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Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Vickie. You Need to Email Me Privately. This is Getting Ludicrous.

Firstly, Vickie, I never attacked you in any manner. 
Secondly, I never did anything to you that was done to hurt you in any way. 
Yet you send me letters and seem to have a serious grudge against me.
I reached out to you, did you not get that message? 

As I said on June 28th, 2011, I knew you'd sent letters to NYC, but I had no idea when I would be able to get them. I just received FOUR you sent to me, via him, by FEDEX. I only read the first one, and it was enough for now. I will read the others, but when I have time. when I feel I can handle your attacks and ramblings, which all make no sense because you accuse me of things that never happened, and you claim I did things to which I owe you an apology. I do not. I'll make it all very clear as soon as I can. Not tonight, it's almost 2:30am and I've worked all night after taking care of a preschooler earlier.

One thing that stood out immediately in your letter was that you claim I told you that The Improper Adoptee was not Marilyn McAboy, but then you saw on one of my blogs that I said she was, and is, Marilyn McAboy. Let m make this clear as possible, because I've never ben rude to you, attacked you or done anything wrong towards you. Your comments in the letters are all wrong. I don't even know what most of what you wrote is about. But I o know I've always been clear about who The Improper Adoptee is. The Improper Adoptee is Marilyn McAboy. She was formerly known as Stepford Child, and in some forums, Burned. I have never contradicted myself about these facts.

As for your being upset about my posting the map: back then—quite a while ago—you were stalking my blog daily, sometimes a few times a day. I had NO IDEA who it was, who you were, so I thought if I said "Hello!" in a different way, it would bring you out of hiding. If you read all I've ever written, you'd know then that I did once ask "who is in Indiana, always reading?" You didn't respond.

I gave you my Gmail email address. you say you used it, and in your letters, you say you're going to email me. Well, that was late June, and no, I received no email(s) at my Gmail account.

I never lied to you, or betrayed you. Why did you write such a nasty, berating, negative letter?

And by the way... people do change. Amy Burt is not doing adoption stuff at this time. Someone is probably pretending to be her, possibly Marilyn McAboy, who is angry, furious and very off the wall about Amy breaking their ties, their "friendship," because The Improper Adoptee/Marilyn McAboy was blogging about Amy and Amy's family, and Amy asked her to stop, nicely, many times. I was not good for her young daughters. Marilyn refused. The Improper Adoptee had pretended to be Amy's friend for years, and still does by the BS on her blogs that refer to Amy and Amy's life, but Marilyn McAboy has stabbed Amy in the back, and does not care at all. She cares nothing for the lives of the children, probably doesn't really care about anyone's children, as long as she gets her way and gets to libel, bash and post defamatory crap about other people, even if it will hurt the children in one way or another. She did it to me; to a toddler who wasn't even walking yet. She'd find nothing wrong with doing it to two young growing girls who need stability now, not chaos. I'm sorry, but you are very wrong.

Try being nice and maybe the truth will come through. Your letter I read, and as I said before, I only read one, the first one of four, was mean, cruel, full of wrong information, and I can go on with adjectives, but why bother? you took my words and read into them what you wanted to. You've already decided I am not nice, caring, kind or compassionate. You're sadly WRONG. You wrote lies to me about things that either never happened between us, or that you think did...I have no idea. But if you had contacted me properly, I'd not just be getting to this in October. You are just really WRONG about TOO MANY THINGS you wrote in "letter #1"—or is it actually 4 by now, and the rest are 5,6 and 7?

You say I don't know you, but you've not realized at all how I've tried to know you. you write riddles and little side-notes that point fingers, and it all confuses me because I am not in the world of adoption, so the references make no sense to me, the accusations fly over my head. I don't know the names, the forums, the on-goings. I can guess, from reading part of your letter, that someone is pretending to be someone they are not, and it's causing problems. But again, I'm not in the forum or list and can't give a good profiling without first-hand knowledge. I'd need to be in there myself to evaluate it and give feedback that was honest, with all the users, a timeline, and hours studying use of words. It takes time. I don't have the luxury of that time to divide from my own activism, but more importantly, from my dear son. What time I have, he comes first. Then comes my own passion for what I do activism for. After that, there's barely time for me to try to do my freelance...at 3am in the morning. Do you understand what I am saying?

You need a better approach to writing, to communicating with me, or we cannot ever clear up whatever it is you think is going on. You can write to him in NYC forever. I might never get them for a year next time. You need to contact me as I said. Directly. And no, I don't meet strangers in the city, or anyplace. I don't even have the cash to go into the city, to get to the city. You obviously think many things about me that are far off-base. You think a New York born and bred woman who visited museums and was in special classes for gifted talent would not be "cultured?" You think I am not educated, but I told you, I took my first college course while still in 12th grade. I then went to college for  5 years, matriculated, because I took two majors. I spent another two years going to college and working in advertising AT THE SAME TIME, in New York City. I think you have me confused with someone else. Either that, or you just want to make me think you don't realize who I am.

A mother.


A highly sensitive person.


An animal lover, an animal rights activist.


A selfless person that helps others even when I shouldn't be because it might mean I'm giving up my food shopping for myself for a week, or it may mean I'm risking something by helping another...but I do it because I care. If I only have 2 dollars in loose change on me and a stranger in short some change to buy the one meal of their day, I give them my change I can spare.


I follow the "Pay it Forward" way of thinking. 


I am so sensitive, so full of empathy, I have a physical response. 


I am "The Helper" in a test you can find online and in books. Google it.


You don't know me at all. 

I will read the other letters when I can. I am very busy with my son, a family crisis and a freelance project this week. I don't have the luxury of just pushing it all aside and spending hours on these letters, deciphering them, and then responding...and responding via a public blog because you refuse to give me a way to respond to you in private. Then you get angry that I post public. Do something to change that or you leave me no other means of communication. It's not my fault I can't privately contact you. You choose to remain secret.


TUESDAY, JUNE 28, 2011

Message for V.

I'm told two postal letters are in the city, with my name on them. You sent them to a friend, and I have no idea when I will be able to get the letters. Can you please email me privately? I have no idea what the letters are about. Thanks V.

spookie.cat
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Saturday, July 2, 2011

If The Improper Adoptee aka Marilyn McAboy Has ANY Friends Left...

Please tell the nutter that coming to this blog repeatedly and ONLY reading the entry from June 19th 2010 won't answer her asinine and deluded questions. She needs to read entries from past July 2010 and much more importantly, 2011.

The nut case is still stalking me, yet refuses to read the answers to her harassing crap. She also spends 3 minutes a shot, so she only picks what she wants to, then runs off like the little child she is. I want this insane, disturbed bitch out of my life! If I posted the KEYWORDS this freak uses, you'd all be appalled. She is a bigot, a racist, she hates Jews and Christians—she hates just about everyone. Sometimes her keywording is just immature and child-like, such as "stupid spookie is a loser." A woman over 50 is actually typing that into a search engine... yes, seriously.

Whoever knows her, even someone on Nickerson Road in Orleans, MA, just tell this crazy woman to MOVE ON WITH LIFE!!!

Marilyn McAboy, living on Nickerson... in Orleans, MA: Leave me the hell alone, or I will join forces with Amy to take down your disgusting blog of HATE.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Message for V.

I'm told two postal letters are in the city, with my name on them. You sent them to a friend, and I have no idea when I will be able to get the letters. Can you please email me privately? I have no idea what the letters are about. Thanks V.

spookie.cat
@
gmail

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Grow Up, Marilyn.

It's time you pull up your big girl panties and grow up, Marilyn. You've alienated all your friends, including those you had online—including the very last one, Amy. Amy sent you an email and told you she was done with you, and she warned you what would happen if you did not remove the garbage you have on your blog pertaining to her and her family. Did you ignore Amy just like you ignore everyone else? I'm sure you did, so I suggest to you, Marilyn McAboy, to go back to you little email inbox and read Amy's email and take it seriously. Amy doesn't deserve one bit of what you've dished out to her.

As for this load of CRAP you still have on your pathetic "blog," all I can say is you are one hell of a deluded woman. You keep a blog entry dated March 17, 2010 and you update it numerous times per year since, included many times in 2011. What a nut case that makes you. You pretend to have left "Blogger" yet you keep editing the same psycho-babble over and over again. You're a freak.

You lie, you tell deluded stories, you are the most dramatic attention whore. Everyone is sick of you.
And by the way, you idiot, I didn't call the police because you called me a hacker (are you 12, you immature fool?!?), I called because you are a deviant and a mentally ill stalker, a cyberbully who can't control herself and was told long ago to stop it, but never did. As a FAVOR TO YOU, I took this entire blog down, but you had no self-control over your urges to harass and bully me, and you continued your online abuse towards me and you still to to this very day. You don't even read, which is why you just repeat yourself like a deluded fool. All your asinine BS listed off in your entry below was answered for you oh-so-long ago, but you are so wrapped up in your little world called "ME! ME! ME!" (ATTENTION WHORE) that you can't bother to read it.

Grow up and SHUT UP, you twisted, miserable, lonely and cold, bitter bitch.

I'm NOT sorry that I have friends, a life, hobbies, a fabulously awesome son, family and I grew up with the best Mom and Dad anyone could ask for. I was the first of three, and we were loved to bits! Every school break, we were taken on vacations, in a private plane no less! My grandfather was a pilot and owned a plane he kept locally, a plane I'd been in since I was 6 months old. (And yes Marilyn, I grew up with all 4 of my grandparents, too) My maternal grandparents had a summer home in south Florida. I loved swimming with fish, diving and windsurfing for many years. Yes, Marilyn, I had a great childhood, and no, I am not sorry about it. I will rub it in your face and smile as I do so. I went to Florida all the time. I went to Disney World so many times, we all decided to start skipping it until it changed. When we didn't fly, we drove, and stopped at Busch Gardens and other sites, like Williamsburgh, VA and Ocean City, MD. Virginia Beach, Sanibel Island, and I can go on and on! I was scuba diving as a teenager, a certified lifeguard and visiting islands in the Bahamas. Always shy and quiet, I was a good student and exceptional in the arts, never in trouble. I stayed away from sports even though I could play baseball as good or better than some of the boys on my block. I skated, I took long bike rides with my Dad, and I took 4 years of traditional karate right before college.

Now that I have my own family, I am teaching my awesome and handsome son everything possible. He's bright, compassionate and has a great sense of humor. He loves to learn, to be with family and he loves animals. He's a vegetarian. He loves to read books, do math, play outside and grow things in the garden. He likes to talk about animals, the ocean, space and most of all, his family.

Can you stop obsessing over your deluded and twisted lies about me now? I know, you can't. Well, it would be in YOUR best interest to remove a lot of your garbage, because I'm not the only one who is sick and tired of your crap, you sick, creepy old hag.






BTW you crabby and miserable bitch. AMY IS MY FRIEND. I happen to care very much about Amy and her welfare. You are putting Amy in a position she shouldn't even have to be in where you are concerned. You know nothing about her or her personal life. How dare you disrespect her. 

Get over your 2008 Trader Joe's Myspace post. You're not even vegan, and no one even knows if you're vegetarian. For all we all know, you eat fish, or you wear wool or leather. How would anyone know, right? All you do is hide, so you might be sitting there right now chowing down a veggie burger with cheese with a side of green beans with bacon bits. Get my point? Anyway, no time really for you, cupcake. I'm a militant vegan bitch who is sooooo not an abolitionist vegan, but quite the opposite. 

I'm posting the following in response to your constant blatant ignorance. Pay attention.


TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 9, 2010


10 FACTS as Opposed to 10 LIES:

10 Truthful Replies to Her 10 Retarded Comments.

If You're "Leaving Blogger," Why Do You Keep Editing Your Page? Yeah, you're leaving. Sure. You just keep changing and adding to the same March 17th blog entry. How asinine.
Idiot, I've already proven all the points you attempted to highlight below, but I'll do it again, just because you're so darned special. Special like a flesh-eating virus.

By the way, Steppy-Poo, also know as Improper Adoptee; do you remember when you went around using the nickname "Burned?" Yes indeed, that was you. You used it on the AAAFC forum and you were booted off there for your behavior. FACT. That was long before you began harassing me, cupcake.

You are also being reported for continuing to use my images without permission. This will include images I can still access on your Blogger server/Picasa Webs. You are in Iinfringement in accordance with the Digital Millennium Copyright Act ("DMCA") Each image will be reported separately for copyright infringement. You can clearly see on all my pages that you of all people are not allowed to use my photos. You're screwed on this one, loony, unless you remove all of them before they get the reports. 

The Improper Adoptee penned a blog exploiting my son, who at the time was a toddler. She posted photos and wrote disgusting things about him. If it were not for the Orleans, PD, the blog might still be up, and Marilyn would still be joyfully exploiting my son with sexual deviancy and disgusting pornographic content. Publicly. With no remorse or care. The woman is SICK and EVIL.



The 10 FACTS — JUST YOU WAIT, McNUTBAR!
I'm going to post FACTS, unlike you and your harassing libel, you motherfucking abusive lunatic! FACTS with PROOF, you crazy unmedicated psycho.

p.s. It's flattering...NOT! that you COPY all my lingo, my wording, that I use here and you now use it on your blog you keep claiming you're not going to use anymore. I've noticed all the "fresh, new words" you've learned from me. It makes me gag. You're completely uneducated. You are a total idiot on the computer, and you have lousy grammar and spelling. GO back to school, volunteer for good causes and stop harassing me and other good people. Asshole.

10 FACTS as Opposed to 10 LIES:

1. YES, I have. I discuss it in a few blog entries and I specifically make note that your blog and it's harassment was started long before that group was. I also mention that I did NOT create the group, but I did participate in it. It was created many, many months after you had already posted numerous libelous blog entries about me and other users on MySpace that you decided were trolls, bullies or evil.

2. YES, I have. I've posted my original, first email to you many times over and over, and included your reply, which you sign "Love Step." I had no idea back then that you'd even think for one moment that I'd make up a story about an adopted person. I had no idea you were a mean, cruel and bullying person with severe mental problems. I was being sincere, honest and nice. I helped you many times. You told the police, who I called and filed complaint against you, that you did all "this stuff to me" because "I hurt your feelings" when I wrote to you about Anne. To this very day, you still think Anne is fictional. How pathetic. I just reposted our original correspondence for your viewing pleasure. You know it's unedited because it is the exact same message as you have "burned to CD" from two years ago, right?

3. I didn't owe you an apology. I told you that I wasn't making fun of your post. I said so right after you flew off the handle. I didn't even really comment on your rambling topic post. I said 3-4 words. You went BALLISTIC. Here you are, psychotic batty woman:

spookie


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Posted: Jun 7, 2008 9:15 AM 

Mittens [the Cat] wrote:


"...but SoDelicious has something for everbody, including poor abused dairy cows."



WTF! haha. Ooooh-kay.



StepFordChild wrote:

If you really cared about animal rights, you’d know what I meant. Vegans do. When you attack people trying to reduce the purchases of dairy products to help the animals, like you attacked me, you make yourself look like an immature 7th grade bully, disturbed, selfish and mean. Not good characteristics to fight the war on animal abuse...



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"What the hell are you talking about? The post above is not an attack.

BTW, people in glass houses should not throw stones.

Remember,the bully is the one who violated TOS and had her profile deleted. That was you. The one who spews cruel libelous tales. Now calm yourself down. Your post was just not fully understood — like how "SoDelicious has something for everybody, including poor abused dairy cows." What does SoDelicious have for dairy cows?!? And don’t tell me about vegans,vegetarians or AR/AA people. You are not the only person in the worldon the side of animals, TYVM". 
I clearly stated it was NOT an attack, but that your wording was misunderstood. If you cannot take a joke and then explain what you meant, you shouldn't post on any public forum.

4. Make clear what on earth you're babbling about. At you talking about my standing up for myself after you posted libel about me? How about that topic you made called "SPOOKIE IS A POSER" where you went off like an out of control fire? *I* was always sticking up for you, for months, and asking MySpace to delete topics that users made about you, and then you turned on me. When I became moderator, you really went nuts. All of that is your fault, not mine. You became everyone's enemy. You know as well as I do that I simply suggested you make two profiles. I even said that you had a lot of good things to say, to post, but it was getting lost in the chaos caused by the craziness on the forum/group. I was NOT in any way rude or mean to you. You were obviously paranoid and delusional. I'm sorry I thought you might be a nice person. My bad.

5. Fight back? Lying and posting horrible bulletins about me is "fighting back?" That's a load of crap. You violated Terms of Service as per MySpace and were deleted. I have the email from Myspace confirming their review of your online behavior and their decision to remove you posted here many times. You were angry that all of us, me included, reported you and your profile was deleted, and when you returned and violated TOS again, you were deleted again. You were not fighting back — you were bullying us and making up cruel, hideous lies to hurt and abuse us. You were spreading defamatory stories about me and my son, and claiming that I abuse animals. Yes, I reported you and had you deleted. You weren't fighting back. you were a cyberbully, and all the adoptees in 3-4 adoptee groups agreed.

6. Moot.






7. I didn't "pick on" your "friends." Your friend Amy Burt decided to get involved, though, stand up for you (and it's all water under the bridge now). All I did was send each one anemail explaining what you were doing to me. They didn't want to believe me. End of story. Amy, though, decided to attack. Amy blogged about me, yes, and I blogged back. Amy believed you, Marilyn. Why wouldn't she? She knows you. Things have changed, lady. I don't think Amy has seen your blog lately, nor do I think she'd approve of your blog currently. Turn your comments on, let people contact you, stop hiding... and listen up. Stop mentioning Amy. Everything you say on your blog concerning Amy and me is a BIG LIE.

8. You were not set up. In fact, I can post JPG's and PDF's for download of you bashing Christians — on Myspace, on other people's blogs — and you stating that you cannot stand the church and their "baby stealing." Don't go there. You'll only make a fool of yourself even more so.

9. This comment of yours is ridiculous and a complete fabricated lie. Who are these people you speak of? This is just a paranoid, unstable-minded comment made by you which only proves further that you need help. I don't know what you're even talking about. It's crazy-talk.

10. Utter nonsense. Libel. Abusive lies. No one has ever complained about me. You just pull insanity out of your ass. My reputation online in impeccable. I'm known in the ARA community and in other circles. I'm known to be kind, caring and trustworthy. People have seen your blog and they blow it off with a laugh. No one believes you. I want it down, as does my employer, because it's libel, it's abusive and it's harmful. That's why my employer is taking legal action against you. No, I'm not kidding. I'm not even involved this time. I have a position where I work ON THE INTERNET. They want you OFF IT because you're a libel-spewing stalker who is harassing me, and you upset my work. You're done, lady.




STOP HARASSING ME IN ANY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM.
I will NOT ask you again.




If you do NOT remove all your HARASSMENT, I'm posting your adoption info I found on the internet. Oh, and some details about you, your homophobia, your ex and... you catching on yet?


Wednesday, June 1, 2011

I'M BEING CYBERSTALKED BY A DELUSIONAL PSYCHOPATH.: "Well it's June 19th..." and You're Still a Libelous Stalking FREAK.

I'M BEING CYBERSTALKED BY A DELUSIONAL PSYCHOPATH.: "Well it's June 19th..." and You're Still a Libelous Stalking FREAK.


Hey Homo-bashing Kat, remember this, a year ago? Get with it, you LOSER.

Get off your high horse. Oh, and stop the hate on lesbians.

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Cyberbullies like Marilyn McAboy Should be Mandated to Get Mental Help.

Seriously Marilyn, FUCK YOUR ADOPTION
I could care less. Anyone else, sure, I care, and would help them, but you? Fuck you and fuck your poor, pathetic adopted ass. I hope you were tossed away like trash. Happy now? Is that what you wanted? I hope it's what you've been looking for, for what, three fucking years, you psychobitch? I DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT HUMAN ADOPTION TO THIS EXTENT, YOU LOSER. I'm an animal rights activist, you fucking fool! Animal adoption, GET IT? No, you don't, because YOU ARE THE TOWN CRAZY, just like the officers told me back when they had to go to your house to tell you to CUT THE CRAP.

Cyberbullies Come in All Shapes and Sizes.

Is The Improper Adoptee harassing YOU? She is mentally ill and will NEVER STOP. People like this should be forced to get help, to go to therapy and if needed, to be medicated. This woman is sick. I've not said a word about her or to her since February '10, and I only did back in February because she was still blogging about me, libeling me, posting her defamatory, derogatory crap to harass and abuse me via the internet. I stopped documenting this psychotic woman's abuse after I reported her to the Orleans, MA police. I've only posted blog entries when she has "updated" her March 2010 blog entry full of harassment towards me, and now it contains abusive content towards Amy Burt as well. It is not only hurtful and abusive towards Amy, but it puts Amy's children, both underage, in direct harm. That is selfish of Marilyn McAboy; to put children on the internet once again for her own self gain and attention whoring. Never should Marilyn put anyone's child on her blog, but she felt no remorse in putting my son on hers, when he was just a baby and and then as a toddler—and she included photos no less! Now she is exploting Amy's daughters, two girls who have enough going on in their lives than to have to possibly find out at school that someone Googled their mother's name and found out that a woman full of rage and hate blogged about their Mom and their Dad, and mentioned them in the blog. How wrong and how sad. Why kind of woman, a woman who is a mother herself, would abuse innocent children? The same woman who hates everyone in the world.

This woman is mentally ill, and the police in her local area basically said so. She was told to cut it out, and she did, for a while. She obviously has no self control. She hates herself. She hates Christians and Jews. She hates gays. She hates people of color. She hates authority. She victimizes everyone she can. She lives to hate.

Look how this woman sees herself. Look how deluded this woman is.


She suffers from a few disorders, one is obviously a psychotic disorder, another is a personality disorder. She is hateful, vengeful, and never kind and compassionate. She knows no boundaries.



Marilyn, or is it Kat? I hear you lost EVERY ONLINE FRIEND YOU HAD. Gee, I wonder why. Because you're a nut, possibly? A pushy, selfish nut?

If Vicki (Vickie? I forgot how you spell it, sorry. I can't find your signature in the letters you sent to my friend in the city) should read this, it would be nice if she did everyone a huge favor and made it clear that she is not me. 

Vickie, this mental case called Improper Adoptee seems to think I am you, and as we all know, you are you! Would you please, somehow, contact this deluded bullying creep and let her know that you and I are two different people? Here's her emails, well, the last ones I have for her. This lunatic changes her emails and phone number all the time, because she is a paranoid delusional. I kid you not. She changes these things more than her underwear. :D

kat252@hotmail.com (Verified as Deactivated)

marilynmcaboy@hotmail.com (Verified as Deactivated)

READERS: Is this woman harassing you in any way? Contact us at this blog. She's harassing me, Amy and others. We want to hear your story. 

You can contact us anonymously. Set up a new email account if you would like to remain anonymous. This woman is relentless. She never stops. Tell your story.

Email contact is on the Blogger Profile.


Marilyn, it was April 7th 2011, not March 2010. Stop being a freak and make a new blog entry—you're fooling NO ONE.




Marilyn, updating the old blog entry doesn't mean you aren't blogging. Idiot. And p.s. try leaving Amy alone. Your emails, like the one your titled "Judas" to her? She deleted them UNREAD. You were no friend to her. You were and always will be nothing but a selfish, self-hating loser. You've wasted your entire life in misery, hate and pity. Boo hoo. Now you're old, alone and nothing. You're jealous, too. You're lealous of me and you're jealous of Amy. The laughs are on you. Ha ha ha!

Wednesday, March 17, 2010


I'm Leaving Blogger......

****LAST RECENT UPDATE****(UNLESS SPOOKIE MAKES UP MORE NEW LIES ABOUT ME)
(ALL UPDATE REMARKS ARE IN RESPONSE TO SPOOKIE'S CONTINIOUS CYBERBULLYING AND LIBELOUS POSTS ABOUT ME THAT SHE REFUSES TO STOP WRITING).

WELL IT IS April 7th, 2011, WELL OVER A YEAR SINCE SPOOKIE FIRST STARTED LYING ABOUT ME GETTING VISTIS FROM THE POLICE WHICH NEVER HAPPENED AND HOW SHE WOULD HAVE ME THROWN IN JAIL FOR CALLING HER A HACKER, WHICH NEVER HAPPENED EITHER. (OF COURSE, LOL. CAN ANYONE SAY BEYOND IMMATURE, BRAZEN, LOUDMOUTH, BULLY DRAMA QUEEN? SPOOKIE WAS BORN A LOSER, AND SHE WILL ALWAYS BE A LOSER. THAT IS ALL SHE IS CAPABLE OF BEING. THE POOR PSYCHOTIC TWIT. HER LATEST VICTIM, A WOMAN NAMED LISA WHO SPOOKIE NEVER MET IS BEING TORTURED BY HER NOW. THIS IS HOW SPOOKIE OPERATES. SHE JUST RANDOMLY CYBERTORMENTS PEOPLE WHO OTHERS DISLIKE, EVEN THOUGH THEY DID NOTHING TO HER. JUST LIKE SHE HAS LIED TO AMY AND PUTS ON THIS BIG ACT THAT SHE IS HER FRIEND AND WILL HELP HER DESTROY THIS WOMAN WHO IS SEEING HER EX-HUSBAND. I DO FEEL SORRY FOR AMY THAT HER MARRIAGE DIDN'T WORK OUT, BUT IF I WAS GETTING A DIVORCE, I WOULDN'T TALK ABOUT IT ON THE INTERNET. I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS SAID THAT TO AMY. I WOULDN'T CUT DOWN JUDGES ONLINE EITHER. YOU NEVER KNOW WHO IS FRIENDS WITH WHO IN THIS WORLD.... AND PERSONALLY I HOPE LISA SUES SPOOKIE FROM HERE TO HELL FOR CYBERABUSING HER SO BADLY. SHE WOULD WIN TOO. WHAT AMY'S EX-HUSBAND DID OR DID NOT DO, I DON'T WANT ANY INVOLVEMENT IN, NOR WILL I STATE AN OPINION ON, BUT IT ISN'T LISA'S FAULT DON'S MARRIAGE ENDED AND SHE DOESN'T DESERVE TO BE VERBALLY EXECUTED BY SPOOKIE. THIS IS WHY EVERYONE SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM THIS INFANTILE PERSON. SHE IS JUST A BIG MOUTH, NOSY, TABLOID IN HUMAN FORM WITH NO CLASS WHAT SO EVER. SINCE IT HAS BEEN A YEAR SINCE SHE TOLD TALL TALES ABOUT ME, I WILL STOP UPDATING ON WHAT A LIAR SHE IS, AS IT IS VERY OBVIOUS SHE IS ONE, SO MY WORK IS DONE :) SPOOKIE WILL CONTINUE LYING 24/7 HOWEVER, BECAUSE THAT IS ALL SHE HAS THE MATURITY TO DO. ESPECIALLY SINCE SHE HAS POOR AMY CONNED THAT SOMEONE NAMED VICKI IS AFTER HER TOO. THIS FAUX PERSON CONTACTED HER HUSBAND AND OTHER BLOGGERS, BUT I THINK WE ALL KNOW THIS IS JUST ANOTHER ONE OF SPOOKIE'S SCAMS. FOR THAT IS THE ONLY TRUE TALENT SHE HAS. SETTING PEOPLE UP AND DRAWING THEM INTO HER BLACK WIDOW SPIDER WEB. GET IT? WEB. :) LOL).

AND GOLLY, I WAS SO SCARED....ALL THIS PAST YEAR. NOT. LOL. LITTLE MISS KOOKIE SPOOKIE (AND SINCE SHE CALLS ME "THE BASTARD" IN A RECENT POST, WHICH IS A BIGOTED REMARK AND SHOULD BE ILLEGAL, KOOKIE IS VERY FITTING, ESPECIALLY SINCE SHE STARTED CALLING AMY AND I "KOOKS" FIRST) JUST HAD TO HAVE A BIG, FAT TEMPER TANTRUM ALL OVER THE WEB BECAUSE SHE CAN'T CONTROL THE POLICE. POOR BABY....
SO SHE CONTINUES STILL, NOW, TO LIE ABOUT ME ADMITTING TO WRITING A BLOG THAT SAYS SHE IS INTO DIGUSTING BEASTALITY. A SUBJECT THE POLICE DIDN'T EVEN DISCUSS WITH ME WHEN I SPOKE TO THEM IN APRIL 2009 (WHEN I WAS TOLD SPOOKIE WOULD BE TOLD TO TAKE DOWN HER POSTS AND STOP WRITING NEW POSTS ABOUT ME) ABOUT A BLOG I SAID TO THEM I NEVER WROTE AND NEVER ADMITTED TO THEM THAT I WROTE LIKE SHE IS SAYING I DID (AND IF I DID ADMIT I WROTE THAT BLOG, WOULD I SIT HERE AND LIE ABOUT THAT NOW? DUH. OF COURSE NOT). SHE ALSO CONTINUES TO LIE ABOUT THE POLICE COMING TO MY HOUSE TWICE WHICH THEY DID NOT AND MY SAYING I STARTED THE CYBERBULLYING WHICH I DID NOT DO EITHER. I TOLD THE POLICE I DID NOT WRITE THAT BLOG AND THEY LEFT IT AT THAT AND SHE JUST CANNOT STAND THAT. OR THAT I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO ACCUSE HER OF HACKING ME IF I WANT TOO. SO HENCE HER CURRENT HYSTERICAL RANTINGS ABOUT ME AND AMY BURT ALL OVER THE INTERNET, CONTINUING TO CALL US NAMES THAT ARE TOTALLY A FORM OF CYBERBULLYING.
IF SPOOKIE CAN NOT GET WHAT SHE WANTS, THEN SHE JUST STARTS LYING TO MAKE IT SEEM LIKE SHE GOT WHAT SHE WANTED. WHAT A THREE YEAR OLD.....
**********SPOOKIE ALSO PURPOSELY NEVER TALKS ABOUT THE MYSPACE GROUP SHE PUT UP TO CYBERBULLY ME TWO YEARS AGO THAT MYSPACE TOOK DOWN BECAUSE IT WAS ABUSIVE.
***********SHE NEVER TALKS ABOUT HOW AFTER SHE SENT ME THAT RUDE EMAIL ON MYSPACE I NEVER TALKED TO HER (FOR LIKE 3 WEEKS) UNTIL SHE STARTED CYBERBULLYING ME ON AN ANIMAL RIGHTS FORUM BY MAKING FUN OF MY TRADER JOE'S POST, INDICATING THAT I WAS STUPID, MOCKING HOW I WRITE AND LAUGHING AT ME. SHE NEVER ACKNOWLEDGES THE FACT THAT AFTER SHE WAS REALLY MEAN TO ME ABOUT INFORMING PEOPLE THAT SO- DELICIOUS WAS NOW BEING MARKETED UNDER THE TRADER JOES LABEL, I WASN'T EVEN RUDE BACK TO HER. OR THAT AFTER I REPLIED TO HER, SHE STARTED RIPPING ME APART, AND CYBER BEATING THE HELL OUT OF ME.
********** SHE NEVER SAID SHE WAS SORRY FOR PICKING ON ME IN THE FIRST PLACE BY MAKING FUN OF MY POST ON TRADER JOE'S EITHER.......WHICH SHE SHOULD HAVE.
SPOOKIE ALSO LIES ABOUT WHAT I SAID AS STEPFORD CHILD. AND I DID NOT SAY MOST OF WHAT SHE HIGHLIGHTS ON HER BLOG. SHE IS A GRAPHIC ARTIST AND CREATED SOME OF THESE IMAGES HERSELF WHILE OTHERS MADE FAKE MYSPACE STEPFORD CHILD ACCOUNTS PRETENDING THEY WERE ME AND THEN THEY DELETED THE ACCOUNTS CONSTANTLY. I WAS ALSO PHISHED A FEW TIMES TOO. AND MY ORIGINAL ACCOUNT WAS HACKED. JOHN GREENE IS ALSO A VERY BULLYISH TYPE OF PERSON AS ALL OF THEM ON THAT FORUM WERE, AND ALL OF THEM STARTED RIPPING ME APART BECAUSE I CRITICIZED A POEM WRITTEN SOLELY TO PROMOTE THE CORRUPT SYSTEM CALLED OPEN ADOPTION. I WAS TOLD FROM SOMEONE TOO WHO MET JOHN GREENE AT THE PROTEST LAST YEAR HE HAD A VERY AGGRESSIVE PERSONALITY, HE WAS A MAJOR TURN OFF AND THIS PERSON FELT AFRAID OF HIM AND DID NOT LIKE HIM. OTHERS FELT THAT WAY AS WELL. AND MOST ADOPTEES CAN'T STAND JOHN GREENE EITHER BECAUSE HE PLAYED A PART IN DRAFTING A DIRTY OPEN RECORDS BILL IN RHODE ISLAND. HE IS KNOWN AS A BENEDICT BASTARD....SO WHO THE HELL CARES WHAT HE THINKS ABOUT ANYONE. I STILL HAVE THE EMAIL FROM THE PERSON WHO TOLD ME THEY WERE NOT IMPRESSED WITH GREENE AT THE PROTEST TOO. DITTO FOR ADOPTED JANE. I'VE ALSO HEARD AN EARFULL ABOUT HER ...AND EVERYONE KNOWS THAT CERTAIN SEARCH ANGEL'S ON MYSPACE ARE CONNECTED TO ADOPTION AGENCIES AND MANY PEOPLE TOLD ME AS WELL THAT MOST OF THE NATURAL MOTHERS WHO SAY THEY GAVE UP THEIR KIDS IN OPEN ADOPTION AND ARE ALL HAPPY ABOUT IT, LIKE THE ONES WHO ATTACKED ME ARE FROM THE NCFA AND ARE INVOLVED IN THE ADOPTION INDUSTRY, SO I WILL CONSIDER THE SOURCE..ESPECIALLY SINCE SPOOKIE SAID HERSELF SHE WAS SENT BY PEOPLE EQUATED WITH THE ADOPTION INDUSTRY... IT AMAZES ME THAT SPOOKIE CAN ACTUALLY THINK THE WAY SHE ACTS IS PERFECTLY FINE....WHAT A HYPOCRITE! I MEAN REALLY, WHAT KIND OF EXAMPLE DOES SHE SET? AN EYE FOR AN EYE LEAVES THE WHOLE WORLD BLIND....TOO BAD SHE IS TOO UNINTELLIGENT TO UNDERSTAND THAT....AND GEE IT MUST OF TAKEN HER A LONG TIME TO WRITE ALL THOSE POSTS, RESPONSIBLE MOTHERS OF 3 YEAR OLDS DON'T SPEND THAT MUCH TIME ON THE INTERNET. AND SPOOKIE SPENDS MORE TIME ONLINE THAN DOING ANYTHING ELSE AS ONE CAN TELL FROM ALL SHE HAS OUT THERE. IT IS SAD SHE LOVES HER COMPUTER AND CUTTING ME DOWN MORE THAN SHE LOVES BEING WITH HER SON AND DOING ALL THE WORK THAT NEEDS TO BE DONE TO TAKE CARE OF A CHILD......TIME AND WORK THAT IF DONE RIGHT LEAVES NO TIME FOR BEING ON THE INTERNET AS MUCH AS SHE IS........AND HOW DOES SHE KNOW HOW MANY ALTERATIONS I HAVE MADE TO MY NEW BLOG LAYOUT? BECAUSE SHE IS ON MY BLOG 24/7 AND SHE NEVER EVER LEAVES!!! SHE HAS IT UP ALL DAY LONG! ALL NIGHT LONG TOO! AND I KNOW THAT BECAUSE MY STAT COUNTER TELLS ME SO. ISN'T THAT STALKING BEHAVIOR? DAMN STRAIGHT......
**********SO WHAT IS THE EXPLANATION FOR HER CYBERBULLYING BEHAVIOR THAT SHE SPEWED ON ME ON THAT ANIMAL RIGHTS FORUM? SHE WAS WRONG TO TREAT ME THAT WAY AND SHE HAS YET TO ADMIT THAT.
**********ALL I DID WAS FIGHT BACK . AND SHE CALLS THAT STALKING AND CYBERBULLYING. PFFT.
**********ISN'T SHE THE POT CALLING THE KETTLE BLACK. SHE STARTED THIS WHOLE WAR.
**********AND SHE ALSO PICKED ON OTHER PEOPLE LIKE CASSI, JOY, GERSHOM, AMY, ULB, AND MANY MORE WHILE SHE WAS CYBERKILLING ME. YET I HAVE NEVER PICKED ON ANY OF HER "FRIENDS" AND NO ONE ELSE IS COMPLAINING ABOUT ME BUT HER.
**********WHY? BECAUSE I WAS SET UP......SHE HAS DONE ALL OF THIS ON PURPOSE. BECAUSE I QUOTED CHRIST IN MY MYSPACE AND SHE HAS SAID SHE "HATES ALL THIS CHRISTIAN CRAP".
**********AND BECAUSE IMMORAL AND DANGEROUS PEOPLE WHO I HAVE GOTTEN IN TROUBLE AND CRITICIZED IN THE PAST ONLINE AND OFF WANT REVENGE ON ME BECAUSE THEY ARE IMMATURE, SELFISH, GREEDY, VIOLENT, MENTALLY DISTURBED AND CONSCIENCELESS SPOILED BRATS. AND THEY TOLD HER TO DO THIS TO ME......
AND BECAUSE OF ADOPTION TROLLS ON THE INTERNET.....

You're the reason there are trolls, "Kat." If not for you, trolls never would've come to be. It's a fact. You're so miserable, and trolls feed on your negative energy.






SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 2011



Dear Kat McAboy:

Don't think for a moment I've forgotten. As long as your vile spew, libel and HATE remains on your shit blog, I will remind THE WORLD what a fake, narcissistic bully you are. You're no victim, you're an abuser!

Remember this piece of your "work," Ms. McAboy? Well, I do.

You'll go to HELL for this crap. I promise.


(below is the writings of Marilyn McAboy)























…she retaliated quite fast.


She visited both this blog and my personal blog, then went to her perverted and sick blog and posted a new entry, with copyrighted images she stole off my other site. She ignores the copyright notices. She has no regard for anything legal, for laws and for others' ownership of property. She gets off on this because she won't and can't post photos of herself — never has. She's really a coward in a wolf's costume.



Above blog entry written by "Kat" aka The Improper Adoptee, aka Marilyn.


You can't feel sorry for a woman like this; she knows what she is doing. This is a person with mental illnesses, BUT, she is methodically harassing me, my family — my father with stage 4 cancer AND my two (YES, 2) year old son — even after being sent the numerous CEASE AND DESIST notices, the copyright infringement notice and asked to stop in a cordial manner weeks ago. It's posted here on my blog; I left her a comment asking her to end this sick game. I don't think she wants to stop. She could, if she really and seriously wanted to. We have to assume she is really enjoying victimizing me and now my family, aside from the people I have worked for or with and even calling the advertising agency I do freelance with.


This is her game, and she plans her moves ahead of time. I can only ask so many times before I contact federal authorities. And I AM GOING TO.


These are other blogs The Improper Adoptee did. "SPOOKIE IS SCHIZOPHRENIC" is her third attempt at an anonymous harassment blog.





Take note of her new profile. Read closely.
Read "THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE" after. You'll see why…keep your eyes open.


THE IMPROPER ADOPTEE


Illustration Credit: Alix Northrup, Ullman Design

To The Improper Adoptee: CEASE AND DESIST.
STOP HARASSING, CYBERBULLYING
and THREATENING ME.
Click the link below in purple for information on


To Marilyn-The Improper Adoptee: 
Cease and Desist the Libel and Cruelty you display towards me. I've asked you for so many months, and through two winters now.
I said PLEASE STOP.
When my father was diagnosed with cancer, I asked you to end this sick game of yours, and I asked you privately. You didn't post my "please…" because it was too honest and it came from a place you don't have within you.


STOP ABUSING ME VIA THE INTERNET, STOP BULLYING ME AND STOP STEALING MY PHOTOS I POST THAT ARE SPECIFICALLY LABELED AS NOT FOR USE BY ANYONE ELSE, ESPECIALLY YOU. STOP YOUR CYBERPSYCHO BEHAVIOR TOWARDS ME.

I've documented every move you've made. I have proof. You? Nothing. You're an anti-semitic bigoted cyberpath abusive bully. You're going to go down and get listed on every blog that is about cyber-abuse and cyber-sickos across the United States and beyond.

Is this jealousy? Besides HATE, there must be more reasons for her abuse and seriously sick obsession.


Proving the Improper Adoptee is a FRAUD

HINT #1: 








Sorry, Marilyn, I'd already documented this slip-up.



Wednesday, March 17, 2010



I'm Leaving Blogger......

****SECOND RECENT UPDATE****
(ALL UPDATE REMARKS ARE IN RESPONSE TO SPOOKIE'S CONTINIOUS CYBERBULLYING AND LIBELOUS POSTS ABOUT ME THAT SHE REFUSES TO STOP WRITING).

WELL IT IS THE FIRST DAY OF FEB, 2011 AND I HAVE NOT BEEN CONTACTED BY THE POLICE FOR CALLING VICKI, I MEAN SPOOKIE/ SPOOKIECATS/MITTENS THE CAT A HACKER WHICH SHE IS. GEE, I HAVE BEEN WAITING SINCE FEBRUARY 28TH OF LAST YEAR!!!!!!!!!!, 2010, WHEN THE COMPULSIVE LIAR STARTED TO ANNOUNCE ALL OVER THE INTERNET THAT THEY WERE COMING HERE AND I WAS GOING TO JAIL!!! (THE LOSER STILL HAS THIS UP ON HER CARE2 SITE!! CAN ANYONE SAY SOUR GRAPES..)(& NOW SHE HAS POOR AMY CONNED THAT SOMEONE NAMED VICKI IS AFTER HER TOO. THIS PERSON CONTACTED HER HUSBAND AND OTHER BLOGGERS, BUT I THINK WE ALL KNOW THIS IS JUST ANOTHER ONE OF SPOOKIE'S SCAMS AND SO IS SPOOKIE PRETENDING TO BE AMY'S "FRIEND". LEFTIST PIGS LIKE SPOOKIE ARE BEYOND IMMATURE....) 



UPDATE: Also see

The "Terroist." Cyberpath Marilyn McAboy

The Improper Adoptee, also known as The Online Terrorist.

Marilyn McAboy of Orleans, MA -- "The Town Crazy"

Marilyn McAboy, aka The Improper Adoptee.