Firstly, Vickie, I never attacked you in any manner.
Secondly, I never did anything to you that was done to hurt you in any way.
Yet you send me letters and seem to have a serious grudge against me.
I reached out to you, did you not get that message?
As I said on June 28th, 2011, I knew you'd sent letters to NYC, but I had no idea when I would be able to get them. I just received FOUR you sent to me, via him, by FEDEX. I only read the first one, and it was enough for now. I will read the others, but when I have time. when I feel I can handle your attacks and ramblings, which all make no sense because you accuse me of things that never happened, and you claim I did things to which I owe you an apology. I do not. I'll make it all very clear as soon as I can. Not tonight, it's almost 2:30am and I've worked all night after taking care of a preschooler earlier.
One thing that stood out immediately in your letter was that you claim I told you that The Improper Adoptee was not Marilyn McAboy, but then you saw on one of my blogs that I said she was, and is, Marilyn McAboy. Let m make this clear as possible, because I've never ben rude to you, attacked you or done anything wrong towards you. Your comments in the letters are all wrong. I don't even know what most of what you wrote is about. But I o know I've always been clear about who The Improper Adoptee is. The Improper Adoptee is Marilyn McAboy. She was formerly known as Stepford Child, and in some forums, Burned. I have never contradicted myself about these facts.
As for your being upset about my posting the map: back then—quite a while ago—you were stalking my blog daily, sometimes a few times a day. I had NO IDEA who it was, who you were, so I thought if I said "Hello!" in a different way, it would bring you out of hiding. If you read all I've ever written, you'd know then that I did once ask "who is in Indiana, always reading?" You didn't respond.
I gave you my Gmail email address. you say you used it, and in your letters, you say you're going to email me. Well, that was late June, and no, I received no email(s) at my Gmail account.
I never lied to you, or betrayed you. Why did you write such a nasty, berating, negative letter?
And by the way... people do change. Amy Burt is not doing adoption stuff at this time. Someone is probably pretending to be her, possibly Marilyn McAboy, who is angry, furious and very off the wall about Amy breaking their ties, their "friendship," because The Improper Adoptee/Marilyn McAboy was blogging about Amy and Amy's family, and Amy asked her to stop, nicely, many times. I was not good for her young daughters. Marilyn refused. The Improper Adoptee had pretended to be Amy's friend for years, and still does by the BS on her blogs that refer to Amy and Amy's life, but Marilyn McAboy has stabbed Amy in the back, and does not care at all. She cares nothing for the lives of the children, probably doesn't really care about anyone's children, as long as she gets her way and gets to libel, bash and post defamatory crap about other people, even if it will hurt the children in one way or another. She did it to me; to a toddler who wasn't even walking yet. She'd find nothing wrong with doing it to two young growing girls who need stability now, not chaos. I'm sorry, but you are very wrong.
Try being nice and maybe the truth will come through. Your letter I read, and as I said before, I only read one, the first one of four, was mean, cruel, full of wrong information, and I can go on with adjectives, but why bother? you took my words and read into them what you wanted to. You've already decided I am not nice, caring, kind or compassionate. You're sadly WRONG. You wrote lies to me about things that either never happened between us, or that you think did...I have no idea. But if you had contacted me properly, I'd not just be getting to this in October. You are just really WRONG about TOO MANY THINGS you wrote in "letter #1"—or is it actually 4 by now, and the rest are 5,6 and 7?
You say I don't know you, but you've not realized at all how I've tried to know you. you write riddles and little side-notes that point fingers, and it all confuses me because I am not in the world of adoption, so the references make no sense to me, the accusations fly over my head. I don't know the names, the forums, the on-goings. I can guess, from reading part of your letter, that someone is pretending to be someone they are not, and it's causing problems. But again, I'm not in the forum or list and can't give a good profiling without first-hand knowledge. I'd need to be in there myself to evaluate it and give feedback that was honest, with all the users, a timeline, and hours studying use of words. It takes time. I don't have the luxury of that time to divide from my own activism, but more importantly, from my dear son. What time I have, he comes first. Then comes my own passion for what I do activism for. After that, there's barely time for me to try to do my freelance...at 3am in the morning. Do you understand what I am saying?
You need a better approach to writing, to communicating with me, or we cannot ever clear up whatever it is you think is going on. You can write to him in NYC forever. I might never get them for a year next time. You need to contact me as I said. Directly. And no, I don't meet strangers in the city, or anyplace. I don't even have the cash to go into the city, to get to the city. You obviously think many things about me that are far off-base. You think a New York born and bred woman who visited museums and was in special classes for gifted talent would not be "cultured?" You think I am not educated, but I told you, I took my first college course while still in 12th grade. I then went to college for 5 years, matriculated, because I took two majors. I spent another two years going to college and working in advertising AT THE SAME TIME, in New York City. I think you have me confused with someone else. Either that, or you just want to make me think you don't realize who I am.
A highly sensitive person.
An animal lover, an animal rights activist.
A selfless person that helps others even when I shouldn't be because it might mean I'm giving up my food shopping for myself for a week, or it may mean I'm risking something by helping another...but I do it because I care. If I only have 2 dollars in loose change on me and a stranger in short some change to buy the one meal of their day, I give them my change I can spare.
I follow the "Pay it Forward" way of thinking.
I am so sensitive, so full of empathy, I have a physical response.
I am "The Helper" in a test you can find online and in books. Google it.
You don't know me at all.
I will read the other letters when I can. I am very busy with my son, a family crisis and a freelance project this week. I don't have the luxury of just pushing it all aside and spending hours on these letters, deciphering them, and then responding...and responding via a public blog because you refuse to give me a way to respond to you in private. Then you get angry that I post public. Do something to change that or you leave me no other means of communication. It's not my fault I can't privately contact you. You choose to remain secret.
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Firstly, Vickie, I never attacked you in any manner.
Truthfully accounted by spookie at Wednesday, October 05, 2011
Saturday, July 2, 2011
Please tell the nutter that coming to this blog repeatedly and ONLY reading the entry from June 19th 2010 won't answer her asinine and deluded questions. She needs to read entries from past July 2010 and much more importantly, 2011.
The nut case is still stalking me, yet refuses to read the answers to her harassing crap. She also spends 3 minutes a shot, so she only picks what she wants to, then runs off like the little child she is. I want this insane, disturbed bitch out of my life! If I posted the KEYWORDS this freak uses, you'd all be appalled. She is a bigot, a racist, she hates Jews and Christians—she hates just about everyone. Sometimes her keywording is just immature and child-like, such as "stupid spookie is a loser." A woman over 50 is actually typing that into a search engine... yes, seriously.
Whoever knows her, even someone on Nickerson Road in Orleans, MA, just tell this crazy woman to MOVE ON WITH LIFE!!!
Marilyn McAboy, living on Nickerson... in Orleans, MA: Leave me the hell alone, or I will join forces with Amy to take down your disgusting blog of HATE.
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
I'm told two postal letters are in the city, with my name on them. You sent them to a friend, and I have no idea when I will be able to get the letters. Can you please email me privately? I have no idea what the letters are about. Thanks V.
Truthfully accounted by spookie at Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
It's time you pull up your big girl panties and grow up, Marilyn. You've alienated all your friends, including those you had online—including the very last one, Amy. Amy sent you an email and told you she was done with you, and she warned you what would happen if you did not remove the garbage you have on your blog pertaining to her and her family. Did you ignore Amy just like you ignore everyone else? I'm sure you did, so I suggest to you, Marilyn McAboy, to go back to you little email inbox and read Amy's email and take it seriously. Amy doesn't deserve one bit of what you've dished out to her.
As for this load of CRAP you still have on your pathetic "blog," all I can say is you are one hell of a deluded woman. You keep a blog entry dated March 17, 2010 and you update it numerous times per year since, included many times in 2011. What a nut case that makes you. You pretend to have left "Blogger" yet you keep editing the same psycho-babble over and over again. You're a freak.
You lie, you tell deluded stories, you are the most dramatic attention whore. Everyone is sick of you.
And by the way, you idiot, I didn't call the police because you called me a hacker (are you 12, you immature fool?!?), I called because you are a deviant and a mentally ill stalker, a cyberbully who can't control herself and was told long ago to stop it, but never did. As a FAVOR TO YOU, I took this entire blog down, but you had no self-control over your urges to harass and bully me, and you continued your online abuse towards me and you still to to this very day. You don't even read, which is why you just repeat yourself like a deluded fool. All your asinine BS listed off in your entry below was answered for you oh-so-long ago, but you are so wrapped up in your little world called "ME! ME! ME!" (ATTENTION WHORE) that you can't bother to read it.
Grow up and SHUT UP, you twisted, miserable, lonely and cold, bitter bitch.
I'm NOT sorry that I have friends, a life, hobbies, a fabulously awesome son, family and I grew up with the best Mom and Dad anyone could ask for. I was the first of three, and we were loved to bits! Every school break, we were taken on vacations, in a private plane no less! My grandfather was a pilot and owned a plane he kept locally, a plane I'd been in since I was 6 months old. (And yes Marilyn, I grew up with all 4 of my grandparents, too) My maternal grandparents had a summer home in south Florida. I loved swimming with fish, diving and windsurfing for many years. Yes, Marilyn, I had a great childhood, and no, I am not sorry about it. I will rub it in your face and smile as I do so. I went to Florida all the time. I went to Disney World so many times, we all decided to start skipping it until it changed. When we didn't fly, we drove, and stopped at Busch Gardens and other sites, like Williamsburgh, VA and Ocean City, MD. Virginia Beach, Sanibel Island, and I can go on and on! I was scuba diving as a teenager, a certified lifeguard and visiting islands in the Bahamas. Always shy and quiet, I was a good student and exceptional in the arts, never in trouble. I stayed away from sports even though I could play baseball as good or better than some of the boys on my block. I skated, I took long bike rides with my Dad, and I took 4 years of traditional karate right before college.
Now that I have my own family, I am teaching my awesome and handsome son everything possible. He's bright, compassionate and has a great sense of humor. He loves to learn, to be with family and he loves animals. He's a vegetarian. He loves to read books, do math, play outside and grow things in the garden. He likes to talk about animals, the ocean, space and most of all, his family.
Can you stop obsessing over your deluded and twisted lies about me now? I know, you can't. Well, it would be in YOUR best interest to remove a lot of your garbage, because I'm not the only one who is sick and tired of your crap, you sick, creepy old hag.
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 9, 2010
If you do NOT remove all your HARASSMENT, I'm posting your adoption info I found on the internet. Oh, and some details about you, your homophobia, your ex and... you catching on yet?
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
I'M BEING CYBERSTALKED BY A DELUSIONAL PSYCHOPATH.: "Well it's June 19th..." and You're Still a Libelous Stalking FREAK.
Truthfully accounted by spookie at Wednesday, June 01, 2011
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
I could care less. Anyone else, sure, I care, and would help them, but you? Fuck you and fuck your poor, pathetic adopted ass. I hope you were tossed away like trash. Happy now? Is that what you wanted? I hope it's what you've been looking for, for what, three fucking years, you psychobitch? I DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HUMAN ADOPTION TO THIS EXTENT, YOU LOSER. I'm an animal rights activist, you fucking fool! Animal adoption, GET IT? No, you don't, because YOU ARE THE TOWN CRAZY, just like the officers told me back when they had to go to your house to tell you to CUT THE CRAP.
This woman is mentally ill, and the police in her local area basically said so. She was told to cut it out, and she did, for a while. She obviously has no self control. She hates herself. She hates Christians and Jews. She hates gays. She hates people of color. She hates authority. She victimizes everyone she can. She lives to hate.
Look how this woman sees herself. Look how deluded this woman is.
She suffers from a few disorders, one is obviously a psychotic disorder, another is a personality disorder. She is hateful, vengeful, and never kind and compassionate. She knows no boundaries.
Email contact is on the Blogger Profile.
|Marilyn, it was April 7th 2011, not March 2010. Stop being a freak and make a new blog entry—you're fooling NO ONE.|
Marilyn, updating the old blog entry doesn't mean you aren't blogging. Idiot. And p.s. try leaving Amy alone. Your emails, like the one your titled "Judas" to her? She deleted them UNREAD. You were no friend to her. You were and always will be nothing but a selfish, self-hating loser. You've wasted your entire life in misery, hate and pity. Boo hoo. Now you're old, alone and nothing. You're jealous, too. You're lealous of me and you're jealous of Amy. The laughs are on you. Ha ha ha!
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
You're the reason there are trolls, "Kat." If not for you, trolls never would've come to be. It's a fact. You're so miserable, and trolls feed on your negative energy.