Thursday, December 11, 2008
- is a convincing, practiced liar and when called to account, will make up anything spontaneously to fit their needs at that moment
- excels at deception and should never be underestimated in their capacity to deceive
- relies on mimicry, repetition and regurgitation to convince others that he or she is both a "normal" human being and a tough dynamic manager, as in extolling the virtues of the latest management fads and pouring forth the accompanying jargon
- is unusually skilled in being able to anticipate what people want to hear and then saying it plausibly
- cannot be trusted or relied upon
- fails to fulfill commitments
- is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of emotional development; while language and intellect may appear to be that of an adult, the bully displays the emotional age of a five-year-old (e.g. "meanydoodles")
- in a relationship, is incapable of initiating or sustaining intimacy
- holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite gender, people of a different sexual orientation, other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners, etc - prejudiced people are unvaryingly unimaginative) but goes to great lengths to keep this prejudicial aspect of their personality secret
- is self-opinionated and displays arrogance, audacity, a superior sense of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability
- is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control everyone and everything you say, do, think and believe; for example, will launch an immediate personal attack attempting to restrict what you are permitted to say if you start talking knowledgeably about psychopathic personality or antisocial personality disorder in their presence - but aggressively maintains the right to talk (usually unknowledgeably) about anything they choose; serial bullies despise anyone who enables others to see through their deception and their mask of sanity
- flits from topic to topic so that you come away feeling you've never had a proper conversation
- refuses to be specific and never gives a straight answer
- is evasive and has a Houdini-like ability to escape accountability
- undermines and destroys anyone who the bully perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or who can see through the bully's mask
- gains gratification from denying people what they are entitled to
is highly manipulative, especially of people's perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)
- poisons peoples' minds by manipulating their perceptions
- often has an overwhelming, unhealthy and narcissistic attention-seeking need to portray themselves as a wonderful, kind, caring and compassionate person, in contrast to their behavior and treatment of others; the bully sees nothing wrong with their behavior and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy between how they like to be seen and how they are seen by others
- is spiritually dead although may loudly profess some religious belief or affiliation
- is greedy, selfish, a parasite and an emotional vampire
- is insensitive, often callously indifferent to the needs of others, and especially when others are experiencing difficulty (vulnerability is a major stimulant to the serial bully)
- is unable to maintain confidentiality, often breaching it with misrepresentation, distortion and fabrication (e.g. "Okay........I’ll keep your emails private...........ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!")
- uses gossip, back-stabbing or spreads rumours to undermine, discredit and isolate
- is insecure and sees others as a threat; the threat seems to comprise a fear of exposure of inadequacy, and often borders on paranoia; the individual may have a paranoid personality
- is untrustworthy and unable to trust others - this partly explains the compulsion for excessive monitoring
- the serial bully seems to live in a bubble of the present and when challenged will spontaneously make things up; the bully genuinely seems to believe the fabrication; from a psychiatric viewpoint this could be called confabulation; from a moral viewpoint, it's called lying
- is devious and manipulative (especially female bullies)
- is often like a child who has never grown up
- often has a hatred of a sector of society, eg ethnic minorities, disabled people, etc
- often has a hatred of certain professional groups, eg psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, counsellors, therapists
Monday, March 9, 2009
"Um, if you can’t afford a $15 vaccine get rid of your fucking cat and give it to someone who can take care of it properly and get it the medical care it needs. Christ.
People are such idiots.
You really hate yourself don’t you? Sad.... sad too, that you take it out on everyone Chainsaw......"
My very first message to her is below, and her first reply is above it, below.
"Oh you skank loser spookie. You are a hacker, a liar and a 4 year old SPOILED BRAT. I never wrote what you made up and posted in here. YOU are the one who started this WHOLE thing because you made up a mean spirited story and tried to indicate to me that all birth mothers are CRACK WHORES, which is an immature, and horrific LIE, PLUS IT IS SLANDER!-GO READ THE BOOK, EVERYONE READ THE BOOK, WHICH IS THE TRUTH ABOUT ADOPTION AND HOW BABIES ARE TAKEN AGAINST A GOOD MOTHER’S WILL, MANIPULATED AWAY, AND SOLD BY ADOPTION AGENCIES AND THEN THEY LIE AND PUT AN INFERTILE WOMAN’S NAME ON OUR BIRTH CERTIFICATES SAYING SHE GAVE BIRTH TO US WHEN SHE DID NOT AND DO NOT GIVE US THE REAL BC WITH OUR MOMS NAMES ON THEM-BABIES IN AMERICA ARE SOLD FOR UP TO 100 GRAND EACH-THE BOOK IS CALLED "THE GIRLS THAT WENT AWAY"
GO READ IT-AMERICA HAS A LONG EVIL HISTORY OF ABUSE AND BIGOTRY-LOOK AT SLAVERY!
SOME GOOD WEBSITES THAT SPOOKIE DOESN’T WANT ANYONE TO KNOW ABOUT THAT TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT ADOPTION & OPEN ADOPTION TOO ARE:
These links will take you to other links-forget what you saw in JUNO, it is all a LIE-a group of selfish adoptive parents that oppress the slaves, I mean kids they adopt called the NCFA DO NOT want us to know our own people, or who we look like, OR OUR OWN PARENTS NAMES! or the fact that most babies are coerosed away from single mothers against their will by social workers, WHEN WE WANTED TO BE WITH THEM-THE NCFA ARE THE ONES THAT GET BS MOVIES LIKE JUNO MADE, TO BRAINSWASH GIRLS TO GIVE AWAY THEIR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD TO INFERTILE STRANGERS WHO BUY THEM AND THEN CON THE POOR CHILD THAT THEY ARE THEIRS WHICH IS ABUSE WHILE NOT LETTING THE CHILD EVEN KNOW THEIR MOMS NAME.
Spookie is like those people-she is a people abuser and she hates me because I expose and hate the American adoption system because it abused me and countless others.
She hates me because she wrote me a very mean email MEANT TO HURT ME and then I did NOT reply and she handles it like a 4th grade BULLY-going all around into groups insulting me, calling me names-it is sad she says she is 42 and acts like the mean kids we all knew in juniour high school, but this is how Pro-Adoption people are-skank losers!!
And that is harrassing, intimidating, manipulating hacker, spammer, phisher
spookie, ika: mittens the cat IS
Stay way from her if you care about yourself.
She is beyond dangerous and needs SERIOUS MENTAL HEATH HELP.
Burn in hell spookie."
This is FACT: Crack cocaine is a highly addictive and powerful stimulant that is derived from powdered cocaine using a simple conversion process. Crack emerged as a drug of abuse in the mid-1980s. It is abused because it produces an immediate high and because it is easy and inexpensive to produce--rendering it readily available and affordable.
Stepford told me I was a liar about crack, but I am in NY and in 15 minutes, I can be at one of the oldest crackhouses from the early 80’s. I know crack was here.
"The crack epidemic refers to a six year period between 1984 and 1990 in the United States during which there was a huge surge in the use of crack cocaine in major cities, and crack-houses all over the USA. Fallout from the crack epidemic included a huge surge in addiction, homelessness, murder, theft, robbery, and long-term imprisonment. The first effects of the epidemic started in the early 1980s, but the DEA officially classifies the time of the epidemic starting in 1984 and ending in 1990, in what can be considered to be the height of the epidemic.
The epidemic affected all major American cities. Among the cities most severely impacted were Chicago, Washington D.C., Los Angeles, Baltimore, Detroit, New York, and Miami. According to New York Senator Charles Schumer, "Twenty years ago, crack was headed east across the United States like a Mack truck out of control, and it slammed New York hard because we just didn’t see the warning signs.""
Of course it's not The Improper Adoptee making that bestiality site. IA and "those two dudes" both just happen to not blog on weekends. Coincidence? Ha ha! Gee, Do the two guys and Marilyn all have to check in to the local metal facility on weekends, as required by a court order? (I mean Marilyn and her two male personalities, eh-hem) Let's not play stupid here. No one is that dumb to think that she isn't behind both blogs.