders.com


Why discuss paranoid personalities and mental illnesses? There's really no explanation needed if you've visited The Improper Adoptee's blog even once. This blog entry of hers (in full, below) is the latest, and quite a good example.

Her blog title is so funny. The image she stole without permission to use is just not fitting for the title. BTW Marilyn, words like "in" and "the" are not capitalized...oh, nevermind. You'll never learn. You still can't figure out the proper usage of the words "to" and "too."

Sunday, February 1, 2009

spookie In The Raw


**FORGOT TO INCLUDE THIS IN ORIGINAL POST
In my last blog about the beyond evil and demonic spookie, who I think we all know is somewhere from the lowest pit in hell, I mentioned she had said terrible things about respected people here in Adoption Bloggerland. For those who have not seen her writhing wildly in her immature, satanic, tyrannical, barbaric, Hitler like temper tantrums of hate, that she calls a blog, I thought I'd highlight some of the libel, slanderous and just outright cruel things she has said about innocent people, who did nothing but take my side. spookie has bombarded many other people's blogs with her monotinious and full of lies comments about me, including Cassie's, FirstMothers Forum, and many others, some who I have comments from in my inbox, that I have saved to show the authorities. The police Department here has two detectives that deal with cyberabuse and I will be talking with one of them soon. spookie, with all the horrible, horrible lies and horrible, horrible things she has said about me, makes me feel literally like she is taking her foot and kicking me hard constantly up my lower personal parts-and laughing the whole time. She also makes me feel like she is murdering me-like how someone would feel if they were being murdered. **Amy felt physically threatened by spookie too and considering the sinister comments and the unbeleivable amount of them she has sent both of us, along with her overly aggressive and sociopathic tone, only a fool wouldn't. spookie has NO conscience, and what she does online is immoral** like publishing my cell phone number (and a cop said that to me a couple days ago)(note from IA: the cell phone number this vampire bat published IS NO LONGER WORKING. THAT ACCOUNT HAS BEEN TERMINATED)and everyone in Adoptionland knows she tells outlandous and outrageous fabrications while hyperactively twisting the truth and denying how she has vicitmized so many. She reminds me of how Rabbi Kaye acted on tv when he got arrested, just because I choose to ignore her mocking my feelings about Adoption 10 months ago on myspace via her obnoxious email to me, **and when she is called on how she started this entire nightmare she has created for myself and my freinds. Oh the drama, oh the over emotionalism, oh the over reaction, oh get me a bucket...Who ever spookie is, and whoever is in cahoots with spookie, however, no matter who they are, I will be suing them personally, for grotesque emotional and psychological abuse, slander and invation of privacy, amongst other things. Until then, have a little taste of how spookie treats other people too,**while she lies like she breathes....

To ULB:
"This is to Teresa, Ungrateful Little Bastard, who just was a nasty little bitch instead of being a decent human being, a person, and decided to act like a highschool twat instead of having a rational, adult discussion after I sent her a damn polite message".

To Amy:
"Get help. You're a sick, fucked up bitch. I'd blame the war you were in and get some compensation while at it, so you don't need to nickel and dime your blog. That home schooling excuse sucked ass. If you stay home all day, buy some work out supplies. Just an idea".

You said:
"Don't come to my blog because I will humiliate you."
Oh, so you think your NEW BLOG is humiliating? Nah. It only proves that you're maniacal and completely unfit. You're of unsound mind and should probably not have your children alone with you at any time. The courts should be made aware of your sickness"

"Yes, you and The Improper Adoptee sure do. Who would think that being adopted would fuck up some people so seriously. You two are so seriously fucked in the head, you should never have had children. I feel so sorry for them, because those children, yours and her daughter, have to put up with the psychotic obsession of their parent, the non-stop brainwashing and the lack of an onoff switch to hearing your voices talk about adoption and your adoption obsessions and views. Those kids probably dream of shoving a volume knob up your asses so they can tune you out".

"Psst, Menopausal Bitches: Proxy. I have a proxy server somewhere, someplace. The adoptees from the MySpace group use a proxy. It's not even a real proxy! It's a shared computer, you'd be confused if I explained it. This was done to protect them from The Improper Adoptee. I've known how to since the mid-90's. How about you? I told StepFordChild, I was friends with hackers, crackers and some very serious geeks. That was a long time ago. It made her seriously paranoid. I suppose it's where she came up with her hilarious lie, "spookie is a hacker."

"Who the hell are you to come along and think you know anything? and as for the others, they don't know anything either, and I didn't "stalk and harass" any of them. that's pure bullshit and you know it. You're a fucking liar. As for you, you're just a dumb uneducated fool that went along with a paranoid schizophrenic's delusions. You know she fits the profile — social isolation, disorganized speech and behavior, antagonistic elements...need more? Are you one, too?"

"Gosh, I have some serious cramps. The doctor said I should take a break today, lie down a bit, because I'm ovulating. Can you believe it? I'm ovulating! I'll be 43 and I can have a baby next fall. Ha ha!
Hey, I can even have one for a couple who can't.
PSYCH!
(Sike! as in "your mother wears army boots" — oh, my bad, it's true.)"

"You want to pretend that you didn't make contact first, but the fact is that by responding to The Improper Adoptee's libel, you involved yourself, and I had a right to stand up for myself, especially when you claimed you'd "hit me hard." You made contact first, by speaking about me, a person you knew and still know nothing about. You only know what you want to; your "poor us we are adoptees from the BSE era and cannot get our OBC's, spookie must pay, we need a scapegoat!" version. It's cruel, nasty and pathetic. It's also sad and pitiful."

"KITE KAMP GIRL
You're deranged."

"You were and are a kook. Ha ha ha. Are you for real? Where do people like you and The Improper Adoptee come from, because it isn't from humans. There must be a factory for paranoid delusional freaks, and you two are the product."
Saturday, November 29, 2008

"KITE KAMP GIRL, It's NOT About Adoption! You're Just NUTS!
You're insane and nuttier than a fruitcake.
I noticed you deleted your first libelous blog about me. Are you already trying to cover your tracks? At least you seem a little scared about your actions, while The Improper Adoptee is so self-brainwashed, she believes that what she s doing is right."

NOTE FROM IMPROPER: I HAVE GOTTEN COMMENTS FROM SPOOKIE LIKE THE ONE ABOVE TO AMY THAT SHE MADE IN HER PSYCHO BLOG-THAT I HAVE DELETED COMMENTS, AND ENTRIES, BUT I HAVE NEVER DELETED ANYTHING, AND IT IS PRETTY OBVIOUS THAT SPOOKIE HAS HACKED BOTH OUR BLOGS.

"You said:
"Maybe Spookie you should close up that public board. People can and will see you guys for the "kooks" that you are. I mean you did create a group of people in a very public manner to harass someone. Improper Adoptee didn't. You can push people only so far before they do retaliate. It sounds like she is finally retaliating."
Yes, you idiot. Improper Adoptee did create a group AND a blog meant to harass people, long before anyone at all typed one word about her off MySpace or in the group to expose her blog —

THIS LIE IS A RIOT BECAUSE I MADE THAT ANTI-NCFA GROUP ON MY SPACE **LONG BEFORE I EVER CAME TO BLOGGER. OKAY MAJOR TYPO HERE-WHEN I AM SO TIRED LIKE I WAS YESTERDAY,I TYPE INCORRECTLY-WHAT I MEANT TO SAY WAS BEFORE I CONTINUED BLOGGING, AS I FIRST MADE THIS BLOG IN MAY BUT DID NOT MAKE A SECOND ENTRY UNTIL JUNE 23RD AND WHEN I SAID-SPOOKIE CAN'T EVEN LIE RIGHT! WELL AGAIN, THE GROUP IN I MADE IN THE PICTURE BELOW WAS NOT ABOUT SPOOKIE. AND I WASN'T HARRASSING ANYONE. THE TROLLS IN THE NCFA AND IN MY SPACE ADOPTION GROUPS ARE THE ONES HARRASSING PEOPLE. (THEY HAD BEEN VERBALLY ABUSIVE TO ME FOR OVER 3 MONTHS.) SO ARE THOSE WHO LIE TO KEEP OUR ADOPTION RECORDS CLOSED. WHICH IS WHAT THE NCFA DOES EVERY DAMN DAY. THE WAY SPOOKIE COMES AT A PERSON, WHEN THEY HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG TO HER, IS LIKE BEING FORCED TO SIT IN A CHAIR AND HAVE SOMEONE PUNCH YOU ON BOTH SIDES OF YOUR HEAD OVER AND OVER AGAIN...THIS IS ONE REASON I AM SO TIRED ALL THE TIME TOO...BECAUSE THIS IS HOW SHE HAS MADE ME FEEL FOR MONTHS

"you read that correctly, yes? TO EXPOSE HER BLOG. Maybe you should have told her to close it up, or stop it, or delete the stuff that was off-topic from her blog. But you didn't. You acted like a fool and jumped into something that was none of your business, that you knew nothing about and you started up with me, with your big bully attitude, and now you're crying about it. Boo fucking hoo. You threatened me, so you went and deleted the blog. You're a real big shot".

NOTE FROM IMPROPER: THE GROUP I MADE ON MY SPACE:


HAD NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH SPOOKIE, AND SHE HAS TWISTED THIS FOR HER AGENDA. SPOOKIE IS THE ONE WHO IS TOTALLY MANIC, IF YOU LOOK AT HER BLOG AND SEE THE INSANE AMOUNT OF WRITING SHE DOES, AND HOW SHE PSYCHOANYALIZES EVERY THING MYSELF, GERSHOM, ULB, JOY AND AMY HAS SAID. JUST LOOKING AT HER BLOG, ONE CAN SEE SHE IS IN THE DARKNESS OF PSYCHOSIS. **WHEN THIS LUNATIC SAYS SHE WAS THREATENED, THE ONLY THREAT WAS THAT WE WERE GOING TO GET HER MY SPACE GROUP SHE MADE TO BASH ME DOWN, WHICH WE DID. WHEN AMY SAID SHE WOULD HIT HARD BACK, SHE MEANT FIGHT BACK, AFTER SPOOKIE STARTED SENDING HER A MASSIVE AMOUNT OF SINISTER COMMENTS ON HER BLOG EVERY DAY.

"The real proof that the handful of you NUTTY ADOPTEES are really off the hook?
All 5 of you have no couth, no boundaries, no care for others or their feelings and no manners when dealing with serious issues. You're a group of bullies, and YOU WON'T GET AWAY WITH ABUSIVE BULLYING JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE ADOPTED."

SPOOKIE THINKS ANYONE WHO STANDS UP TO HER ABUSE AND SPAMMING PEOPLE CONSTANTLY IS "BULLYING" HER ** SHE ALSO THINKS HER CUTTING DOWN ADOPTEES LIKE SHE HAS, WAS NONE OF AMY'S BUISNESS. PFFT.

"Meet Kite Kamp Girl, Friend of The Improper Adoptee, and Number Two
This is MY BLOG, Amy, and how dare you judge me. Same for Gershom, Ungrateful Little Bastard and Cassi, the latter who posted on The Improper Libelous Adoptee's blog of puke".

"Remember how I mentioned a short while back that you accused me of calling you a dyke, and you linked to the location of this supposed "dyke call," and I told you that I did not call you a dyke? Why do you still insist I called you a dyke? Why would I call you one anyway? Why is the post nothing like what you tried to convince your little puppet squad about? And why do you feel the need to mention your "hubby" and his appearance? Is it because you are actually lucky that the man stays with you? Maybe you're in the middle of nowhere and he hasn't seen a real woman in so long, he has no idea what he's missing. Ha! Paid adverts and links on your blog — none for diets and skincare?"

spookie HAD THE AUDASITY TO PUT AMY'S HUSBAND'S, (WHO SHE NEVER SPOKE TO IN HER LIFE) MY SPACE ON HER BLOG, AND MOCK AND MAKE FUN OF IT.


To Gershom:

"P.S. Yes, Kali, it IS very lame. It's lame that you know the facts, yet still act like a high school bitch."

THIS IS FROM SPOOKIE'S MY SPACE GROUP SHE MADE TO TRASH ME, THAT MY SPACE DELETED (REFER TO MY BLOG :"THEY ALL FALL DOWN")

Posted: Oct 6, 2008 3:48 AM
"Marc, if that was you (it’s your style, ha ha), I’d have told you not to waste your time or bother at all. She’s a kook. Gershom is naivĂ© (hopefully not a nutter) and Kite Kamp girl is a nutter like Stepford. None of them realize (or want to) that their psycho paranoid schizophrenic pal started hate groups about US long before this group came to be, or that half of Steppy Poo’s blog is about me, or, DO THEY? hence...Kite Kamp Kook.
Good try, though. It’s my feeling that when you’ve been honest and sincere, and ask for privacy, and the receiver of your message disrespects that, they are not honorable, kind or credible people. Kite Kamp is as crazy in the coconut as Anonymous Adoptee. (I would’ve told you not to write her if you’d asked beforehand! I knew she was a few cards short of a deck.) I think these people, the ones like Stepford, have serious, deep-rooted mental problems they never addressed properly. It doesn’t excuse their twisted behavior, though, not in any way. A lot of people have mental issues and don’t act out of line, disrespect others and stomp on people."

NOTE FROM IMPROPER" LIKE WHO, SPOOKIE? YOU?!!!!!!!!!!!
LMAO!!!!!!!!

To Joy:
Monday, October 27, 2008
"Oh JOY."
"Oh Joy, another one. Yes, that's sarcasm, and has a double meaning. No, I'm not feeling joyful right this moment, and the woman who has won her place here on the nut bar blog in named Joy. Joy thinks she knows me, as well as The Improper Adoptee, also known as Stepford Child, also known as StepFordChild, SC, and StepfordC.
To those like Joy, another anonymous pal of The Improper Adoptee, another woman hiding herself behind nothing but 3 little letters on the internet, let me make myself VERY CLEAR".

spookie DELETED PART OF THIS BLOG, AS SHE WENT ON TO VICIOUSLY MOCK JOY FOR SAYING IT TAKES ALOT TO RATTLE HER CAGE. (WHICH SHE SAID AFTER SPOOKIE STARTED ATTACKING HER AND CUTTING HER DOWN FOR NO REASON). THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER ABUSIVE THINGS SPOOKIE HAS SAID IN COMMENTS ON MY BLOG, AND THAT SHE SENT TO OTHER PEOPLE'S BLOGS, THAT TO PUT THEM ALL TOGETHER IS JUST TOO MUCH WORK RIGHT NOW, AS I AM EXHAUSTED. AND CONSIDERING HOW DISPICABLE SHE IS, FOR THOSE OF US WHO CARE ABOUT WHO SHE RUTHLESSLY ATTACKS, IT IS HARD TO HAVE AN APPETITE FOR MORE...
SPOOKIE IS A COCKY, ARROGANT, PEOPLE ABUSER WHO THINKS SHE IS UNTOUCHABLE. SHE IS ALSO A COMPULSIVE LIAR AND VERY DANGEROUS. I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED IF SHE HAS KILLED PEOPLE....
spookie is also a major time stealer, trying to avert our attention away from writing the wonderful blogs we all write concerning the corrupt profession of Adoption. I have my health problem still to deal with, and getting spookies rabid **like blog off the internet, which will happen, so I will be busy for awhile. I am also getting another ISP server, and will be looking at spookie's blog only from the Library and the police station, so have fun hacking me there spookie! You won't be getting my new server numbers. Fighting for our rights, is beyond tiring and can along, with enemies like spookie drain the best of us. So I will see everyone in a couple of weeks, when I will start my 3 part series called, Jesus WASN'T Adopted, **with following entries of Bastards of A Lesser God, and The Psychology of A Christian Infertile. Until then, everyone take good care, and watch behind you, for SPOOKIE shadows that love to haunt us in the dark and stab us in the back with snake fanged lies like these........

spookie wrote
"Those of you, the naivé, or the ones who just take her side because you're adopted as well: Watch your back. Don't think for a second that this woman won't flip on a dime. She wrote to me once about how she was so happy about what I was doing for animals, and for the animal group(s) on Myspace, and signed it "Love, Step."

spookie first contacted me via my space. She tried to come off nice at first, but she still appeared sheepish to me. I had a bad feeling about her. I thought if I was nice to her, maybe she would be nice back, and I signed the email via myspace I wrote to her Love, Step BEFORE she wrote me that mean spirited email about her friend "Anne". She never mentions that fact though.....

"She vehemently denies this, even though she herself posted her own message containing the very sentence it's in. "

I have never denied this. This is how spookie twists the truth. She makes it seem like she was my friend or something, which she never was-we exchanged two emails before she wrote me the email that hurt me so much and in both of them to her I was nice as pie. spookie makes it seem that because I said Love, Step in one email, I was her best friend or something, which is ridiculous and again, I signed an email Love Step BEFORE she decided to act like the mean spirited Pro-Adoption Troll bitch she really is.......

"She liked me until I had a friend who didn't hate being adopted.
Wait until you time comes and she comes after you and refuses to stop. Wait until IT'S YOUR TURN for hatred and cruelty. Wait until you crack those eggshells you tip-toe on while chatting with her, and you'll see what happens. Forget about the DMA. Watch as she steals, blatantly, your images from your site(s) and posts them on her blog, ignoring your copyright notices. Watch as she laughs about your requests to her asking her to cease and desist. Just YOU wait until IT IS YOUR TURN. That goes for Amy Adoptee, who blinding stood up for The Improper Schizopath and not only took her side blind as a bat in daylight, but blogged about me while not knowing anything at all. That goes for *Gershom, who refused to even see two sides, and when she propbably did, she didn't do anything about the fact that her friend was lying"

This is why I hate spookie. She was mean on purpose then tries to weasle her way out of it. And look at how far she has taken it......There is another lie she tells too (along with the hundred others) that she came onto my forums and said, what's the matter, what did I do wrong, why won't you talk to me?, blah, blah, blah.....WELL THAT IS A GODDAMN LIE. **(And for those of you offended by my language, you'll have to understand spookie, the devil made me do it...this in sufferable reptile could of made Gandi flip somebody off....).She never did anything of the sort, all she did do, was follow me around, harrass and insult the hell out of me, hack my account and get me deleted and make phony Stepford Child my spaces. THEN she began to abuse me on Adoption forums, along with the Villians of My Space. Come on spookie.......GRADUATE FROM 7TH GRADE!!!!!! IT'S YOUR TURN!!!!


A community member voiced this question about paranoia in our forums:
Is anyone else extremely paranoid? I always think someone is talking about me, and I think they all laugh behind my back and everyone has these elaborate schemes that are made to get me .... So my question is, does anyone else experience this, and if so, is it a part of being bipolar?

Paranoia is a term that in common, everyday language is used to mean everything from feeling nervous about a person or situation to being convinced that somebody is "out to get you." In his song "Almost Cut My Hair," David Crosby expressed this common usage well when he said, "It increases my paranoia, like looking in my mirror and seeing a police car." I'll wager almost everyone feels uneasy (and watches speed, signals and everything else) when police officers are right behind them.

Medically, the definition of paranoia is more precise. Psychiatrists use the term to describe a disordered way of thinking or an anxious state that attains the level of a delusion. For example, a person who believes the FBI is tracking her every move through the fillings in her teeth is exhibiting paranoid behavior. On the other hand, a criminal who believes the FBI is listening in on his telephone calls is not likely paranoid, because it may well be true.

The key to true paranoia is that the person exhibits an unreasonable and/or exaggerated mistrust and suspicion of others. This suspicion is not based on fact and often grows into delusions. Thus, paranoia is a symptom that can be part of several syndromes, including delusional disorder, paranoid personality disorder, psychotic and mood disorders (including bipolar disorder and schizophrenia), as well as other conditions (such as brain toxicity that may be caused by drug or alcohol abuse, mineral poisoning, etc).

The community member who asked about paranoia may be experiencing these symptoms due to bipolar disorder, but they could be indicating another condition. It is important to discuss these feelings with one's psychiatrist and work toward methods to control them, as they sound unpleasant and disruptive.



p.s. Hello Kansas, outside of Newton and north of Wichita. Hiya, Toronto, Canada.