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Thursday, November 11, 2010

The Improper Adoptee is Marilyn McAboy and She is Guilty of Online Harassment.

Marilyn McAboy of Massachusetts has been harassing me
for many years. 

After I contacted the Orleans, MA police, they made visits to her home and she took down one of her two blogs. She was supposed to remove all references about me and stop blogging about me. She asked the Orleans PD Officers who were at her home if they would do one thing for her — ask me if I would take my blog down. I did. I kept it down for many months. As months passed, I just assumed "The Improper Adoptee" had stopped her online abuse and harassment, but she had not done so. She resumed, and with more vengeance than before.

Once I realized she was not going to stop, and she was not taking any medication although seriously mentally ill, I had no choice whatsoever but to make my blog public once more. This psychotic woman has libel and defamatory content on her blog, and I'm supposed to be the good women and listen to her wishes and keep my blog offline for her sanity? No. Not when she was asked by Amy herself to take it down, too.

Marilyn McAboy is known as "The Improper Adoptee" online. (She is also known as "Kat McAboy")

"IA" has lost ALL her online friends from years ago. None of them have anything to do with her. She's alienated everyone.

"IA" has horribly harassed and victimized many people — birth mothers and adoptees — to the point where she has been blacklisted, banned and outcast.

She can continue to libel and abuse, but no, I won't silence the truth for the sake of her wanting power. She's delusional, and she knows from her site statistic trackers that I have a completely different location and IP than Vickie does. She is also well aware that Vickie has sent postal mail to many people. I myself never received postal mail, but many have. Marilyn is victimizing me and others, and I am letting the world know to keep away from her. She will backstab you like she has backstabbed Amy Burt. Like she has the other adoptees who only want their records opened; not Marilyn's drama.

To Marilyn: Sorry, but you're so wrong it's pathetic, because it either means you lie and have no feelings, good or bad, about lying to everyone, or that you really are delusional.

To Vickie: Why don't you tell her that you're visiting her blog and others, instead of allowing her to tell people it's me? You want people to know it's you, and I tried with you, I really did. You won't respond to me. Amy was honest with you, too, and I can vouch for that because we spoke on the phone about it.

Improper Adoptee, you are a sick woman. You need a life, one that goes beyond this obsession with me. You need to be on medication and you need a very good psychologist. Mental illness is nothing to be ashamed of, but it isn't something to be ignored and to use as an excuse later on, after you've abused, harassed and violated others. You cannot use your unstable state of mine as a "get out of trouble free" pass, because your actions are thought out; your harassment is all premeditated.

I asked you dozens and dozens of times to LEAVE ME ALONE. You IGNORED EACH AND EVERY REQUEST, both polite requests and stern requests. You created what there is today. It's what YOU want, not what I want.


You refuse to listen, so I told you off. Get lost, you lunatic.


STOP HARASSING ME IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM.
I will NOT ask you again.

You are an insane lunatic.
A Sociopath and a narcissist.

STOP STALKING ME.
STOP TAKING MY PERSONAL
PHOTOS AND POSTING THEM,
THEY ARE MY COPYRIGHTED PHOTOS, AS STATED ON MY BLOG AND OTHER SITES. YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO USE MY PERSONAL IMAGE WITHOUT MY CONSENT, AND I DO NOT GIVE YOU CONSENT.

You are a manipulative LIAR. I've been asking you to comply with police orders since they told you to remove all content referring to me. YOU BELONG IN JAIL OR A MENTAL INSTITUTION.

This is from 05.03.2009, right after the police from your town, the Orleans, MA police, came to your home and told you to remove everything and to stop harassing me and stop stalking me:

"The police department in my town told me to contact them if you ever write anything about me or talk to me again." — IA

Improper Adoptee:

I appreciate you taking the time to finally remove all the libel and defamatory blog entries, plus the stolen images you had used on your blog, but I want to make something very clear. You're trying to mislead your readers. The quote above is a blatant misleading lie. I had to contact the police about you after you posted the bestiality and hate crime blog, the blog in which you also posted numerous images of my toddler (making fun of him, saying he was schizophrenic, on cocaine, ugliest kid you ever saw, etc.) and on which you blogged about my father who you mocked while knowing of his stage 4 cancer. You pretended to be two other people writing the blog, but I knew all along it was you. So did the police.

I then spoke to the officers on the phone. They worked on my behalf, not yours. The sentence I quoted, the one from your blog, is what they told me after they visited you at your home the first time in regards to your blogs pertaining to me, sans the talking part, which in fact neither of us ever did. I never talked to you, and you never talked to me directly; you called people I work with. The officers then had to go back to you a second time because after the first, they told me that if I still saw anything online to contact them about it immediately. I removed everything that you asked them to have removed, even though none of it was libel. PLEASE, let's not keep this going. Clear up the misleading top header of your blog and let's be done with this.

I contacted the police in your town at the same time as I contacted the FBI of Boston. I have the documents. I can show you. You never called my local police, or your own about me. Please don't spread libelous information about me anymore. I wish no further contact of any form with you, and I doubt you want this to continue any longer.

This arrangement is so you do not ever harass me again. I think it works out well, because in return, you're not upset or angered by my documentations.

I had to contact the police in your area twice because you didn't remove the content the first time. Once you remove everything, including the ridiculous header (posted as a screenshot below) that tries to fool your readers, ALL the rest of the mentions I missed will be removed. I forgot I have a notice on MySpace about you. It isn't exactly top priority at the moment, and you know that. You knew you were harassing me online while my father was in the hospital and during his surgery, and that was cruel.

Anything else, like links you find on Google or AOL searches, you'll have to deal with, because I am not capable of doing anything about Blog Catalog's cache or the caches of search engines. What is in their cache (and others) will soon expire, and you'll have to wait it out. I cannot remove it since it's already not in my blog.

That other blog you linked to makes no mention of you or your naive friends. I don't see how it's related to you, but no, I cannot do anything for you about it. I don't have the login email or password for that blog. You'll have to contact Google directly. As for Amy, I personally don't care what is on the internet about her. She was rude and inappropriately out of line in a comment towards me on my personal blog, and I could care less if someone blogs about her. you should not concern yourself with others; you should worry about yourself.

Again, you admitted to the police that you were indeed responsible for the bestiality blog, the blog that not only said "spookie fucks cats!" and "spookie is Schizophrenic," but that my son is mentally ill and on street drugs, my mother is trailer trash and my father is a "scamming loser" who is also mentally ill. You even claimed to know me and posted libel about my having a criminal record. Ridiculous. You also admitted, through hysterical tears, that you posted all the lies about me and my family in retaliation for my message about my friend Anne. That's what you told the police. You also admitted that you posted the anti-Semitism. You posted that "you finally understood why the Germans hated Jews so much," and you called me a "kikehole." You also said that it was you who posted as anonymous and wrote other anti-Semitic comments on your own blog and other people's blogs. "Jew bitch" was one of your comments left. Everything was presented to you as print-outs and you denied nothing, but admitted to everything. You broke down and admitted to all of it through tears. You can scream out to the world that you didn't, but you did. Officer T. T. and his partner know the truth as well as I do. I also have the email correspondence to prove it, and you don't want that to publicly embarrass you, right?

Anne is real. I never told you about her to hurt you.

What you did to me was beyond cruel and took someone with no soul to do. I don't know how anyone could have written and posted such horrible things about a person, but you did. I hope you feel some remorse, because if you don't… well, it means something quite wrong.

I will delete all of this here on this blog as soon you you delete your blog entry —


After that, delete that ridiculously silly header, stop trying to twist the facts and end this moronic game. I called the police on you, not the other way around. You were caught. You did commit a hate crime. Posting what you did against Jews is a criminal act. You're lucky you are home and a free woman. Just let it all go and delete everything. I will delete what you reminded me about (Mittens; the warning about your behaviour) and anything that I'm able to. I'm only doing it as a courtesy to YOU. Anything I wrote was truthful. Veracious means truth.
veracious
I was never out to hurt you and I never lied.

I will delete this ASAP. Please be clear to your friends about your actual actions. Be honest. Everyone makes mistakes. Just own up to it and let's move past this. Don't try to make me look like the one who had police called on her. We both know it's completely untrue.

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Honesty is the best policy.
Please come clean and then delete all the references.

I will delete EVERYTHING once you tell the truth and then delete everything.
I keep my word.


This is from 05.10.2009:

You said to Kristina, a friend of mine:
"A MESSAGE TO KRISTINA FROM SUNNE VARMLANDS LANS SWEDEN: PLEASE DO NOT COME ONTO MY BLOG. THIS IS MY BLOG AND I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO REQUEST THIS, SO PLEASE DO NOT COME BACK AGAIN.
THANK YOU FOR RESPECTING MY WISHES. THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE"
If this is what you honestly want, you must set your blog to private and select who can read your blog, i.e., Amy, Cali, Teresa, etc. Blogger is public and you really cannot decide who reads your blog when your blog is pubic. As you can see, I just read your blog. I checked it because you still have not complied with the what the police have ordered you to do. You've posted a misconstrued and misleading version of the situation, and I'm not happy about that. I would like you to remove EVERYTHING as soon as possible so I can avoid another call to your local police precinct, and that will avoid another visit to your home by police officers, who this time might not just give you a stern warning.
Please, do as you were instructed and remove EVERYTHING THAT EVEN HINTS ABOUT ME. That includes your blog in which you make it seem as if you had gotten the police to come after me, ditto your main header paragraph with also insinuates that they worked on your behalf.
It's UNTRUE. While my father was in the hospital, after the brain surgery, while you made fun of him on that disgusting blog you admitted to, I was in contact with the police in your area. You know that. You know what happened next and you know what happened when you didn't comply. PLEASE STOP TRYING TO HIDE THE TRUTH. 

I NEVER LIED ABOUT ANYTHING on this blog, or on my other blog; my personal blog.
Let's LET IT GO. This has all been fucked up crap for no reason but the fact that you didn't want to believe me about an adopted friend and her mother who threw her away. I am sorry you didn't want to believe me when I said I asked out of curiosity, after you freaked out and said I made it up to hurt you and you began your tirade against me claiming I was a pro-adoption troll and animal abuser. IT'S OVER. Let's just ERASE IT ALL and MOVE ON.

UPDATE:
To The Improper Adoptee: REMOVE ALL PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE BLOG POSTS, COMMENTS AND OTHER WRITINGS ON YOUR BLOG TOWARDS ME, OR I WILL BE SUBMITTING YOUR ACCOMPLICE'S IP AND LOCATION TO THE ORLEANS, MA POLICE DEPARTMENT. I REVIEWED ALL OF THE LOGS FROM THREE WEBSITE MONITORS, AND I KNOW WHO LEFT COMMENTS FOR YOU ON MY BLOGS. I carefully culled through all the logging and monitoring systems used on my blogs, and noted which IP's matched exact times when your login left a comment on my blog. The entries match the blog comments and the blog comment pages are even noted. You didn't log in from home; you had another user do your commenting for you. OR, and that OR is very big, you were dialing up long distance using your AOL account. You used the same state as you used for the fake account on MySpace, the one in STOP Cruelty Against Animals. So, either you used an accomplice or you dialed up. It doesn't matter; both can be traced via your phone records or the other's because the information is all in my records. Just do as you were asked, nicely as I was told, so I don't need to come up to Massachusetts and file a complaint in person, which I'm willing to do now that the weather is nice and the coast is a lovely drive. I've driven it before and have a few stops I know from a prior trip. I want this over with. Don't you?
This is the same as the "activity" from Canada; slightly different because the person in Canada is very real, and we know who it is. Canada, and she logged in from home, work and other areas, was all too obvious.

Please comply with the police and just delete everything, and be sure to be truthful if you even dare to post about what has transpired. I CALLED THE POLICE ABOUT YOU. I contacted the FBI about you. I have NEVER had police contact me regarding you. I have never had police come to my home regarding you. I have never been arrested or even had a complaint filed against me, especially where you're concerned. You cannot say the same.

I don't want any more trouble with you. In fact, I want you out of my life, my online life, forever. REMOVE ALL THE REFERENCES THAT THE POLICE TOLD YOU TO, and delete your passive aggressive AND misleading nonsense, or I WILL CALL THE POLICE AGAIN. That would make it over a half dozen times or more. Do you really want or need that aggravation? I know I don't. Please, END THIS. DELETE, MOVE ON, GROW.


I would honestly feel badly for you and the pain you feel (and I mean that because I can see how it's affected you, though real parents could have dome the very same damage) , the suffering you probably went through as you grew up, if you had not harassed and abused me — and crossed that line when you made that sexually deviant blog about me, my toddler and included making fun and mocking my dying father while you knew about the cancer consuming his happiness with his family — his wife since they were teens, his grandson who was his world and vise-versa and me, who always stayed home instead of moving away because my parents are just that great. You have deep rooted issues, very disturbing issues, and I wish someone who cares very much for you would just reach out and help you the way you need help, not the way you want help.

NOW… please remove the references, the little white lie on your blog in blue text, and move on. I want to delete this crap.

When all is as it's supposed to be, then — Thank You.

This is from 07.14.2009:

«« And she sends CANADA here to copy the blog and show her so she can get updated, that is, of course, when she doesn't come by herself, from Orleans, MA. Oh, BTW Marilyn, I don't care if you post that I'm in West Hempstead. It's ON MY OWN BLOG!

Marilyn, you made a deal with your local police department, and you didn't keep it. Don't cry on your blog about not keeping your word to the officers who came to your home twice! I removed everything I said I would, AND FYI, it was only to keep you from having mental outbursts. I was informed by your state of MA that you're not mentally stable. I'd thought so all along — with dozens of others — but it was confirmed by the officials in your state. You must have a record of some sort in the system for me to be told such a thing. This information was only divulged to me because I was going to have an order of protection and restraining order made to keep you from coming here to get near my son, my toddler, but they reassured me that you weren't dangerous — just psychologically nuts.

I REPEAT:
FUCK YOU for your lack of cooperation, you mentally ill bitch. I posted NO LIBEL whatsoever (and no cruel harassment), and you posted despicable bestiality and exploitation of my 2 year old toddler and then you had the utter audacity to make fun of my father dying of cancer.

I will come to Massachusetts and personally file complaints with the officers I've been dealing with, and then I'll go a step past that if you keep up your lying and passive-aggressive nonsense. I don't care if you have a runny nose or the swine flu. 
You stop this game NOW. Boston wanted to prosecute you for HATE CRIMES. I will gladly come up there to make it happen and disregard your mental status completely.

You are mentally ill. I can confirm that. You did write and post those animal sex blogs. I can prove that. You did harass me. I can prove that. Stop trying to make yourself look good and make me look bad. I will sue you for libel and I will have the hate crime reinvestigated with the new IP's and I'll have you sent AWAY.

The agreement was for you to remove EVERYTHING, and in return, I'd keep you sane by deleting my entries. The officers never once said I did anything illegal. You though… remember anything? The officers went to your home. Don't lie to the damn public to save face. Just delete the entry on Friday, April 24, 2009 called "Back To Adoption" and get the fuck out of my life. AND NOW YOU'D HAVE TO DELETE YOUR ASININE RED CAPS TEXT THAT'S FULL OF YOU TRYING TO SAVE FACE WITH LIES!
STOP screwing around with me! I will get them to take your computer and search your stuff and then you'll be in so deep, you head will spin.
Leave me the hell alone, you crazy kook!
CEASE AND DESIST, crazy lady. And YES, you ARE CRAZY. FACT! Don't like it, TOO BAD. That's what people are called when they post libel about strangers they don't even know, libel about them having sex with cats, libel about their toddlers on sexually explicit websites, libel about people dying from horrible cancers, and when they post all this sick, deviant and depraved stuff and they laugh about it. They're called sick and crazy people.

STOP, CEASE AND DESIST or I AM COMING TO MA AND SUING YOU ON YOUR OWN TURF. Your phone records will be subpoenaed and the proof will not be deniable. You almost got away with it. This time you won't. I HOLD THE PROOF THAT POINTS TO YOU FOR ALL THE ABUSE AND LIBEL, AND THIS TIME, THE HATE CRIME AS WELL. I'll take that to BOSTON if I have to. With the undeniable proof I now hold, you cannot escape the charges that the Orleans PD would be able to back up due to your confession. The confession, the Comcast records, the dialup IP's from your location… you'd be in quite the pickle.
STOP NOW.

DELETE IT ALL, AND STOP. I've NEVER LIED ONCE. You've told nothing but lies and posted cruelty and hatred, including hate crimes. YOU remove that blog entry or I call Officer T. T. and you get another home visit, possibly the last before I come to MA to file complaints against you in person.

Can you do as you were told and STOP? Must I call the police again? Do you really want me to come to MA? I do not bluff.

p.s. Telling Kristina to not look at your public page is as stupid as if I were to tell your daughter to stop looking at mine. Which she just did for you again.

The Orleans, Massachusetts's Police DID VISIT The Improper Adoptee twice. She confessed to the officers of creating the sexually deviant bestiality blog AND she confessed to all the harassment and abuse. She confessed to the anonymous posts and the comments to herself. She confessed while balling her eyes out hysterically in front of the officer I spoke to. When he returned to the precinct, he called me and let me know what happened. She is totally unstable and I deleted the blog entries to get her to stop harassing ME. She refuses to listen to the police. When I am able to, I am going to have a new, third complaint filed and this time we'll have her phone records subpoenaed. This woman is a sick, mentally ill stalker who can't even obey police orders!

THIS LUNATIC BETTER STOP HER LIBELOUS HARASSMENT OR MY NEXT STOP IS:
Orleans Police Department
90 S. Orleans Road
Orleans, MA 02653
Phone: 508-255-0117
IN PERSON!!!
And Marilyn, STOP HAVING YOUR WEIRD DAUGHTER AND PALS COLLECT INFO ON ME FOR YOU. DO IT YOURSELF IF YOU ARE SO OBSESSED WITH ME.

I know what else you've been up to, so don't think you're little game is a secret. You're beyond insane and depraved. You're not even human. Heed the warning or face very serious consequences. I'm not playing your game, I'm serious as a heart attack. I'll drive up to Massachusetts ASAP and have you brought down to the police station in minutes of my arrival. Just keep it up. You have no idea what I will do to make sure you're punished to the fullest extent of the law.


This is from 07.08.2010:

My employer wants me to call the police on her again. They're sick and tired of her libel and want her reported to the Orleans, Massachusetts police as soon as possible. Every single person who has loaded up her blog to see if it is as bad as everyone says winds up saying, 
"Why the hell isn't this woman locked up?!" 
Someone who works in the computer/internet industry said,
"Jesus. How come you haven't sued this woman right off the internet yet?"

Massachusetts Madwoman: PLEASE, post PROOF. DO IT. Your overflowing toilet of a blog has NO credibility without PROOF. You write on your asinine blog that life is too short to waste on me, but you sit around doing nothing but spending hours changing your shitty layout, editing your horrible HTML and tying to convince people that you are the victim and I'm the bully, when it's so obvious that you're the insane stalker and I'm the one documenting your insanity and cyber-harassment and libel! Get a life, perverted, deviant freak! As for your obsessive mentions of Amy Burt; NO idea what that is really about, but if Amy has some issues, she should take them up herself, and not have you lying about her on your tabloid blog. Your blog isn't about adoption issues, it's about your mental issues. You're the unmedicated crazy that sits about thinking of me day-in, day-out, fabricating stories to try to save face for yourself. It's too late, crazy. You blew it. This blog has too many entries full of hard proof of your stalking obsession and bullying. Your words mean NOTHING. You mean NOTHING. YOU ARE NOTHING. Go cry, you big, old bitch. Oh, and keep telling that lie about how scared you are... no one is buying it. You're looking for an audience and guess what? You don't have one. Boo fucking hoo.




Uh-oh! Look who's caught LYING... it looks like YOU, Ms Improper! You're obviously jealous of me, obsessed, and oh my, I think I'm going to call the police as my employer has requested, because you're freaking me out with your obsession of me for too many years.






 Now this was sweet of you... telling off a young girl who was going through the hardest time in her entire life.














 You posted within minutes, from TWO profiles. OOPS!









 I'll post ALL your old shit, you crazy lunatic.

p.s. HOW DARE YOU claim you fight for animal liberation. You are not part of any group, you volunteer for no one and you do nothing for the cause. you are NOT fighting for animals' rights, you do NOT fight to liberate them. STOP LYING. You sit around and DO NOTHING. Stop embarrassing yourself by claiming you you are an animal liberation fighter. Don't LIE about serious issues! You should keep your mouth and fingers shut.

p.p.s. Remember how you said you KNOW I didn't have a baby, that I stole one? How the fuck did I manage to steal one that looks exactly like me? Hahahaha!!! You infertile, barren idiot! You're just jealous that I had a beautiful baby, and I was already 39! BWAAAHAHA!!!! He looks just like me, you just can't adopt your double, you fool. =D

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